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My wife's bull is also her boss. He requires that she wear no panties whenever she is in his presence. It is humiliating to watch her put her panties back on when he drops her off at home, but exhilarating at the same time. It Is especially so because other people see her do it and they imagine that I don't know....that I am unknowing cuckold. But is that less humiliating than being a compliant cuckold?

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When I was in college I was dating a guy and he wanted to go away for spring break. I declined because I said I wanted to go with one of my female friends. It is true that I was going with my girlfriend, but what I didn't tell him was that we were going in a big van with 6 guys. My girlfriend was from another school and the guys were all friends of her cousin (who was one of the guys) so everyone was remote from my immediate environment. She and I spent a week fucking and sucking all six guys. And yes she was fucking her cousin - she was even sluttier than I was and that is probably why this all got put together.
ok...PLEASE consider writing a story/memoir of that experience...change enough to protect the guilty... but good gosh that would be hot to read about from your pleasure/ unbashed slut perspective.
 
If you see your wife's cum covered ass and your first thought is wanting to lick it up without caring who's cum it is, you are ready for the cuckold life.

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Then yes, I am ready! I'd lick up all that delicious cum.
 
It was years ago now but I still remember the bolt of humiliation that shot through me when one of my wife's co-workers told me he had seen her fucking her boss in the parking lot. I already knew she was having an affair with him and had accepted my place as a cuckold. But this event made it clear that everyone else knew she was cuckolding me as well. Later she told me she did it on purpose. I had to accept my humiliation so that she could truly be free to pursue her sexual desires.

You see a hot wife isn't just a married woman who pursues sex like a single woman. The support and loyalty of her cuckold is a key element in freeing her to be utterly uninhibited regardless of the opinions of others. My wife knew that word would get around until all her co-workers knew she was fucking her boss. She likes being a slut and the only way to go is to fully own it.

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I admit it. I’m so jealous. My wife recently confessed to being sexually attracted to her now ex GM. She claims nothing ever happened between them. I’m disappointed by that. And Iwould still love it if it got back to me that there were hot illicit meetings between them. Like maybe back at his place. Or bent over his desk. Or in the back seat of his car in a secluded spot near the building!
 
I admit it. I’m so jealous. My wife recently confessed to being sexually attracted to her now ex GM. She claims nothing ever happened between them. I’m disappointed by that. And Iwould still love it if it got back to me that there were hot illicit meetings between them. Like maybe back at his place. Or bent over his desk. Or in the back seat of his car in a secluded spot near the building!
You made me realize something by this comment.
My wife thinks I'm crazy to be into this cuckold stuff, doesn't understand why I would want that and thinks that I couldn't handle it IRL anyway. She may be right?
She strongly says she has NO interest...

What she doesn't realize and I just realized...
When she told me all the details about her FWB with a MASSIVE BBC who she fucked off and on for years until we started dating, it was only salacious and certainly sparked my interest towards imagining them together...

but when she admitted on "truth serum" that if she got the chance she would fuck him again if we broke up, he's easily twice my size volume wise.. and also admitted she would be open to dating another hung stud ex too if single, whose huge cock was also one of her favorites and is a mountain of a man...
she cucked me mentally for sure then...plus knowing to her my cock is average and likely not top 10 faves...i became a cuckold of sorts emotionally if I stayed with her I think, regardless whether I realized it or not.

I think when that happens, ego can be destroyed, and you can experience crippling jealousy and trust issues, especially when you have a lot if sexual confidence that is being challenged...
or you can lean into it and get immense pleasure out of the cuckold energy.
 
ok...PLEASE consider writing a story/memoir of that experience...change enough to protect the guilty... but good gosh that would be hot to read about from your pleasure/ unbashed slut perspective.

I will add it to my list. Right now I have about a dozen stories at various stages of development in draft form so it may take a while.
 
You made me realize something by this comment.
My wife thinks I'm crazy to be into this cuckold stuff, doesn't understand why I would want that and thinks that I couldn't handle it IRL anyway. She may be right?
She strongly says she has NO interest...

