Cuckolds: How important is humiliation to the experience?

[BuckyDuckman]

So many pics and videos of cucks show them being humiliated by their spouses, but I curious to hear from real people.

Is it enough to see your spouse having sex with another or does it really need the extra kick of the humiliation factor?

How important is it for the other guy to be bigger than you?

How important is it for the other man to be black?

Thanks!

 

[cuckold01]

Cuckold huiliation

My wife and I are very much into the humiliation aspect of our cuckold/hotwife marriage, to the point where I've given her to her boyfriend and mostly only lick her panties clean first then once she is satisfied they're clean enough i'm permitted to lick her pussy clean and then have sloppy seconds with her as she praises her boyfriends cock and sexual skills as he lays beside her supervising our sex so he can he see that she is not having anymore orgasms with me although she has already told me she has promised those to him and only him, so the lifestyle works for us

 

[Osculum]

I’m into the humiliation aspect, but it has to be implicit. Verbal abuse or whatever would feel staged. What’s important is hat the bull be bringing her to a level of pleasure I can’t, to the point that she’s desperate to be fucked by him and more or less ignoring me.

Cock size is important, but only as part of a complete package. He needs to be good looking, have a good body, and excel at talking dirty.

I don’t really get the black thing. I think maybe that’s more an American thing? I mean, I’d be happy to watch my wife getting pounded by a hung black stud. But then, I like watching her get pounded by a well-hung stud of any description.

 

[BBCfan]

Cuckold fantasy is new to me. I've had a cocksucking fetish specifically towards more hung than me black cocks, but had zero interest in seeing them fuck my partner.

Now with wife I know she's had many BBC before we married. The idea of seeing her be fucked by one and being part of experience is super hot. I don't desire to be humiliated or ignored but share in her pleasure, and really don't even really want to play with the guy...it's more about her pleasure.

That said, when I suck my BBC dildo while fucking her, when she calls me names like faggot or cocksucker it's such a turn on I almost come immediately. It's verbal role play so I'm not sure if it's a humiliation turn on or not but I loved it.

surprised the hell out of me

 

[Jcam1980s]

Never experienced it because in reality she wouldn't but i imagine I'd like it all. If it was just watching her with a guy, no humiliation etc that would be hot. But also i have fantasies about really being humiliated, not allowed to touch myself and her actually being bred etc. I'd be open to it all. One fantasy i have is that she finds out im setting up a stud for her....so she has him invite a friend too. They both satisfy her needs then she watches as I'm tied and they have their way with me. Fair is fair she says in that fantasy.

 

[DandJ69]

It’s become more important to me in time.

At first I was just happy to get to live out the fantasy of my wife fucking another man, but as time wore on I desired new experiences, such as verbal humiliation, degradation, physical humiliation etc. I have very few turn offs so I enjoy almost anything she/they are willing to throw at me.

The problem is I need/want it to get more extreme every time, I’m curious as to whether they can ever actually go to far!

 

[Semler]

I prefer more subtle humiliation, Just hearing about how much bigger he is, or how better he is, gives me the humiliation that I need and enjoy.

 

[BuckyDuckman]

Nice to see the occasional answer to the question. Thank you because every answer informs the direction of future stories.

After writing several stories about guys who most would consider cuckolds (and my RL experiences being married to a hot wife with lovers outside of our marriage), I find that I really enjoy being teased and humiliated about being bi, being a cocksucker, and being told that I probably want dick as much as my wife does. It's sexy, slightly humiliating, and may be very true at times. While I would never make a good trans-woman, if my wife wanted to further humiliate me by trying to feminize me, she could do it and I would probably love it. Especially if it included being shown off for being a cocksucking, panty-wearing sissy to others.

 

[carln3346]

It's not about humiliation at all to us. It's about her enjoying the excitement of another man, and me enjoying knowing about it

 

[BBCfan]

Nice to see the occasional answer to the question. Thank you because every answer informs the direction of future stories.

After writing several stories about guys who most would consider cuckolds (and my RL experiences being married to a hot wife with lovers outside of our marriage), I find that I really enjoy being teased and humiliated about being bi, being a cocksucker, and being told that I probably want dick as much as my wife does. It's sexy, slightly humiliating, and may be very true at times. While I would never make a good trans-woman, if my wife wanted to further humiliate me by trying to feminize me, she could do it and I would probably love it. Especially if it included being shown off for being a cocksucking, panty-wearing sissy to others.

That's interesting...I enjoy the roleplay teasing and names but I'm not sure if it's humiliation that turns me on when she calls me a faggot or cocksucker. I'm surprised how it excites me yet if it was a real cock, I'm not sure if I'd still find it exciting. I know she's doing it for my enjoyment, so it doesn't feel humiliating, more empowering to share my fetish with her.

I have zero interest in the sissy/feminization aspect, so it is a wierd balance to be an eager cocksucker at times, yet also be a dominant pussy loving guy otherwise.

I think at this point, having her see me suck a real cock might be too much for her and I'm cool with that as well.

 

[screwher]

On ocassion while chatting on here with other men about them fucking my wife, I have dabbled with some mild humiliation. But it must be on my terms and I prefer to initiate it.

In real life though - No way!! When I turn my wife and/or our marital bed over to another man, he better respect me!

