Curious guys

In his studies in the forties and fifties, Kinsey found the majority of males he interviewed admitted to at least one same sex encounter in their lives. And women, too. He also concluded that ALL men may have the ability and propensity to be bi, at lest some degree of homosexuality. He found almost no one fit the actual "normal" standards.

Wrong conclusion. Could well be "tried it, didn't really like it. Once was enough."
 
I dunno. Once *I'd* sucked cock, it was not "bi-curiousity" that kept me looking. It was lusty memory, and lust for more. Sure wasn't "just" curiosity." It was, to me, the gay side of me seeking satisfaction. The other side of me -- my str8 side -- liked cunt for itself, and was quite happy with my cock up cunt, moving in and out. My gay side would suck or be sucked, either one. When I was lying there, being ucked off, if I closed my eyes, I would go back and forth -- is that a woman or a guy sucking me off? I could get off on fantasizing either one was the other. Somebody tells me that's pansexual. Fine by me -- just keep sucking!

Agreed.

Here's a way to do the cock hunt. First, admit to yourself that you are on a cock hunt. (although it may just be sometimes!) Stop whining, stop being ashamed, stop being a timid little wimp. Admit you want cock, and admit to yourself you are going on a cock hunt. Then do it. Here's how.

Look at all the gay bars and gay friendly places in your city. Or in another city you frequent. For each place you check out, tell yourself as you go through the door, I'm on a little cock hunt!" Go in and have a beer, check them out. Eliminate the dance clubs and the ones that look weird, full of bikers or wannabees, etc. You want one that looks and feels relaxed, in a convenient location. A place anyone would easily walk in and sit down. That means no real flashy bozos trying to look super gay hanging around out front. You get the picture. Go back a couple times, different times of the day and night. At this point, you've got your meeting place.

When you find the one, try setting up a routine. Go there every Friday at 6pm or something. Probably when you find this place, it will have a fair number of hot babes. A lot of girls with sex on their brain like a place like this. Obviously it's nice if the parking lot is secluded enough for a quick blow job. Find out, go by at 11pm on a Saturday. What about a hotel close by or a motel? Again, check out the options.

Next, set up a new email to correspond with. I wouldn't use the regular email mainly because of spammers. If you want your privacy, get a second phone, pay as you go type. Then get on one or two of the online gay or dating sites.

You now begin your cock hunt. It's easy, right? You have the time and the place, the way to communicate with your cocks, and you really don't care if the cock - excuse me, the guy - shows up. No big deal. You are relaxed, you are having fun, you took it all step by step. Your goal is to invite some lonely internet dick to a meeting at a friendly, safe place. A couple a week.

Worst case, you are sitting there at your regular table, at the regular time and two or three cocks, excuse me, guys, show up.

Be careful, use protection.
 
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Hi, same pattern than most of the guys here: straight, love women, but deeply attracted to cocks, big cocks. I would love to suck them and being fucked like a whore in all fours, but I don't want any other contact with the man.

I have thought a lot about my condition, and I know that there are many men in the same situation, so I would like to share my thoughts, just in case they can help someone.

I don't feel like I am even bi. When I watch a bi porn film, I don't really like most of it (except those in which a man plays a role similar to mine, which are not very common). I cannot imagine myself having a boyfriend, and never ever have felt attracted to another man. So, where my desire comes from?

In my case, a deep pain regarding my relationships with women. In the beginning, it was just shemales, I felt "curious". Little by little, I started to search for dominant shemales pounding guys, and finally I put the "gender" out from the equation.

My new desires hurt me even more, because the remorse after the orgasms was killing me. But one fine day I realized that the more in pain I was, the more intense was my desire, and that changed everything.

In my opinion, what pushes a guy like me into that direction is the need for detaching from a pain that hurts our self-confidence as men. The idea of living the passive role frees ourselves from what makes us suffer, and the best of all: it is harmless, because it's out of our "romantic scope". In this sense, the bigger the cock is the better the role-change works.