What she doesn't realize and I just realized...
When she told me all the details about her FWB with a MASSIVE BBC who she fucked off and on for years until we started dating, it was only salacious and certainly sparked my interest towards imagining them together...

but when she admitted on "truth serum" that if she got the chance she would fuck him again if we broke up, he's easily twice my size volume wise.. and also admitted she would be open to dating another hung stud ex too if single, whose huge cock was also one of her favorites and is a mountain of a man...
she cucked me mentally for sure then...plus knowing to her my cock is average and likely not top 10 faves...i became a cuckold of sorts emotionally if I stayed with her I think, regardless whether I realized it or not.

I think when that happens, ego can be destroyed, and you can experience crippling jealousy and trust issues, especially when you have a lot if sexual confidence that is being challenged...
or you can lean into it and get immense pleasure out of the cuckold energy.

I think that men in general are conditioned to hold on to some unrealistic views of their own sexuality and virility. In most aspects of life we try to maintain some kind of balance between having a positive attitude and being realistic with ourselves.

If a boy wanted to grow up to be the starting center for the Celtics most people would encourage him to work hard at it and pursue his dream. But if he turns out to be 5'8", slow and uncoordinated at some point he will have to reconcile himself to the prospect that maybe that dream isn't going to be achieved. If he went around claiming to be an amazing basketball player who was just under appreciated or just needed to find the right team and fans for which he is a good fit he would just be deluding himself. It isn't true. We can't all be whatever we want to be. There comes a time when we all must grow the fuck up, accept who we are and focus on our positive attributes. There is no reason for anyone to denigrate that individual for not being a great basketball player, but nor should anyone be obliged to participate in his self-delusion.

Yet when it comes to sexuality and virility I feel as though men are encouraged to engage in self-delusion and insist that others play along. If you just try hard enough you can be an amazing lover for any woman - not true. If you have a tiny penis or ejaculate prematurely you can totally make up for it with your tongue - also not true. You may find a partner who prefers oral sex anyway in which case you are a perfect match. But that is the metaphorical equivalent to realizing that chess and not basketball is your game - congratulations, you found the perfect fit but you still aren't a great basketball player. Or maybe it is closer metaphorically to wanting to be a starting centre but realizing you make a better point guard - again congratulations, but that is about finding your place and accepting what you are and are not.

If a man is crushed because he doesn't end up being the starting centre for the Celtics most people would not participate in the delusion that he really was capable of doing it but just got a bit of bad luck. Nor would we attempt to bribe all the players, owners and fans to let him play the position and score lots of points to feed his fragile ego. And if he went around lashing out at anyone who didn't participate in his delusion we would tell him to grow the fuck up and focus on his strengths. Yet a lot of the jealousy, ego destruction and pain that men experience in the sexual realm is the direct result of clinging to their delusions and trying to compel others to support them too. There is no reason for women to denigrate a man for not being a great lover, but nor should we be compelled to pretend that he is.

Reality is that most women apply a whole bunch of criteria in choosing a husband with love at or near the top of their list. Sex may be further down the list and their husband may not even be very good in the sex department. Love may enhance their intimacy but it won't magically make him an amazing lover. It is more likely to induce her to overlook the fact that he is not a great lover but focus on his other great qualities. For a lot of men "leaning into that cuckold energy" simply means freedom from the burden of sustaining those delusions.

In my anecdotal observation the degree to which men have a problematic relationship with their own sexuality and with women is closely related to the gap between their own self image and reality. If you are average and accept that you are average things are in sync. And you are probably likely to get more sexual attention than a man who is above average but feels compelled to see himself as a sex god. See we (or at least I) don't need or expect every man to be sexually ideal and I don't see men in terms of a linear scale of sexual prowess. If you are funny and engaging I may be more likely to fuck you than if you have an amazing body and stamina. But being delusional, egotistical and overly sensitive is right up there in terms of major turn-offs. I have had mind-blowing sex with several well hung men and based upon physical criteria yes it was better than it is with my husband. But I still love having sex with my husband and not just because I love him, but because he accepts himself. If he felt compelled to measure himself against all other men that would really undermine our sex life.
 
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The cuckold lifestyle is one that really can be super odd. It seems to be the only common thing a lot of them follow is a like of seeing their partners be naughty with other people. There are so many other differences from couple to couple it can make you think there should be subsections to it lol.
 
