cyber stalker...

[dcraz]

Congratulations

Milky,

Congrats on getting rid of him.

But keep your eye out. He may still try to find you. Or take on a new identity so you do not realize who is.

If he is truly gone. Great. But please remain vigilent and as always, be careful.

Have a great and safe weekend!

DC in TX

 

[_Milky_Whites_]

Thank you dcraz. You know, I had actually thought of that. But I figured it was just paranoid. I think Ill just stay out of yahoo awhile.
Oh, and to clear up any confusion....
No, I didnt meet him here at Lit. I met him on yahoo. He just found me somehow one day, started messeging me. He knows about Lit, but I dont think he comes here.
Thanks all!

 

[jeepman6]

Thank you dcraz. You know, I had actually thought of that. But I figured it was just paranoid. I think Ill just stay out of yahoo awhile.
Oh, and to clear up any confusion. He knows about Lit, but I dont think he comes here.
Thanks all!

But if he knows you do watch out for him he may follow you here.

 

[graveflower]

wow....i thought i just had some hardup nutcase on my heals. You guys make it sound like a bonafide crime though. Should I actually be that worried about him? I mean, he's made no threats or anything. Just begging and pleading. Whining and crying. He emails, he hangs around watching. And if I sign on and dont speak to him he gets all huffy. If he speaks and I dont reply he gets whiny. If I dont go on one day I get emails crying about how it must be really over...booo hooo hooo. Gee, Ive only told him that it never started and yeah, consider it over about 20 times now.
I know that sometimes some lines can get fuzzy when it comes to anything online. But geez, some ppl really need some therapy. You dont fall for a complete stranger in a matter of days, especially when you have family of your own. Its really sad and its what makes this all so scary sometimes.

it seems to me that half the problem is......
no matter how much you say you don't wanna talk to him
he e-mails you.....and you reply with"I don't wanna talk to you"
he is taking you replying to him as..you wanting to talk to him
if you infact don't wanna talk to him anymore
1) block him from yahoo messenger and delete him
2) black his e-mail address from getting into your box
if you stop answering I am almost 100% sure he will leave you alone
if you have any questions on how to block/delete on those e-mails or messengers feel free to PM me and I can go into more detail

 

[raphy]

But if he knows you do watch out for him he may follow you here.

I think we'd all tell exactly where he can shove his stalking if he dared show his face around here.