Don't get me wrong, it's not that I want to get "cured" from my "special" sexual desire, just the opposite. I don't want it to hide anything, because I want to solve the problem, not the symptom. Anyway, the truth is that now I also enjoy beautiful cocks in a sexual way, and I doubt it will change whatever it happens to my romantic life. Well, maybe that makes me a little bi after all :p.
 
Hi, same pattern than most of the guys here: straight, love women, but deeply attracted to cocks, big cocks. I would love to suck them and being fucked like a whore in all fours, but I don't want any other contact with the man.

I have thought a lot about my condition, and I know that there are many men in the same situation, so I would like to share my thoughts, just in case they can help someone.

I don't feel like I am even bi. When I watch a bi porn film, I don't really like most of it (except those in which a man plays a role similar to mine, which are not very common). I cannot imagine myself having a boyfriend, and never ever have felt attracted to another man. So, where my desire comes from?

In my case, a deep pain regarding my relationships with women. In the beginning, it was just shemales, I felt "curious". Little by little, I started to search for dominant shemales pounding guys, and finally I put the "gender" out from the equation.

My new desires hurt me even more, because the remorse after the orgasms was killing me. But one fine day I realized that the more in pain I was, the more intense was my desire, and that changed everything.

In my opinion, what pushes a guy like me into that direction is the need for detaching from a pain that hurts our self-confidence as men. The idea of living the passive role frees ourselves from what makes us suffer, and the best of all: it is harmless, because it's out of our "romantic scope". In this sense, the bigger the cock is the better the role-change works.

Don't get me wrong, it's not that I want to get "cured" from my "special" sexual desire, just the opposite. I don't want it to hide anything, because I want to solve the problem, not the symptom. Anyway, the truth is that now I also enjoy beautiful cocks in a sexual way, and I doubt it will change whatever it happens to my romantic life. Well, maybe that makes me a little bi after all :p.
With all due respect, I think you're making it more complicated than it needs to be. If you don't like the term "bi" don't use it. Why have labels anyway? Like what you like in the short time we are allotted here. As long as we're all adults and nobody gets hurt who doesn't want to, it's ok to like what you like. Can you tell I don't care much for pseudo-psychological analysis? ;-)
 
With all due respect, I think you're making it more complicated than it needs to be. If you don't like the term "bi" don't use it. Why have labels anyway? Like what you like in the short time we are allotted here. As long as we're all adults and nobody gets hurt who doesn't want to, it's ok to like what you like. Can you tell I don't care much for pseudo-psychological analysis? ;-)

In my humble opinion, the wolrld of sexuality is indeed complicated. Maybe you do not agree with me, and I respect that, but there is no need to call my thoughts "pseudo-psycological". Maybe I've been clumsy expressing myself, sorry for that. Here you have an interesting reading about what I was trying to say:

http://www.glbtqarchive.com/ssh/straight_men_who_S.pdf
 
... the remorse after the orgasms was killing me. But one fine day I realized that the more in pain I was, the more intense was my desire, and that changed everything.......

What's forbidden sure can be the most erotic, hottest thing.
 
Personally, I am enamored of smaller cocks. Dates back to my youthful sex with my best friend, I think, also my A H is very tiny. my 3/4 inch dildo is too fat
 
Hey gents, great to see this thread, especially with all the married guys out there too.

41 yo married guy here, just been really more and more curious the past few years, never have really acted on it, but maybe I will one day.

I'm a run of the mill married dude, open minded, playful, looking to catch up with other curious married guys, let me know if you're in the same boat, would love to catch up.

For some reason also its stronger with older married guys especially! :)

Florida here, not like it matters.

Exactly the same
 
No romantic interest with guys but I have to admit that I have gotten very curious about the taste and feel of another cock over the past few years. Not sure where that will lead, but its on the the bucket list....
 
No romantic interest with guys but I have to admit that I have gotten very curious about the taste and feel of another cock over the past few years. Not sure where that will lead, but its on the the bucket list....

And then you meet the right guy...
 
I feel the same, someday I guess!


No romantic interest with guys but I have to admit that I have gotten very curious about the taste and feel of another cock over the past few years. Not sure where that will lead, but its on the the bucket list....
 
almost everyone is like you man, I know. I have seduced many 'straight' men. Someeven like being fucked,most love cock!
 
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