Cuckold Why?

[Paranormal08]

Why do I want to see my shy wife get a good hard one? Such a turn on

 

[schism666]

Why do I want to see my shy wife get a good hard one? Such a turn on

q lives!

 

[OldnCurious]

I believe it's the enjoyment of seeing other men lust over your wife the same way you may perv over pictures of other women you find hot.

 

[hulmule]

I think its because you want to make sure she receives good pleasure. Something you feel she's not getting from you maybe. But thats why guys like me step in, help give that pleasure to her , but not change your marriage status

 

[Rainblow]

Humiliation fetish. *nods*

 

[lc69hunter]

Humiliation fetish. *nods*

very rarely

 

[Paranormal08]

If your interested in chatting about pm me

 

[gtnlynn]

IN my case, it goes back to hearing her tell stories of having sex in college while I was away at another university. I got turned on hearing the stories and wanted to see it for myself.

 

[Paranormal08]

For me it’s thinking about just watching her get pleasured by another guy. Another guy desiring my wife is a huge turn on.

Seeing the look of enjoyment and satisfaction on my wife’s face as she’s getting fucked and cumming with him would be amazing.

There’d be no humiliation involved, I’d just be sat there taking it all in.

I agree my wife has never been with anyone else to see her moan under him what a turn on

 

[CuckGuy89]

Can't think of anything better than the person you love most enjoying and getting lost in pleasure

 

[MsK2021]

Cuckold Why?
Because it's entertaining for both hub & wife​

 

[Dashabout]

Cuckold Why?​

Because it's entertaining for both hub & wife​

It is but don't forget there is a third and possibly more being entertained too.

 

[Rainblow]

Humiliation fetish. *nods*

very rarely

noun: cuckold; plural noun: cuckolds

1. a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful, regarded as an object of derision.
   "jokes in literature about elderly cuckolds and misers are rife"

Cuckolding is a sexual interest, or fetish, in which usually a partner (usually a woman) has sex with another man," says sex-positive psychotherapist Dr. Liz Powell. "It also can involve aspects of humiliation and embarrassment including talking about how small the husband's genitalia is." The cuckold is the partner who watches their wife, or partner (while many married couples do enjoy it, you don't have to be married, or straight, to enjoy cuckolding) have sex with the bull. The bull, or the other man, may be more sexually dominant. The bull is often the "guest star," or someone outside of the primary relationship. What's in it for the bull? Well, fucking the hot wife, of course, and the satisfaction of watching the quivering husband in the corner

The partner who has sex with the bull is often referred to as the "hot wife." While the two terms can be used to describe the same scenario, hotwifing can be different from cuckolding. "It all depends on the specific dynamic that they've worked out. Hotwifing as opposed to cuckolding puts the focus on the wife. Cuckolding tends to have more of an air of degradation and humiliation," Dr. Powell says. Sometimes a couple who enjoys hotwifing wants the focus to be on how desirable (hot) the wife is. "Hotwifing is about celebrating your wife's attractiveness, and sharing her with others," Dr. Powell says. "There's also a locus of control difference. A lot of times cuckolding the locus of control is placed in the woman who is having sex with other people, where with hotwifing a lot of times the locus of control is placed in the male spouse."

https://ca.askmen.com/sex/naughty_sex/guide-to-hotwife-cuckoldry.html

In the kink/fetish version of cuckolding, the man being cuckolded is fully involved in the event. He knows about it, enjoys it, and typically masturbates while it’s taking place or immediately after. Often, the man who is being cuckolded is "forced" to watch his partner being unfaithful. In such cases, cuckolding is a subset of BDSM. The male "victim" is masochistically turned on by the "humiliation" of his wife’s behavior.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/...2011/why-people-are-so-shocked-cuckolding?amp

Although all the participants are likely to have a great time, the cuckold is the one who gains the most psychological pleasure during this whole process. Whether the cuckold is witnessing the adulterous activity firsthand, or whether he is simply acknowledging the fact that it is taking place elsewhere, the cuckold dotes on the humiliation of it all.

https://tabooless.net/guides/what-the-cuck-the-psychology-history-behind-cuckoldry/

Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism, the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold

Cuckolding tends to have underlying themes of humiliation and BDSM — it plays heavily on power dynamics. The prominence of power themes depends on those doing the deed.

https://thescienceofsex.substack.com/p/research-shows-cuckold-relationships

In cuckolding scenarios, there's usually a BDSM element involved. The cuckold—the person who is watching—takes on a submissive, sometimes masochistic role. In hotwifing, the BDSM element is not present. You have more of an ego boost motivation.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/...e/201910/the-complex-psychology-of-cuckolding

 

[lc69hunter]

noun: cuckold; plural noun: cuckolds

1. a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful, regarded as an object of derision.
   "jokes in literature about elderly cuckolds and misers are rife"