 

[SweetAnnie40]

My husband asked me to try cuckold play with him. We already had a third party in our sexual bed: a friend named Gary who was invited to join us so Hubby could explore sucking a real cock and being fucked. Hubby is 100% sissy, 24/7 lingerie-wearer, more any chance he gets. After some time I asked to have some Gary time as well as hubby wasn't able to have intercourse with me any more (long story, his issues not mine). Anyway, I did enjoy Gary's cock which happens to be bigger than my hubby's but I never felt comfortable being vocal about humiliating my husband. Even though I knew it turned him on it felt too cruel, too harsh, I couldn't do it. That said, we've had sessions where hubby is all dolled up, restrained to a hard chair in the bedroom sitting on a large mounted cock as he watches us have sex. Again, we don't say anything but he usually humps the dildo vigorously in his bondage and creams his panties watching us.

So, can't get in his mind and explain why other men would get super jealous or angry but it makes him want to cum. Can't explain why he asked for the verbal humiliation, just know I couldn't oblige him.

 

[muycurioso]

the brain is the biggest sex organ

Cuckold fantasy is new to me. I've had a cocksucking fetish specifically towards more hung than me black cocks, but had zero interest in seeing them fuck my partner.

Now with wife I know she's had many BBC before we married. The idea of seeing her be fucked by one and being part of experience is super hot. I don't desire to be humiliated or ignored but share in her pleasure, and really don't even really want to play with the guy...it's more about her pleasure.

That said, when I suck my BBC dildo while fucking her, when she calls me names like faggot or cocksucker it's such a turn on I almost come immediately. It's verbal role play so I'm not sure if it's a humiliation turn on or not but I loved it.

surprised the hell out of me

hot talk can have me busting a nut in no time

 

[gtnlynn]

Humiliation was never a factor in my wife's extra-marital sex. She had sex with a few other men and came home to tell me about it. Race didn't matter. She liked bigger cocks, but that was fine with me because she likes what I do with my average tool.

 

[SissySalina]

sissy wants Her to be satisfied and have a good time, that is the whole point in that part of the relationship. sissy does not feel humiliated by name calling, being a cock sucker is truth and truth is not humiliation.
Since sissy is so small almost all men are bigger than sissy anything over 1.5 inches is bigger, the important thing is how it makes Her feel.
Race is not a factor in the relationship or sex, have seen whites just as big as blacks. Please note that not all large dicks are great, the man must have some knowledge on how best to use it not just plunge in and out.

 

[PaxNurgle]

I'm personally not a big fan over fetishising someone strictly over their race. It just feels kind of, well, racist. I dunno. But I get the whole size worship/small penis humiliation dynamic, and the voyeuristic aspect of it all.

 

[muycurioso]

it is a fantasy

never done it MMF but I would like a little verbal humiliation when I suck his cock. not degrading or nasty, but a few cocksuckers and eat his cum and such, dirty talk

 

[twister947]

Humiliation is central to my kink. In our 20s, we lived in an apartment in Houston that was inhabited by singles and young couples...everyone knew their neighbors. My wife was fucking other men regularly, and everybody knew it. I still crave that shame.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

I’d imagine it’s one of the most important

 

[Jcam1980s]

Never actually done it but would love to watch my wife with another man. But i like the idea of them making me watch, naked unable to touch myself. He cums deep inside her, and she's cum many times. Hard, toe curling orgasms. Then he motions her over to me. She slowly starts to stroke me but as she does pulls a blindfold down on me. Then she takes me in her mouth, a mind blowing bj. Suddenly stops, me fully in her throat and i cum super hard. I hear a swallow. Then my wife lifts up my blindfold as I'm saying that was the best ive had, only to realise it's her lover that has blown me, and had me begging to cum.

 

[muycurioso]

hot fantasy

Never actually done it but would love to watch my wife with another man. But i like the idea of them making me watch, naked unable to touch myself. He cums deep inside her, and she's cum many times. Hard, toe curling orgasms. Then he motions her over to me. She slowly starts to stroke me but as she does pulls a blindfold down on me. Then she takes me in her mouth, a mind blowing bj. Suddenly stops, me fully in her throat and i cum super hard. I hear a swallow. Then my wife lifts up my blindfold as I'm saying that was the best ive had, only to realise it's her lover that has blown me, and had me begging to cum.

either guy in scenario.

 

[cuck72]

My wife and I are very much into the humiliation aspect of our cuckold/hotwife marriage, to the point where I've given her to her boyfriend and mostly only lick her panties clean first then once she is satisfied they're clean enough i'm permitted to lick her pussy clean and then have sloppy seconds with her as she praises her boyfriends cock and sexual skills as he lays beside her supervising our sex so he can he see that she is not having anymore orgasms with me although she has already told me she has promised those to him and only him, so the lifestyle works for us

LOVE IT!

 

[cuck72]

We are an older couple, mid 60's. So I really get off thinking of those younger men mid 30's to maybe early 50's. I think of them being loud, with a lot of dirty humiliating talking as they fuck my wife. She wouldn't like the name calling, but I'd get off on them calling her an old whore, and making me suck them. Totally submitting as a submissive old cuckold husband, and knowing those rock hard younger men would give old grandma pussy some huge squirting orgasms.

 

[PatheticJamie]

Not sure if the perspective of someone who used to be a cuckquean counts. But I loved the Humiliation aspect.

 

[BuckyDuckman]

Not sure if the perspective of someone who used to be a cuckquean counts. But I loved the Humiliation aspect.

Cuckqueans count, too!