Curious About Feeding

[easyoff]

For me, people are people. What one person is looking for is going to be vastly different than others.

For me, I just like to be appreciated. I am not looking for heaps of gushing terms of endearment afterwards, but a bonafide thank you is always nice. I did just take time out of my schedule, used some skills I had to please you, and did share a moment with you even if you did close your eyes and just cum in my mouth. I can understand after the moment of release having some guilt with what we had just done, but just pulling up your pants and walking away without a word is a little selfish. I just did an act that many wives will not do for their husbands despite promises of lifelong devotion, having their children, and buying houses and cars. A thank you would be nice.

I am not saying you would not do that. Nothing you say suggests that, just try and put yourself in my situation and be thankful.

But for others who want more, like kissing to make it more passionate, or other kinky endeavors, that has its place too and just makes those people special in their own way. In either situation I just like the act to be appreciated.

I've only been with one guy that liked to kiss, it always made him hard as a rock. He always told me that I give him the best blowjobs he's ever had

 

[load69]

Dating might not be the right word for me since I’d be wanting discretion. I think if I enjoyed it, it would look more like me using his mouth like a pussy every couple weeks.

I’m just not sure if that’s a realistic expectation. Of the ladies I’ve had flings with, they always demand more and more until the situation becomes dangerous.

You could use my mouth as a pussy! Slide your cock in until your balls are resting on my chin and then let me suck a big load of hot cum out of you. Any time you want.

 

[lordpenizworth]

As others have said, it's not too difficult to find another man to service you. I think what would make it easier to do is to find an experienced cocksucker who is mature and self-actualized enough to appreciate where you're coming from.
Some of us are understanding enough to realize that it's about helping you try this experience.
You'll want to avoid anyone who cannot express that understanding beforehand.

 

[2wayroad]

I’d love to help out a first timer with a man. Especially a guy who has never had oral performed on him. And there are a lot.

 

[Phatfeet]

I’d love to help out a first timer with a man. Especially a guy who has never had oral performed on him. And there are a lot.

I was the opposite, doing the blowjob with an experienced person that had given and taken a lot of blowjobs and I was completely new at it. I was super worried about my inexperience, but the man was perfect, telling me some pointers as I made mistakes, not enough so I felt like everything I did was wrong, but yet also helped to make it better for him. It was a little concerning as I realized it was taking a while for him to get off, but as he worked up to a lather, I never felt so powerful in my life.

Now that I have given a few, with a new guy that has never gotten one from a man before, I would just be sure he knew that if he wanted to stop we could, or that closing his eyes and pretending I was a woman, would be okay too. I think feeling comfortable is what gets you through that first time. Hopefully after a few times he would just be comfortable getting a blowjob from another man.

 

[ksboner]

Like so many married guys over 50, I find myself contemplating shit I never would have ten plus years ago. I’m in a semi sexless marriage but my needs exceed my wife’s ability to provide. Don’t get me wrong, she tries but it’s unreasonable for me to take too much when other alternatives exist to supplement my need.

Lately, I dwell on the idea of getting sucked off by a guy. Not a big, manly, bearded guy but someone who is smaller, perhaps younger, more feminine and wanting only to please. I read so many posts where guys claim it’s the thrill of a lifetime and I wonder what I’ve been missing out on. I still love women immensely but this idea sounds intriguing. In a perfect, first time experience, I could even picture the guy’s wife watching the show as I finish myself with a gentle face fucking, and her sending me off afterwards so she could unleash her passion on her obedient, sissy husband.

I’ve never done anything like that in my life. No wild, half drunken college experimentation, nothing. So being totally new to the idea, I am curious what it looks like. How it develops in a safe and comfortable way. How the ‘ground rules’ get politely spelled out ahead of time so there’s no hard feelings.

