Cunnilingus

[alphacat]

The only person who's ever made me enjoy oral is my current girlfriend... and I'm the first girl she's gone down on
I know that doesn't help much.... um.. porn movies aren't good for tips, they're just designed to turn on guys. On the other hand, there are lots of great books out there designed to help you with your sex life.

 

[Don K Dyck]

A Sugggestion

I think that your point about being comfortable is probably true, I love the way that other women smell, I just don't like the way I smell, it's not bad or anything, I just don't like it. So in my mind I'm thinking "if I wouldn't go down there, why would he want to?" I've told him this, and he assures me that he loves it, but I still have a hard time getting past that.

Hi Hotred, This is a complex prognosis from necessarily incomplete data.

1. There appears that there could be some hangups from childhood about bodily smell still lingering around in your head. As an adult you may have to give yourself permission to be yourself, bodily smell and all.

2. Skill is always important, as is technique. On Mr G's "Try This and Report Back" thread he noted that when stimulating the clit, being too soft was less stimulating than being too hard. There is much good information in the answers to his thread, so it is worth reading all of it. I would add that being unprepared is equally distracting.

3. But you report that you ejoyed it with your g/f, so we know the system responds.

From this collection of data, it may be appropriate to become comfortable, relaxed, well perfumed from a bubble bath say, and have a suitably sensual education session where you and your partner just move slowly through a delicious uninterrupted evening of love making, taking your time to become aroused. It may be necessary to get up to the pleasure plateau before you begin cunnilingus, just go with the flow and enjoy yourself.

Hope this helps a little.

 

[Hotred911]

Thanks for all the tips, and advice, we'll have to try it out this weekend.

 

[dlj403]

Re: Re: Re: golly...

That in and of itself is promising...

I try... And try, and try, and try...

dlj

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: Re: Re: golly...

I try... And try, and try, and try...

dlj

and You must be commended for that...

 

[Tallfella]

Draws a deep breath through his ears

 

[spankableBelle]

Draws a deep breath through his ears

<giggles>

 

[ApplesMcgee]

wel..

I can make my gf cum from oral sex, but sometime sit akes a little while. She really likes penetration. However, she won't ever turn down an offer for me to go down on her.

PowrDragn

 

[Guest]

Your not liking your husband giving you oral sex sound very familar to what my husband experienced with his x-wife. He said his X didn't like him to give her oral sex either. Then after many years of being married she left him for another women. He thinks that she was just denying her desire to be with a woman, thinking that if she didn't like oral sex then she couldn't be attracted to a woman. As you see she couldn't ingore what she felt forever.

Well lucky for us she left him, he met me, and we both love the fact that i'm Bi.

I'm not saying that you don't like oral sex because your denying your own bi-sexual needs, but........

Have you ever asked him how he feels about two women making love. If he's homo-phobic then this might be why you can't enjoy oral sex.

If you haven't ask him and he is OK with the idea, then maybe it's something you two can explore together, first just discussing the idea, then some girl, girl videos.

I know for us that my being Bi works, best of luck to you two

 

[bibetty]

The last post was mine, just forgot to log in, sorry

 

[Hotred911]

I have been with another woman before, and my husband would really enjoy seeing tow women together. So he's not part of the problem, I think it's just me.