Curious...

[gimmeadaiquiri]

How common is it for a straight guy to like having his girlfriend do him in the ass??

It's definitely part of the relationship I have with my girlfriend, and I wouldn't change it...

Thoughts??

 

[MR.GGG]

Whatever turns your crank, GD. Is the feeling mutual? That'd be kewl too.
You know, ... what good for the "goose" (puny) and all that.

I think it's funny that so many guys won't allow their woman to touch their nipples or their ass because they are scared they might turn gay or something. Hey, nerve ending are nerve endings. Touch me there and my entire personality including sexual orientation is gonna change? I don't think so.

Your g/f may be RARE (that's a good thing) but "normal" is all in the eye of the beholder, right?

Enjoy.

 

[gimmeadaiquiri]

Thanks for the input Triple G!

 

[peachykeen]

Judging by the veritable tidal wave of mail I have gotten in response to my story on just this subject, I would say it is an extremely common fantasy. However, the number of men who act on it, I don't know.

A typical feedback letter I get goes something like this:

"I read your story and oh wow! It is as if you read my mind. I would love for my wife/girlfriend to do me with a strap on but I could never ask her. I wonder if I am weird to want this so much. I think she would think I am a freak if I asked. I wish she would just do it as a surprise like in your story. Thank you."

So like I said, common fantasy, dunno how many actually do it.

 

[symplesimon]

I am glad it is commen

I have asked and the wife wont do it....then again she wont let me in her ass either. I would like to do all of this but i respect her wishes

 

[gimmeadaiquiri]

Peachy: Thanks for dropping a line-- I am definitely going to have to read your stuff.

Symple: You're a great guy to respect your wife's wishes. That migth actually pay off for you. My gf didn't want any sort of ass play when we got together. She's like "I have a perfectly good hole right here" type of thing. We took this impromptu trip to an adult bookstore and picked up this magazine and read it together, and she started to get interested in assplay... I don't know, things just developed from there.

I know it's always easier when it's mutual.

Good luck!

 

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[gimmeadaiquiri]

Hehehe...

Yeah, my GF uses a dildo. I mean, I used to experiment with my sexuality before, but it has nothing to do with my present girlfriend whom I have been with for a couple years.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

How common is it for a straight guy to like having his girlfriend do him in the ass??



Thoughts??

Well, I wouldn't even worry about whether it was common or not. As long as it's something pleasurable for both you and your partner, and both of you are comfortable doing it....I say GO FOR IT.

 

[Tallfella]

Yeah just enjoy. It dont matter as long as its nice for both of you

 

[dreamer]

Ok, I'll step up...I've thought about it...haven't done it yet..but well...given the right circumstances. <shrug> It SEEMS like it'd be ok...I just think it'd be a bit too intense.

As for your question...if you enjoy it and she enjoys it HOW CAN THAT BE WRONG?

I'm all for anything two consenting adults enjoy together...

 

[Hotred911]

I think it's perfectly normal. It's just a bundle of nerves that require a little anal play to pleasure a man. I know that my husband enjoys it, and I love knowing that I can do something so intimate with him and give him great pleasure at the same time.

 

[gimmeadaiquiri]

Thank you so much everybody! I got such a positive response-- anyone who is thinking about trying it, do it! I mean, it's really intense and it takes getting used to, but doesn't everything??

I knew it wasn't "wrong" or anything, I guess I just wanted to know what people thought of it... I know some of my friends are like "What... Dude, no..."

I like the Lit community... You guys are rockin' it

 

[lovechild27]

If it feels good..who cares? I think it is normal. there are a lot of nerve endings back there, and it isnt gay to like them stimulated. Have a fun, greasy time

 

[Lust Engine]

If it's right for you & her, who are we to argue? If it feels great for you and she enjoys it too, more power to the both of you!

What's normal for one may be strange to another.

Keep enjoying as far as I'm concerned! You don't need our blessings on this one. Keep enjoying!

 

[lilpriss]

It's refreshing to see this thread. I think ass play ought to be on everyone's menu... but I might be a freak! hehe.

Seriously though... all of the men (with the exception of one) that I've been with have been totally freaked when I brought up the subject... The only one who let me go there, I met on Lit... imagine that.

I don't know what the big deal is, it's just another part of your body, and between consenting adults... I say you go boy (toy)

LOL

 

[DuckLover]

I've never had a gf penetrate my ass with more than a finger. I find anal play very stimulating and fun, though oddly it feels better when I finger myself than when she does it. <shrug>

Mr. GGG mentioned nipples and holy shit is that a turn on for me!! I am in ecstasy when a woman sucks/nibbles/plays on my nipples; I could lie there squirming for hours letting her do that! As one said, it's like I have two little clits on my chest!

 

[GreenEyedGodess]

Completely norrmal in my book!
It's wonderful that you let your girlfriend have free reign with your body. It's what all women want. So continue to enjoy it!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

If it's right for you & her, who are we to argue? If it feels great for you and she enjoys it too, more power to the both of you!

What's normal for one may be strange to another.

Keep enjoying as far as I'm concerned! You don't need our blessings on this one. Keep enjoying!

ditto

 

[Sarcasm82]

Weird

I think it would be such a turn on to see the male in the opposite role. You see the man penetrating the female, but never see the female penetrate the male... granted women don't have a penis, well some do these days, but to use a dildo/strap on. When I start becoming sexually active, I would want to do that to my mate. I just he's man enough to take it, lol. I think that is really erotic. GRRRr