I can’t guess where this curiosity would lead me eventually but I foresee at the start that I’d simply be there to feed a willing guy, with no reciprocation of any kind. No kissing, or intimacy beyond the servicing of my cock and balls. It probably sounds very selfish but those are the ‘baby steps’ I set up in my mind to propel me forward. If I thought more had to occur, I’d likely never take that first step. I guess the first step was actually creating this account to learn more.

So I ask the folks who have been there, is this a realistic fantasy I actually could fulfill or am I hoping for a bit much? Would something like I describe be fairly easy to set up or is this just wishful thinking.

Looking for friendly, honest advice. Pms are fine but please understand I’m still trying to talk myself into this so I’m not desperate to jump at anything.

 

[ksboner]

Like so many married guys over 50, I find myself contemplating shit I never would have ten plus years ago. I’m in a semi sexless marriage but my needs exceed my wife’s ability to provide. Don’t get me wrong, she tries but it’s unreasonable for me to take too much when other alternatives exist to supplement my need.

Lately, I dwell on the idea of getting sucked off by a guy. Not a big, manly, bearded guy but someone who is smaller, perhaps younger, more feminine and wanting only to please. I read so many posts where guys claim it’s the thrill of a lifetime and I wonder what I’ve been missing out on. I still love women immensely but this idea sounds intriguing. In a perfect, first time experience, I could even picture the guy’s wife watching the show as I finish myself with a gentle face fucking, and her sending me off afterwards so she could unleash her passion on her obedient, sissy husband.

I’ve never done anything like that in my life. No wild, half drunken college experimentation, nothing. So being totally new to the idea, I am curious what it looks like. How it develops in a safe and comfortable way. How the ‘ground rules’ get politely spelled out ahead of time so there’s no hard feelings.

I can’t guess where this curiosity would lead me eventually but I foresee at the start that I’d simply be there to feed a willing guy, with no reciprocation of any kind. No kissing, or intimacy beyond the servicing of my cock and balls. It probably sounds very selfish but those are the ‘baby steps’ I set up in my mind to propel me forward. If I thought more had to occur, I’d likely never take that first step. I guess the first step was actually creating this account to learn more.

So I ask the folks who have been there, is this a realistic fantasy I actually could fulfill or am I hoping for a bit much? Would something like I describe be fairly easy to set up or is this just wishful thinking.

Looking for friendly, honest advice. Pms are fine but please understand I’m still trying to talk myself into this so I’m not desperate to jump at anything.

 

[ksboner]

By now I assume you have tried at least to find someone to suck you off! I started out about the same way enjoyed every minute of it but only lasted about one time before I jumped in and offered to suck the guy off! I immediately spit out his cum!
It took about three b******* before I actually swallowed his load! He swallowed mine every time! Go for it

 

[Nicenashguy615]

As others have said, it's not too difficult to find another man to service you. I think what would make it easier to do is to find an experienced cocksucker who is mature and self-actualized enough to appreciate where you're coming from.
Some of us are understanding enough to realize that it's about helping you try this experience.
You'll want to avoid anyone who cannot express that understanding beforehand.

I did actually communicate with a local guy who was willing but it didn’t feel right. A little pushy. I got the impression he didn’t understand what it felt like for me being new to this experience. My instinct kept saying it wasn’t a good fit so we never tried to meet.

The next guy was fine but we could never seem to hook up. He insisted everything go through Lit messaging so it was extremely cumbersome not having a better way to communicate. After sitting around waiting for him, I gave up.

The third guy fell through as well. We were going to meet for coffee first. He was late and after a while, I started getting cold feet. The communication was lacking so eventually, I left.

As exciting as it sounds, it might not be in the cards. At least not planned out. I try to be aware of the men I come into contact with and if I see signs, I’ll remain open. I think if it ever happens, it will probably be more organic.

 

[Escierto]

I did actually communicate with a local guy who was willing but it didn’t feel right. A little pushy. I got the impression he didn’t understand what it felt like for me being new to this experience. My instinct kept saying it wasn’t a good fit so we never tried to meet.

