Cyber or Phone?

SexySammi

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I am not really into cybering, although I will flirt and make lewd comments online :D But phone sex really turns me on. Maybe it is because I can just talk and it seems more personal. Also maybe it is because I don't have to think about what to type while I am trying to get off hehe. How do other people feel about this? Would you rather Cyber or Phone?
 
Much rather phone than cyber. Cyber had some initial novelty at first, but exactly how does one perfect the fine art of one handed typing? :)

Now, if I do cyber, which is rarely, it is either with some one I know very well or it is something I do for the pure enjoyment (power??) of getting a man off.

However, I don't "do phone", really, either. There is only one very special person who gets that priviledge!
 
SexyChele said:
Much rather phone than cyber. Cyber had some initial novelty at first, but exactly how does one perfect the fine art of one handed typing? :)

However, I don't "do phone", really, either. There is only one very special person who gets that priviledge!

I couldn't agree more ... There is something erotic about hearing that other person just breathing that does it for me
 
I also find it more relaxing to lie in bed and fantasize with my phone partner, than to sit in a desk chair...... the arm rests get in my way ..... and my mouse gets sticky
 
Phone is so much better. Because you could hear your partner gasp, pant and moan with you. Where in computer, kinda hard to do that. So phone is always better, any ladies free? :)
 
Also, it is so much more fun to hear that you have gotten someone so turned on, and listening to them cum, then to see someone type Im cumming, and know that it can't be true.
 
Thinking about this poses another question. Is there anyone who really truly honestly cums while they are cybering???:rolleyes:
 
Phone Sex!!!!!!!!!!

To me I love it, next best thing to being there. It is a real turn on. Cyber is ok,but phone is just better.:p
 
i actually do

i really do cum when i say i am..unless of course i am tired and not really masterbating.which is not often since i masterbate an awful lot..:)
 
about the phone

I'm not into cyber either, it doesn't seem like it'd be very pleasant since it kind of creates more work than play. However, I would probably be down for more phone sex except that let's say you were to meet somebody online to initiate the activity...how do you know if you exchange numbers or whatever that that person won't continuously try and call you?
Just a precautionary question from me, it seems sketchy sometimes.
 
Whats the # again....lol..

Telly sex is much more personnal.. Some want to leave it just as a fantasie and not actually talk to the person in voice.. so there 4 cyber seems the way to go... but i couldnt agree more kind of hard to get off and type.. im talented but my mind just doesnt work to good like that!! lol.. maybe im slow who knows.....

but hey cyber sessions sumetimes leads to voice cyber through whatever PM- IM u might b using most of them have audios on them.. and we all have mics.. so everyone likes to get a little creative @ times!!
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Melissa
 
SexySammi said:
Thinking about this poses another question. Is there anyone who really truly honestly cums while they are cybering???:rolleyes:

There were times when I first got into cybering that I did. However, it is much more difficult for the other person to know what is going on, and when you don't respond for a time (because you are right in the middle, and just can't type the "I'm cumming" thing), it is a bit distracting to keep readin, "You there? What's up?" :D

Now, however, I don't - too much work. But I don't mind typing out story/scenario that gets a guy off.
 
I thoroughly enjoy phone sex but reserve it for someone I've taken the time to get to know and trust. Believe me, with my avatar, I get requests all the time. I usually don't bother responding to them.

What I enjoy most about the phone is the stimulation that the human voice can give, especially when your partner has both a sexy voice and a good command of the English language. Gets me excited just thinking about it. Oh, and I usually exchange pictures with him first, so I can visualize who it is I'm turning on and being turned on by. That's where the trust really comes in.

Build the trust and they will cum!

I didn't really say that, did I? ;)
 
one after the other

i think a relationship that begins online, moves on to phone, gains in intimacy and intensity as well as imagination can set up an offline meeting that is truly explosive. i don't know here webcam fits in, but i know it would. just foreplay in the 2nd millenium.

there's also a talent question. not everyone is good at cyber, and could be better on the phone. being a good writer (and typist!) definitely helps.

phone requires "letting go".

notice i'm suggesting that cyber/phone/fuck with the same person is what is so intense. letting cyber and phone get in the way of offline can be a problem i think.
 
phone #s

i've been a bit reckless about giving out my number. haven't been burned yet, and fancy myself a good judge of trustworthiness, but i bet i'm not as good as i think.
 
phone for me, too

I can cyber with relative strangers, but it's been a mixed bag. If I know someone well, then the phone is the only way to go (if you can't have the real thing, of course).

~H~
 
phone or cyber

I have enjoyed both with a special woman. It has been alot of fun doing the instant message to get one another really turned on. then pick up the phone and continued. I have long/vocal orgasms and you can't express that in writing.
Love the phone and willing to do more if any ladies are interested.
 
Phone for sure

I do a great deal of cybering, but phone sex is the next best thing to being in person. And since I have a date set up for next week, I'm very happy right now. :p


I agree with others that since phone is so much more personal, then there should be a period of getting to know each other. ;)


Consider this. Soon vid phones will be cheap enough for us poor folks to buy. I can hardly wait for that day. :D
 
phone - much better - breathing, moans and groans and grunts and wet noises....mmmmmm

someone (sexychele?) brought up the subject of power. I agree; it does give me an amazing feeling, knowing that i've got someone off online.

And lastly, yes, i always cum when i'm cybering, unless i have already told the person i'm not partaking. I have never faked an orgasm, I wouldn't even do it with a stranger over the net. I don't think. Actually, reading that back, perhaps I would...! But have never had to!

Smiley
 
Cybering can be pretty stimulating, but it doesn't usually do it for me. I'm perfectly willing to let the lady on the other end just sit back and read, if she wants, but it doesn't usually work that way for me. Phone will get my vote every time. Besides, hearing the results is SO much better than reading them.
 
Giving out your number can be a little bit scary, but you have to set ground rules I think. Although, once I gave my number to a guy from France, thinking, yeah hehe one time fun, no problem. Then he started calling me about 20 times a day. It really got a little bit freaky. Finally after about 3 days of me continuously hanging up on him, he got the message LOL :rolleyes:
 
Definately phone sex! Cybering is sometimes fun with someone new but nothing beats phone sex with someone you're in love with!
 
<<<<<<Too chicken>>>>>>>

Im a little too chicken. I enjoy the odd cyber experience but it mostly feels a bit cheap. I have had a couple online meetings that were amazing though. I tried the phone once but when I gave my number out the husband called me back and reamed out my wife! Not a pleasant experience. My wife has been half teasing, half pissed off at me about it ever since.

The idea of a good phone sex experience is very tempting though....:rolleyes:
 
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Phone

I prefer phone sex myself, I like hearing the voices and the breathing and all that. :)
 
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