Cumming on command

[average_red]

My exes (Dominant's) enjoyed this kink. I loved being obedient; but it came with a price - constant edging, denial, overstimulation, and ruines before I could comply. Not fun for me

that does sound unpleasant. Any tips for training it as efficiently as possible?

 

[SmilingLez]

that does sound unpleasant. Any tips for training it as efficiently as possible?

Lots and lots of praise and aftercare

 

[average_red]

Lots and lots of praise and aftercare

I know that I am not supposed to admit it but that's my favorite part... now I need to know how I am doing it wrong if that's the trick and it never started happening for me.

 

[Theatreslut]

I know that I am not supposed to admit it but that's my favorite part... now I need to know how I am doing it wrong if that's the trick and it never started happening for me.

What I’ve read is that you train by edging and not cumming until given the command. The dom can also give the command when you are obviously ready to cum. Pair that with praise and aftercare. Eventually the command gives basically a Pavlovian response and make you cum.

But that is the theory. Idk how training works in practice because I just do it. It’s a reaponse to the command in the right tone of voice.

 

[average_red]

What I’ve read is that you train by edging and not cumming until given the command. The dom can also give the command when you are obviously ready to cum. Pair that with praise and aftercare. Eventually the command gives basically a Pavlovian response and make you cum.

But that is the theory. Idk how training works in practice because I just do it. It’s a reaponse to the command in the right tone of voice.

many thanks, that would explain why it never "just happened" for me, I wasn't trying to so I simply wasn't consistent enough with the command.