The next guy was fine but we could never seem to hook up. He insisted everything go through Lit messaging so it was extremely cumbersome not having a better way to communicate. After sitting around waiting for him, I gave up.

The third guy fell through as well. We were going to meet for coffee first. He was late and after a while, I started getting cold feet. The communication was lacking so eventually, I left.

As exciting as it sounds, it might not be in the cards. At least not planned out. I try to be aware of the men I come into contact with and if I see signs, I’ll remain open. I think if it ever happens, it will probably be more organic.

There are always a certain number of flakes in something like this.

 

[Uncut1969]

I was the opposite, doing the blowjob with an experienced person that had given and taken a lot of blowjobs and I was completely new at it. I was super worried about my inexperience, but the man was perfect, telling me some pointers as I made mistakes, not enough so I felt like everything I did was wrong, but yet also helped to make it better for him. It was a little concerning as I realized it was taking a while for him to get off, but as he worked up to a lather, I never felt so powerful in my life.

Now that I have given a few, with a new guy that has never gotten one from a man before, I would just be sure he knew that if he wanted to stop we could, or that closing his eyes and pretending I was a woman, would be okay too. I think feeling comfortable is what gets you through that first time. Hopefully after a few times he would just be comfortable getting a blowjob from another man.

Sounds like a great start can’t wait to experience hopefully this year is the year

 

[Uncut1969]

I did actually communicate with a local guy who was willing but it didn’t feel right. A little pushy. I got the impression he didn’t understand what it felt like for me being new to this experience. My instinct kept saying it wasn’t a good fit so we never tried to meet.

The next guy was fine but we could never seem to hook up. He insisted everything go through Lit messaging so it was extremely cumbersome not having a better way to communicate. After sitting around waiting for him, I gave up.

The third guy fell through as well. We were going to meet for coffee first. He was late and after a while, I started getting cold feet. The communication was lacking so eventually, I left.

As exciting as it sounds, it might not be in the cards. At least not planned out. I try to be aware of the men I come into contact with and if I see signs, I’ll remain open. I think if it ever happens, it will probably be more organic.

I have had a couple fall through also ! Felt defeated because coming out of my comfort zone and it not work out

 

[nassauguy_2001]

For me, people are people. What one person is looking for is going to be vastly different than others.

For me, I just like to be appreciated. I am not looking for heaps of gushing terms of endearment afterwards, but a bonafide thank you is always nice. I did just take time out of my schedule, used some skills I had to please you, and did share a moment with you even if you did close your eyes and just cum in my mouth. I can understand after the moment of release having some guilt with what we had just done, but just pulling up your pants and walking away without a word is a little selfish. I just did an act that many wives will not do for their husbands despite promises of lifelong devotion, having their children, and buying houses and cars. A thank you would be nice.

I am not saying you would not do that. Nothing you say suggests that, just try and put yourself in my situation and be thankful.

But for others who want more, like kissing to make it more passionate, or other kinky endeavors, that has its place too and just makes those people special in their own way. In either situation I just like the act to be appreciated.

Great reply, thank you for sharing. I am 100% with you on this topic!

 

[Meaghansstories]

I did actually communicate with a local guy who was willing but it didn’t feel right. A little pushy. I got the impression he didn’t understand what it felt like for me being new to this experience. My instinct kept saying it wasn’t a good fit so we never tried to meet.

The next guy was fine but we could never seem to hook up. He insisted everything go through Lit messaging so it was extremely cumbersome not having a better way to communicate. After sitting around waiting for him, I gave up.

The third guy fell through as well. We were going to meet for coffee first. He was late and after a while, I started getting cold feet. The communication was lacking so eventually, I left.

As exciting as it sounds, it might not be in the cards. At least not planned out. I try to be aware of the men I come into contact with and if I see signs, I’ll remain open. I think if it ever happens, it will probably be more organic.

