Curious about woman masturbation???

[rcll3]

OK so I have been with my finace now for almost 8 years and plan to get married early next year. I asked her if she ever masturbates and she replies no. I tell her that I dont care if she does because I personally think it is sexy as hell. She still replies no. I have never caught her and she owns no vibirator or any sex toys so I do believe her. My only question is "is this normal?" I know I do masturbate and enjoy it very much. She says she has tryed to finger herself when she was younger but just didnt get enjoyment out of it like real sex. Any thoughts on this?? Is this normal?? Am I just a horndog for masturbating once, sometimes twice a day??

 

[DefineNormal]

horn dawg

pervert , sexual deviant ..


Just like the rest of us ...

 

[haute_cuisine]

I thought all women did. But I have met a few who do not and have never played with toys. Well they say they don't but I don't know if I believe that. How can anyone not want to pleasure themselves?? I don't get it.

 

[cherylashi26]

Some people have been raised to believe that it's dirty/sinful. Which is unfortunate.

 

[HornyVikingMN]

Not Alone

My wife still says she doesn't - and I completely believe her. She is just not a very sexual person. I keep encouraging her, hoping that one day she'll have a mind-blowing orgasm by her own hand or a toy and realize what we've been missing all these years. A guy's gotta have hope...

 

[strapon_tales]

My wife still says she doesn't - and I completely believe her. She is just not a very sexual person. I keep encouraging her, hoping that one day she'll have a mind-blowing orgasm by her own hand or a toy and realize what we've been missing all these years. A guy's gotta have hope...

This reminds me a lot of my situation. It's so difficult to keep a lid on the frustration when you're a ridiculously sexual person, and your partner isn't. :-(

 

[shyandhorny69]

It is unfortunate when a person is brought up being told not to masturbate, i was told the same and didnt do it until i was in my early 20s. Havent stopped since

 

[Jessica_29]

OK so I have been with my finace now for almost 8 years and plan to get married early next year. I asked her if she ever masturbates and she replies no. I tell her that I dont care if she does because I personally think it is sexy as hell. She still replies no. I have never caught her and she owns no vibirator or any sex toys so I do believe her. My only question is "is this normal?" I know I do masturbate and enjoy it very much. She says she has tryed to finger herself when she was younger but just didnt get enjoyment out of it like real sex. Any thoughts on this?? Is this normal?? Am I just a horndog for masturbating once, sometimes twice a day??

Try this- show her the threads
Women who love to masturbate with other Women
and
Finally a thread for women who are currently masturbating

If she still doesn't get it, have her PM me, we'll chat.

 

[Rowan00]

I dated a woman for seven months who swore she never did, and another girl for four months who I suspect didn't, because she just rarely seemed to think about sex. It's something that is hard for me to understand. I relate much better to a woman who understands the joys of self-pleasure.

 

[rcll3]

Wow....love all the replies. Thankyou all for your insight and support on my thread. I will have her read a few threads and see what she says. I dont know how she does it....I tell her all the time if I were a woman I wouldnt be able to keep my hands off of myself lol.

 

[Paul_Chance]

12% Don't

Kinsey said 5% of men and 12% of women report having never masturbated. I've been at it since I figured out how as kid, LOL, so that always surprised me. I know a woman who states she has never masturbated - she says, quite seriously, it just doesn't do anything for her - she'd rather fuck.

 

[DelightsGirl]

I used to masturbate all the time when i was with my ex ( then again sex with him wasnt fun) Now tho, with my awesome sexy fiancee sex is so good i honestly havent wanted to masturbate. I may in the future start it up again but for now I have no need to.

 

[Edensgarden]

I grew up in a very strong Southern Baptist family. It was drilled into me from a young age that sex was only acceptable after marriage and anything done sexually prior to marriage was a sin. Masturbation was never discussed and as a result I had a tinge of guilt when I touched myself at a young age.

I think because my parents were so nonsexual, it made me more curious and ultimately led to me being overly sexual. So I don't doubt for a second there are females who never masturbate. I do think you can be a sexual person without masturbating. However, I feel those women who say they don't masturbate because it does nothing for them just need to have an orgasm one time by themselves and they will be singing a different song.

 

[Glycerinelimits]

My wife never did much until we had been married a number of years.....but once that was "discovered" it was awesome. Our sex life, which we thought was pretty good at the time, got even better....

 

[TxBoots]

Add another wife to the never masterbated catagory. My has never; not when we dated; not after marriage; definitely not in old age. She said she never wanted to so didn't. While dating she liked me fingering her. In early marriage she liked sex and receiving oral. After 45 her sex life died with diabetes and cancer. So now, I masterbate almost every day and sometimes several times a day.