Cum on cue?

[RedheadKevin]

Question: This came up while I was having sex, and things were going a little too fast. I started to feel my orgasm coming on (no pun intended) about 30 seconds into it, and we both wanted it to last a little longer than that, so I started "thinking about baseball." It definitely helped, and the sensation went away, but afterwards, when she was satisfied, I found that I couldn't really get it back easily, and things started to take TOO long. I was wondering if anyone can think of a way to cum almost on command.

I'd love to be able to control my orgasmic timing better, so that if I start using techniques to slow things down, I can speed them up again afterwards, when I need it.

Thoughts?

 

[CurvAppeal]

Personally, I have never been able to cum on command except for once. It is more like a once in a lifetime thing. I can't even explain how my ex Master got me to cum on command, just the effect he had on me I guess.

It takes a lot of patience, practice, and eagerness as well as willingness. I have no idea how to give advice on it.

I guess maybe what you would do would be get the person already close to cumming, stop doing what you are doing to her. And build the sensation up to the point where her pussy is ready to burst, or your cock is ready to eject its load of cum and then tell her to cum? Not sure if that is legit or not. Just going by a once in a lifetime experience sweetheart.

Best of luck to you. I am sure someone will have better advice for you. Have a wonderful night and good luck dear!! =)

 

[subwannabe]

It's all in the mind. Baseball works (although there must be a better way than to be fucking your SO while thinking about what the current standings are). In reverse, I can come pretty close to cumming on que by thinking something really hot, like a fantasy, and WALA (did I spell that right)?

 

[ThinkerLover]

PRactice flexing your PC muscles frequently throughout the day. This is the same muscle group that you use to stop the flow of urine midstream. To some extent, if you can control these muscles, you can control your orgasm. Leading up to both your orgasms, I find it important to remind myself, mentally, "make her beg for it". That way I don't burn out my lover-juice, if you will. LEt her scream for it to be harder, faster, longer, stronger, whatever. MAke her beg for it, she wants you to be in control. She wants to be made to beg for it. Keep from burning out yourself by making her body yearn to cum and when the moment is right, you can simply let her draw your fierce warrior into her magic cave.