Man, this thread started almost a month ago now and you’re still blue balled. It’ll be a hell of a reward when it comes!! Haha

 

[Nicenashguy615]

Man, this thread started almost a month ago now and you’re still blue balled. It’ll be a hell of a reward when it comes!! Haha

I sure hope so! I keep hearing guys are better at giving head and I’d love to know the answer.

 

[Meaghansstories]

I sure hope so! I keep hearing guys are better at giving head and I’d love to know the answer.

I think it’s one of those things where it’s like “I know what feels good because I KNOW what feels good”. I feel like I know how to fuck better after being fucked so

 

[VacuumMan]

I sure hope so! I keep hearing guys are better at giving head and I’d love to know the answer.

Most guys are certainly better than many girls.

 

[lordpenizworth]

I did actually communicate with a local guy who was willing but it didn’t feel right. A little pushy. I got the impression he didn’t understand what it felt like for me being new to this experience. My instinct kept saying it wasn’t a good fit so we never tried to meet.

The next guy was fine but we could never seem to hook up. He insisted everything go through Lit messaging so it was extremely cumbersome not having a better way to communicate. After sitting around waiting for him, I gave up.

The third guy fell through as well. We were going to meet for coffee first. He was late and after a while, I started getting cold feet. The communication was lacking so eventually, I left.

As exciting as it sounds, it might not be in the cards. At least not planned out. I try to be aware of the men I come into contact with and if I see signs, I’ll remain open. I think if it ever happens, it will probably be more organic.

You've begun to run the gamut of how these things usually go. There are other kinds of dysfunction to come, I'm sure.
The right guy for you will be understanding, experienced, but not slutty or care-be-damned.

 

[bobb64]

Like so many married guys over 50, I find myself contemplating shit I never would have ten plus years ago. I’m in a semi sexless marriage but my needs exceed my wife’s ability to provide. Don’t get me wrong, she tries but it’s unreasonable for me to take too much when other alternatives exist to supplement my need.

Lately, I dwell on the idea of getting sucked off by a guy. Not a big, manly, bearded guy but someone who is smaller, perhaps younger, more feminine and wanting only to please. I read so many posts where guys claim it’s the thrill of a lifetime and I wonder what I’ve been missing out on. I still love women immensely but this idea sounds intriguing. In a perfect, first time experience, I could even picture the guy’s wife watching the show as I finish myself with a gentle face fucking, and her sending me off afterwards so she could unleash her passion on her obedient, sissy husband.

I’ve never done anything like that in my life. No wild, half drunken college experimentation, nothing. So being totally new to the idea, I am curious what it looks like. How it develops in a safe and comfortable way. How the ‘ground rules’ get politely spelled out ahead of time so there’s no hard feelings.

I can’t guess where this curiosity would lead me eventually but I foresee at the start that I’d simply be there to feed a willing guy, with no reciprocation of any kind. No kissing, or intimacy beyond the servicing of my cock and balls. It probably sounds very selfish but those are the ‘baby steps’ I set up in my mind to propel me forward. If I thought more had to occur, I’d likely never take that first step. I guess the first step was actually creating this account to learn more.

So I ask the folks who have been there, is this a realistic fantasy I actually could fulfill or am I hoping for a bit much? Would something like I describe be fairly easy to set up or is this just wishful thinking.

Looking for friendly, honest advice. Pms are fine but please understand I’m still trying to talk myself into this so I’m not desperate to jump at anything.

i love it when a man only wants his cock and balls sucked and no recip.

 

[VacuumMan]

i love it when a man only wants his cock and balls sucked and no recip.

Yes, I love being used for his pleasure.

 

[PG564E]

Like so many married guys over 50, I find myself contemplating shit I never would have ten plus years ago. I’m in a semi sexless marriage but my needs exceed my wife’s ability to provide. Don’t get me wrong, she tries but it’s unreasonable for me to take too much when other alternatives exist to supplement my need.