I think that men in general are conditioned to hold on to some unrealistic views of their own sexuality and virility. In most aspects of life we try to maintain some kind of balance between having a positive attitude and being realistic with ourselves.

If a boy wanted to grow up to be the starting center for the Celtics most people would encourage him to work hard at it and pursue his dream. But if he turns out to be 5'8", slow and uncoordinated at some point he will have to reconcile himself to the prospect that maybe that dream isn't going to be achieved. If he went around claiming to be an amazing basketball player who was just under appreciated or just needed to find the right team and fans for which he is a good fit he would just be deluding himself. It isn't true. We can't all be whatever we want to be. There comes a time when we all must grow the fuck up, accept who we are and focus on our positive attributes. There is no reason for anyone to denigrate that individual for not being a great basketball player, but nor should anyone be obliged to participate in his self-delusion.

Yet when it comes to sexuality and virility I feel as though men are encouraged to engage in self-delusion and insist that others play along. If you just try hard enough you can be an amazing lover for any woman - not true. If you have a tiny penis or ejaculate prematurely you can totally make up for it with your tongue - also not true. You may find a partner who prefers oral sex anyway in which case you are a perfect match. But that is the metaphorical equivalent to realizing that chess and not basketball is your game - congratulations, you found the perfect fit but you still aren't a great basketball player. Or maybe it is closer metaphorically to wanting to be a starting centre but realizing you make a better point guard - again congratulations, but that is about finding your place and accepting what you are and are not.

If a man is crushed because he doesn't end up being the starting centre for the Celtics most people would not participate in the delusion that he really was capable of doing it but just got a bit of bad luck. Nor would we attempt to bribe all the players, owners and fans to let him play the position and score lots of points to feed his fragile ego. And if he went around lashing out at anyone who didn't participate in his delusion we would tell him to grow the fuck up and focus on his strengths. Yet a lot of the jealousy, ego destruction and pain that men experience in the sexual realm is the direct result of clinging to their delusions and trying to compel others to support them too. There is no reason for women to denigrate a man for not being a great lover, but nor should we be compelled to pretend that he is.

Reality is that most women apply a whole bunch of criteria in choosing a husband with love at or near the top of their list. Sex may be further down the list and their husband may not even be very good in the sex department. Love may enhance their intimacy but it won't magically make him an amazing lover. It is more likely to induce her to overlook the fact that he is not a great lover but focus on his other great qualities. For a lot of men "leaning into that cuckold energy" simply means freedom from the burden of sustaining those delusions.

In my anecdotal observation the degree to which men have a problematic relationship with their own sexuality and with women is closely related to the gap between their own self image and reality. If you are average and accept that you are average things are in sync. And you are probably likely to get more sexual attention than a man who is above average but feels compelled to see himself as a sex god. See we (or at least I) don't need or expect every man to be sexually ideal and I don't see men in terms of a linear scale of sexual prowess. If you are funny and engaging I may be more likely to fuck you than if you have an amazing body and stamina. But being delusional, egotistical and overly sensitive is right up there in terms of major turn-offs. I have had mind-blowing sex with several well hung men and based upon physical criteria yes it was better than it is with my husband. But I still love having sex with my husband and not just because I love him, but because he accepts himself. If he felt compelled to measure himself against all other men that would really undermine our sex life.
Well said! Sex is supposed to be fun and not a proving ground for manliness. I believe most failed sexual relationships stem from a lack of self confidence, jealousy and possessiveness. Before you can accept a partner you have to see yourself as an acceptable partner. BE YOURSELF and someone will BE THEMSELVES. Personal qualities are important. My wife and I had a sharing relationship and it was the most fulfilling sexual adventure ever. I never considered myself a cuckold.
 
I think that men in general are conditioned to hold on to some unrealistic views of their own sexuality and virility. In most aspects of life we try to maintain some kind of balance between having a positive attitude and being realistic with ourselves.