Cuckolding is a sexual interest, or fetish, in which usually a partner (usually a woman) has sex with another man," says sex-positive psychotherapist Dr. Liz Powell. "It also can involve aspects of humiliation and embarrassment including talking about how small the husband's genitalia is." The cuckold is the partner who watches their wife, or partner (while many married couples do enjoy it, you don't have to be married, or straight, to enjoy cuckolding) have sex with the bull. The bull, or the other man, may be more sexually dominant. The bull is often the "guest star," or someone outside of the primary relationship. What's in it for the bull? Well, fucking the hot wife, of course, and the satisfaction of watching the quivering husband in the corner

The partner who has sex with the bull is often referred to as the "hot wife." While the two terms can be used to describe the same scenario, hotwifing can be different from cuckolding. "It all depends on the specific dynamic that they've worked out. Hotwifing as opposed to cuckolding puts the focus on the wife. Cuckolding tends to have more of an air of degradation and humiliation," Dr. Powell says. Sometimes a couple who enjoys hotwifing wants the focus to be on how desirable (hot) the wife is. "Hotwifing is about celebrating your wife's attractiveness, and sharing her with others," Dr. Powell says. "There's also a locus of control difference. A lot of times cuckolding the locus of control is placed in the woman who is having sex with other people, where with hotwifing a lot of times the locus of control is placed in the male spouse."

https://ca.askmen.com/sex/naughty_sex/guide-to-hotwife-cuckoldry.html

In the kink/fetish version of cuckolding, the man being cuckolded is fully involved in the event. He knows about it, enjoys it, and typically masturbates while it’s taking place or immediately after. Often, the man who is being cuckolded is "forced" to watch his partner being unfaithful. In such cases, cuckolding is a subset of BDSM. The male "victim" is masochistically turned on by the "humiliation" of his wife’s behavior.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/...2011/why-people-are-so-shocked-cuckolding?amp

Although all the participants are likely to have a great time, the cuckold is the one who gains the most psychological pleasure during this whole process. Whether the cuckold is witnessing the adulterous activity firsthand, or whether he is simply acknowledging the fact that it is taking place elsewhere, the cuckold dotes on the humiliation of it all.

https://tabooless.net/guides/what-the-cuck-the-psychology-history-behind-cuckoldry/

Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism, the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold

Cuckolding tends to have underlying themes of humiliation and BDSM — it plays heavily on power dynamics. The prominence of power themes depends on those doing the deed.

https://thescienceofsex.substack.com/p/research-shows-cuckold-relationships

In cuckolding scenarios, there's usually a BDSM element involved. The cuckold—the person who is watching—takes on a submissive, sometimes masochistic role. In hotwifing, the BDSM element is not present. You have more of an ego boost motivation.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/...e/201910/the-complex-psychology-of-cuckolding

Way to pick and choose. The humiliation kink is a fetish. That fetish quite often includes cuckolding. But it is not necessarily a part of the cuckolding lifestyle. I spent a number of years in the lifestyle when much younger and actually saw very little of serious humiliation play between the husband and wife, not to say there wasn't a lot of gentle teasing and humiliation going on, but nothing evil or cruel.

However, you have given me some good links for reading material. And thanks for the response

 

[Rainblow]

Way to pick and choose. The humiliation kink is a fetish. That fetish quite often includes cuckolding. But it is not necessarily a part of the cuckolding lifestyle. I spent a number of years in the lifestyle when much younger and actually saw very little of serious humiliation play between the husband and wife, not to say there wasn't a lot of gentle teasing and humiliation going on, but nothing evil or cruel.

However, you have given me some good links for reading material. And thanks for the response

Cuckolding and hotwifing have different power dynamics.
And I don't believe I linked anything depicting cuckolding as "evil" or "cruel". As long as everything is consensual it should be tailored to needs of the participants. The psychological jealousy/humiliation alone can be sexually stimulating for some people and lead to great sex. Perhaps polyamory and throuples becoming more common has lessened the taboo around cucking and hotwifing. Fascinating the way sexual trends ebb and flow with the mores of society.
Oh, and, just to sate my curiosity, what exactly is a cuckolding lifestyle? Y'all live together, dating or is it more like a rent a Bull situation?

 

[PetBlk]

I dont think wanting to watch your wife being fucked is cuckolding. I've been the 2nd or third man in a group and often the husband fucks the wife after we have, whereas being a cuckold involves some humiliation of the man. I'd like to watch my wife being fucked - it's never happened and is unlikely to. A M/F couple did offer to seduce her, getting a couple of glasses of wine into her, then the woman not taking no for an answer until she had persuaded my wife to let her hubby fuck her. The woman said that she was certain she could do it, but the problem was my wife didnt drink.

 

[Filipinawife]

My husband loves to watch me with a guy but it doesn’t humiliate him.