Lately, I dwell on the idea of getting sucked off by a guy. Not a big, manly, bearded guy but someone who is smaller, perhaps younger, more feminine and wanting only to please. I read so many posts where guys claim it’s the thrill of a lifetime and I wonder what I’ve been missing out on. I still love women immensely but this idea sounds intriguing. In a perfect, first time experience, I could even picture the guy’s wife watching the show as I finish myself with a gentle face fucking, and her sending me off afterwards so she could unleash her passion on her obedient, sissy husband.

I’ve never done anything like that in my life. No wild, half drunken college experimentation, nothing. So being totally new to the idea, I am curious what it looks like. How it develops in a safe and comfortable way. How the ‘ground rules’ get politely spelled out ahead of time so there’s no hard feelings.

I can’t guess where this curiosity would lead me eventually but I foresee at the start that I’d simply be there to feed a willing guy, with no reciprocation of any kind. No kissing, or intimacy beyond the servicing of my cock and balls. It probably sounds very selfish but those are the ‘baby steps’ I set up in my mind to propel me forward. If I thought more had to occur, I’d likely never take that first step. I guess the first step was actually creating this account to learn more.

So I ask the folks who have been there, is this a realistic fantasy I actually could fulfill or am I hoping for a bit much? Would something like I describe be fairly easy to set up or is this just wishful thinking.

Looking for friendly, honest advice. Pms are fine but please understand I’m still trying to talk myself into this so I’m not desperate to jump at anything.

Your honesty is very impressive to me, and I'm glad you posted to express your desire to ask questions of men who wish to provide extreme pleasures for men like you. Can we PM with each other for the benefit to both of us? I am a cock sucker who loves cum. Hope to just talk with you, not trying to persuade you to do anything but enjoy my mouth on your cock.

 

[mrdiscreet2]

I sure hope so! I keep hearing guys are better at giving head and I’d love to know the answer.

Look at double list in your area. Many cocksuckers that want nothing in return other than your cum down their throat. Screen them a little to get a feel for what they are looking for.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Like so many married guys over 50, I find myself contemplating shit I never would have ten plus years ago. I’m in a semi sexless marriage but my needs exceed my wife’s ability to provide. Don’t get me wrong, she tries but it’s unreasonable for me to take too much when other alternatives exist to supplement my need.

Lately, I dwell on the idea of getting sucked off by a guy. Not a big, manly, bearded guy but someone who is smaller, perhaps younger, more feminine and wanting only to please. I read so many posts where guys claim it’s the thrill of a lifetime and I wonder what I’ve been missing out on. I still love women immensely but this idea sounds intriguing. In a perfect, first time experience, I could even picture the guy’s wife watching the show as I finish myself with a gentle face fucking, and her sending me off afterwards so she could unleash her passion on her obedient, sissy husband.

I’ve never done anything like that in my life. No wild, half drunken college experimentation, nothing. So being totally new to the idea, I am curious what it looks like. How it develops in a safe and comfortable way. How the ‘ground rules’ get politely spelled out ahead of time so there’s no hard feelings.

I can’t guess where this curiosity would lead me eventually but I foresee at the start that I’d simply be there to feed a willing guy, with no reciprocation of any kind. No kissing, or intimacy beyond the servicing of my cock and balls. It probably sounds very selfish but those are the ‘baby steps’ I set up in my mind to propel me forward. If I thought more had to occur, I’d likely never take that first step. I guess the first step was actually creating this account to learn more.

So I ask the folks who have been there, is this a realistic fantasy I actually could fulfill or am I hoping for a bit much? Would something like I describe be fairly easy to set up or is this just wishful thinking.

Looking for friendly, honest advice. Pms are fine but please understand I’m still trying to talk myself into this so I’m not desperate to jump at anything.

I love guys like you. You could literally walk in, not say a word, pull it out ans use my throat until you were done. Then just leave.

 

[Nicenashguy615]

I love guys like you. You could literally walk in, not say a word, pull it out ans use my throat until you were done. Then just leave.

I certainly like the sound of that!

 

[Goyl]

And how does a man feel psychologically when another man swallows his sperm?

I would hope he feels great