If a boy wanted to grow up to be the starting center for the Celtics most people would encourage him to work hard at it and pursue his dream. But if he turns out to be 5'8", slow and uncoordinated at some point he will have to reconcile himself to the prospect that maybe that dream isn't going to be achieved. If he went around claiming to be an amazing basketball player who was just under appreciated or just needed to find the right team and fans for which he is a good fit he would just be deluding himself. It isn't true. We can't all be whatever we want to be. There comes a time when we all must grow the fuck up, accept who we are and focus on our positive attributes. There is no reason for anyone to denigrate that individual for not being a great basketball player, but nor should anyone be obliged to participate in his self-delusion.

Yet when it comes to sexuality and virility I feel as though men are encouraged to engage in self-delusion and insist that others play along. If you just try hard enough you can be an amazing lover for any woman - not true. If you have a tiny penis or ejaculate prematurely you can totally make up for it with your tongue - also not true. You may find a partner who prefers oral sex anyway in which case you are a perfect match. But that is the metaphorical equivalent to realizing that chess and not basketball is your game - congratulations, you found the perfect fit but you still aren't a great basketball player. Or maybe it is closer metaphorically to wanting to be a starting centre but realizing you make a better point guard - again congratulations, but that is about finding your place and accepting what you are and are not.

If a man is crushed because he doesn't end up being the starting centre for the Celtics most people would not participate in the delusion that he really was capable of doing it but just got a bit of bad luck. Nor would we attempt to bribe all the players, owners and fans to let him play the position and score lots of points to feed his fragile ego. And if he went around lashing out at anyone who didn't participate in his delusion we would tell him to grow the fuck up and focus on his strengths. Yet a lot of the jealousy, ego destruction and pain that men experience in the sexual realm is the direct result of clinging to their delusions and trying to compel others to support them too. There is no reason for women to denigrate a man for not being a great lover, but nor should we be compelled to pretend that he is.

Reality is that most women apply a whole bunch of criteria in choosing a husband with love at or near the top of their list. Sex may be further down the list and their husband may not even be very good in the sex department. Love may enhance their intimacy but it won't magically make him an amazing lover. It is more likely to induce her to overlook the fact that he is not a great lover but focus on his other great qualities. For a lot of men "leaning into that cuckold energy" simply means freedom from the burden of sustaining those delusions.

In my anecdotal observation the degree to which men have a problematic relationship with their own sexuality and with women is closely related to the gap between their own self image and reality. If you are average and accept that you are average things are in sync. And you are probably likely to get more sexual attention than a man who is above average but feels compelled to see himself as a sex god. See we (or at least I) don't need or expect every man to be sexually ideal and I don't see men in terms of a linear scale of sexual prowess. If you are funny and engaging I may be more likely to fuck you than if you have an amazing body and stamina. But being delusional, egotistical and overly sensitive is right up there in terms of major turn-offs. I have had mind-blowing sex with several well hung men and based upon physical criteria yes it was better than it is with my husband. But I still love having sex with my husband and not just because I love him, but because he accepts himself. If he felt compelled to measure himself against all other men that would really undermine our sex life.
Thanks for your reply to my post. I agree with all you state.

I hope my comments weren't taken as complaints or blame towards wife for "igniting" my cuckold fantasies with her.
I take all the credit or blame for this unfolding. I pushed for details about her past and wanted the unfiltered truth.
Don't ask if you can't handle it i always say.

I actually feel like we're a perfect match and this unfolding has been a fun adventure I wanted. I feel like I'm with a retired BBC pornstar and am blessed to have found such a unique woman.

To go with your analogy, I am or certainly was a staring point guard with confident sexual prowess and a more than adequate endowment, so I've never felt insecure about that and still don't. I don't think I was living in a delusional ego creation of being god's gift to women, but had a healthy ego surrounding my sexuality based on experience.
However feeling fairly well endowed and then finding out your wife's idea of "well endowed" is "all star" level endowment was a bit sobering. It's obviously not a big deal really...I know I bring way more to the table than just that...but was an interesting realization to deal with.

My wife was blessed to have experienced a few starting centres with rare all star physical gifts and ability...highlight reel guys.
I hadn't been faced with that level of competition to compare myself against before so some surprising insecurities did initially arise but I am still a very confident alpha male that I know my wife appreciates in bed very much.