 

[lc69hunter]

Cuckolding and hotwifing have different power dynamics.
And I don't believe I linked anything depicting cuckolding as "evil" or "cruel". As long as everything is consensual it should be tailored to needs of the participants. The psychological jealousy/humiliation alone can be sexually stimulating for some people and lead to great sex. Perhaps polyamory and throuples becoming more common has lessened the taboo around cucking and hotwifing. Fascinating the way sexual trends ebb and flow with the mores of society.
Oh, and, just to sate my curiosity, what exactly is a cuckolding lifestyle? Y'all live together, dating or is it more like a rent a Bull situation?

I call it that, for want of a better term. It started after I had lost my second wife to a drunk driver while I was overseas. When rotating back, I choose a remote military R&D facility near a small town. Because of the R&D, there was a large presence of civilian contractors, including many younger couples, and boredom. I was a single Marine Corps Captain at the time. There was a lot of flirting going on, and one of the women I worked with, asked if I would be interested in fucking her in front of her husband, and added the fact that he ate his own creampies, and when she teased him about possibly eating her lover's creampie, he came on the spot. Funny, he had a bigger cock than I. So that is how it started. Well, women talk, and are very creative at getting their husbands on board. Many were not cuckold situations, but sharing/hotwifing, but also a surprising number that were. I kind of became hooked on fucking wives in front of their husbands, so started initiating the flirting myself and became quite good at encouraging the wives to get their husbands onboard. It was a very interesting three years, until I rotated to another duty station. As for that first couple, she called me a few weeks later and said he was bi-curious, and would I do him. I did. I bent him over the couch and took him. He came while being fucked, so on a whim after I came, I ATM'd him and a he took it. We all realized he was definitely a bottom, and so for the next three years I spent probably one weekend a month with them, one night she and I servicing his needs and then the next night doing the cuckolding thing. She was gently, slowly feminizing him, and I helped with the process

After rotating, I found myself really hooked on flirting and seducing married women, and giving them tips on how to get their husbands onboard with it. Four years later, I got married again and it all ended.

Like I said, it wasn't all cuckolding. Just didn't know what else to call it. And, looking back, I am still shocked and amazed at the number of wives (not only in the cuckold cases) who want to see their husbands take a cock, so though I don't consider myself bi or gay, it was a very interesting run.

 

[Rainblow]

Thank you f

I call it that, for want of a better term. It started after I had lost my second wife to a drunk driver while I was overseas. When rotating back, I choose a remote military R&D facility near a small town. Because of the R&D, there was a large presence of civilian contractors, including many younger couples, and boredom. I was a single Marine Corps Captain at the time. There was a lot of flirting going on, and one of the women I worked with, asked if I would be interested in fucking her in front of her husband, and added the fact that he ate his own creampies, and when she teased him about possibly eating her lover's creampie, he came on the spot. Funny, he had a bigger cock than I. So that is how it started. Well, women talk, and are very creative at getting their husbands on board. Many were not cuckold situations, but sharing/hotwifing, but also a surprising number that were. I kind of became hooked on fucking wives in front of their husbands, so started initiating the flirting myself and became quite good at encouraging the wives to get their husbands onboard. It was a very interesting three years, until I rotated to another duty station. As for that first couple, she called me a few weeks later and said he was bi-curious, and would I do him. I did. I bent him over the couch and took him. He came while being fucked, so on a whim after I came, I ATM'd him and a he took it. We all realized he was definitely a bottom, and so for the next three years I spent probably one weekend a month with them, one night she and I servicing his needs and then the next night doing the cuckolding thing. She was gently, slowly feminizing him, and I helped with the process

After rotating, I found myself really hooked on flirting and seducing married women, and giving them tips on how to get their husbands onboard with it. Four years later, I got married again and it all ended.

Like I said, it wasn't all cuckolding. Just didn't know what else to call it. And, looking back, I am still shocked and amazed at the number of wives (not only in the cuckold cases) who want to see their husbands take a cock, so though I don't consider myself bi or gay, it was a very interesting run.

Thank you for the clarification. You've led an interesting, unconvential sex life. I find people don't like to vocalize their kinks because it makes them feel vulnerable. Having someone to open that door for them can ease them and their partner into it, especially if someone has their back and vocalizes for them, it takes the shame and pressure off of the couple and the blame can be transferred onto the Bull or Cupcake. Making oneself vulnerable can open many doors to a more enjoyable sex life but trust is key. Too bad people don't realize that and spend their marriages in boring, repetitive vanilla sex or sexless marriages.

 

[cowboyup6977]

We are the reverse
I love watching him with another woman before being allowed to join

 

[Handydan]

We are the reverse
I love watching him with another woman before being allowed to join

We like doing both. Seeing eachother receive pleasure is amazing.

 

[JenniZinc]

Ours is a little different. When we invite another male into our bed it's my husband who's fucked. I play the 3rd wheel and 'help out' where required. Personally I have no desire for another man's penis, I'd much rather play with a vibe and watch the action!