Cyber

[Honey123]

Cyber...yes I have mostly as writing exercises.

As long as the other person involved knows what you are using it for, I believe it's ok. As a writer of porn, it helps me.

 

[rgraham666]

Yeah I have.

As a poverty stricken wierdo, it's about the only outlet for my starved passion except for writing smut.

My cyber sweetie has drifted away though. Wish I knew why.

 

[TheEarl]

Do I cyber? No.
Have I ever? er, no.
Why? Because I'm weird.

Actually I'm really weird. I've never done drugs/smoked either, never even considered trying, the thought gives me the willies, don't drink. It is the same with Cyber. All I can think is , "why in the world would anyone...?"

While I'm confessing my sins, I'll admit to a similar bafflement when considering visiting prostitutes: I'm all in favor of the profession, but wouldn't do it, single or not.

No moral/religious thing here (I'm atheist/anarchist). No danger issue (motorcyclist, pilot, scuba...)

I'm just weird.

You're not weird. I don't smoke and my only drug is alcohol. Prostitutes don't interest me (sex is about the connection to me) either.

The Earl

 

[shereads]

An addiction to cybering would get in the way of my time at the AH and writing roleplay.

 

[Amy Sweet]

bump.

 

[NoJo]

DONT DO IT, Amy. It'll ruin you. It'll put ten years on your age.

 

[Amy Sweet]

I'll post a longer post myself when I have more time.

I'm liking this thread so far, I hope more will add too it.

 

[Amy Sweet]

DONT DO IT, Amy. It'll ruin you. It'll put ten years on your age.

 

[Rhys]

I find it boring as fuck.

Unless of course you can find someone that can actually write then its okay.

I have more fun creating impromptu stories with other writers I admire ...to me that's not really cybering...its more of an artistic challenge.

My partner has been known to contribute, but he's busy with his own thing right now and doesn't care...he gets the benefit of it anyway.

 

[tolyk]

I've cybered, more times than I can recall in fact. As some others have said, it is boring unless you find someone who is either creative or writes well.

Webcams help too, but thats my exhibitionist side shining through.

I did it once when I was attatched, but we were going through an open period in our relationship (long story that I'm not getting into)

Personal rules? I don't believe I have any. Though, as some others have also said, sex is about the connection for me.. I can't have sex without some emotions, but cyber sex is different. It is mainly just a way to heighten masterbation, which gets kind of boring after a time.

Would I cyber with people from lit? Hell yeah, there is a lot of sexy ladies on here.

I've never tried it as a writing experiment, haven't done it in quite some time. Maybe it would inspire me a bit to finish a story. *shrug*

Don't think I answered all the questions, but I'm extremely tired and not thinking clear. I'll edit later maybe.

 

[orangeangel]

cool

 

[shereads]

Honestly, this place has helped me to learn that innocent flirting is nothing to be scared of and has allowed me to control my impulse urges better.

Oh, right. Like you were controlling your impulses when you got me cyber-pregnant. At least have the courage to own up to what you've done, and claim your little son or daughter. (Post #927 ring a bell, daddy?)

<sniff>

 

[sweetnpetite]

I somewhat agree with those who say it is boring, it sure can be, especially with people who aren't very articulate.

I've done it, but what I find more stimulating is hearing about other people's sex lifes A really personal conversation like that can get really hot! you can ask questions about the details that interest you.

We started out that I would cyber with a female as a sort of 'forplay game' between the Mr. and myself. I've never actually been with a woman, so that makes that aspect more interesting. In general, why have fake something when you can have real something?

more to come...

 

[sweetnpetite]

Re: Re: Cyber

I've cybered, more times than I can recall in fact. As some others have said, it is boring unless you find someone who is either creative or writes well.

t, your pic on your profile is my favorie so far. you look great

[I hijacked my own thread]

 

[tolyk]

Re: Re: Re: Cyber

t, your pic on your profile is my favorie so far. you look great

[I hijacked my own thread]

I've had that there since I signed up. But thank you.

 

[Guest]

Oh, right. Like you were controlling your impulses when you got me cyber-pregnant. At least have the courage to own up to what you've done, and claim your little son or daughter. (Post #927 ring a bell, daddy?)

<sniff>

damnit sher, you clack me up.
nevah change

 

[sweetnpetite]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Cyber

I've had that there since I signed up. But thank you.

i never looked before!