cunnilingus question

[funlady]

That very first time with a woman I had this misconception that everything would "work" sexually , because who knows a womans body like another woman ... I was nineteen and didn't really take into account that everyone has different likes and dislikes. I really sucked at cunnilingus ( no pun intended) . I only tried it that one time and got no reaction at all...

If you consider yourself good at it , how long did it take to become good at it ? Tips ? Techniques ?

 

[funlady]

I might being seeing a lady who has never had an orgasm from cunniligus . I'd really like to try to make that happen for her.

 

[Squeezenplease]

Honey, you do what feels right for you

 

[MsLynda]

Well, I could suggest a few things.....

First, do what you would like done to you... llick nibble, suck.. do it like you dream of having it done...

Second, ask her what she likes done to her.. if she wants your fingers in her while you lick on her.. do it..

Third.. try different things... lightly stroke (almost like a tickle) around her lips as you lightly lick and flick your tongue around her clit.


Most of all, communication is the key to all lovemaking. If it isnt good.. open you mouth and ask, or tell... you or your partner cant communicate you likes or desires if you dont talk. There is no reason to leave talking or other communication out of your lovemaking.

anyway, just my 2 cents worth.


Lynda

 

[Baby Blue Eyes]

I would suggest taking your time getting to her clit. Start with lots of wet tummy kisses and nibbles and slowly move down. Using your lips to tug on her pubic hair (if applicable) is nice. So are sucking kisses to her vulva. Spend some time sucking, tugging on her labia before just teasing her clit with an occasional bump with your nose or tongue.

You'll know when it's finally time to "go for the gold"

 

[pollyjean]

Communication is the key

 

[lilnymph28]

I think I was in the same boat when I ate my first pussy. I actually asked advice from a boyfriend of mine who had performed so well for me. But I think the best advice is to ask what feels good, and don't be afraid to try something new. Start slow and tease, letting the excitement build up until she's squirming for you to touch her clit. There are so may different tricks and methods. Personally, I prefer fingers to a tongue anyway, but if I am going to get off on a tongue, it needs to be sucking and flicking my clit.

 

[funlady]

Thanks , Ladies ...soon

 

[bschmach808]

I may be out of line here? I am a 52 year old male, however, I yet encounter females who are uncomfortable with being worshiped orally. Perhaps your 1st was culturally corrupted by Madison Avenue - flavored cunt wash? As previous replies suggest, a partner uncomfortable with anything you are doing might be relaxed with asking, "Does that feel OK?" or, "What do you WANT me to do?" If she has no respone, find a woman! If a person/partner doesn't know what it wants for sexual fulfillment, "Run away!"

 

[Az_You_Wish]

lol bschmach808 ~ although good response ..

Ya know I never thought of it until I read your post but that is a scarry thing to think about! I will soon be meeting up with a very good friend of mine, who is now a very close girlfriend. I haven't done much with other women other than kissing and fooling around, so your thread shed some fear BUT also some good advice!

I hope your encounter goes well for you

 

[sdedalus]

best thing try every variation you know and get them involved...ask her whay she likes, usually you can tell by the moans... and don't be afraid to get your face all wet.

SD

 

[Etoile]

As goes my usual mantra...

The key to great sex is COMMUNICATION.

I can't emphasize that enough. It works for fisting, it works for cunnilingus, it works for fellatio, it works for everything.

 

[simonedb27]

my first time giving head to a girl was not very successful. my boyfriend picked up where i left off. i think she enjoyed him more than i. i would like to try again though.

 

[sdedalus]

my first time giving head to a girl was not very successful. my boyfriend picked up where i left off. i think she enjoyed him more than i. i would like to try again though.

and how is my technique?