I understand they were perhaps "all stars" in bed, but not as partners, or she'd likely still be with them.
It's more trying to understand this fairly new fantasy and the intense emotions that surround it, and realizing my interest and desires likely ignited for more reason than just the ones I've created in my mind?

Again...thanks for your insights. Always helpful to hear a woman's perspective.
 
Thanks for your reply to my post. I agree with all you state.

I hope my comments weren't taken as complaints or blame towards wife for "igniting" my cuckold fantasies with her.
I take all the credit or blame for this unfolding. I pushed for details about her past and wanted the unfiltered truth.
Don't ask if you can't handle it i always say.

I actually feel like we're a perfect match and this unfolding has been a fun adventure I wanted. I feel like I'm with a retired BBC pornstar and am blessed to have found such a unique woman.

To go with your analogy, I am or certainly was a staring point guard with confident sexual prowess and a more than adequate endowment, so I've never felt insecure about that and still don't. I don't think I was living in a delusional ego creation of being god's gift to women, but had a healthy ego surrounding my sexuality based on experience.
However feeling fairly well endowed and then finding out your wife's idea of "well endowed" is "all star" level endowment was a bit sobering. It's obviously not a big deal really...I know I bring way more to the table than just that...but was an interesting realization to deal with.

My wife was blessed to have experienced a few starting centres with rare all star physical gifts and ability...highlight reel guys.
I hadn't been faced with that level of competition to compare myself against before so some surprising insecurities did initially arise but I am still a very confident alpha male that I know my wife appreciates in bed very much.

I understand they were perhaps "all stars" in bed, but not as partners, or she'd likely still be with them.
It's more trying to understand this fairly new fantasy and the intense emotions that surround it, and realizing my interest and desires likely ignited for more reason than just the ones I've created in my mind?

Again...thanks for your insights. Always helpful to hear a woman's perspective.

No I didn't take your comments as complaints or blame. I don't think there is any credit or blame due. It sounds to me like you are just expressing yourself and I appreciate you sharing that.

As I read your comments I see a different way in which the athletic analogy is apt. As athletes or academics or people in many other stream of achievement reach higher levels of excellence they realize that there is always someone or something better in some way. The very very few who ever achieve the status of GOAT only do so for a brief period, subject to endless debate and in a narrow field. Even if you are MJ you still have to deal with the fact that the baseball sojourn was meh.

None of us is the best of everything all the time which by definition means sometimes we aren't all we would like to be. The only mature approach is to accept that reality. You can be an amazing wonderful partner for your wife without needing to indulge the delusion that you are the best man that ever lived at every little thing - a standard that no human has or ever will achieve.
 
I'd love to be tied to a chair and made to watch ny wife screw until she's knocked up. All the while another guy is jacking me, and doesn't stop when i cum making for an overload of sensitivity until i cum again....and again....while she's still getting her action
 
I know that I'm not any good with my penis, but I can still find a way to be a part of a woman's sex life.
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OH YES! and this little wimp dick would be on my knees to obediently clean both wife and her superior bull lover.
I think you have the makings of a closet sissy. I had a great time some years ago with a submissive cuckold couple. Initially he just got off on the humiliation of having to hand his wife over to me and address me as Sir. He quickly developed into cleaning us both up, then moved onto fluffing me beforehand. I made him remove all his body hair and wear a cock cage, stockings and suspenders (a garter belt in the US I believe). His wife started to put make up on him before my visits and we would both humiliate him for being a pathetic sissy.
He was never allowed to fuck his wife and only allowed to wank and cum with my permission.
 
Cuckolds do you remember the first girl that cuckolded you? Mine was my high school girlfriend. I had a shitty part-time job in food service. I invited her along to the company picnic. My boss was one of these sorta sleazy 25 year old guys who would probably be the manager of a fast food joint forever. Still he had a nicer car and a bigger dick than me so my 18-year old girlfriend ended up spreading her legs for him. I found out about it from one of my co-workers who caught them in the act. He didn't even pause when they got caught. He just smirked and finished fucking my girlfriend.

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Cuckolds do you remember the first girl that cuckolded you? Mine was my high school girlfriend. I had a shitty part-time job in food service. I invited her along to the company picnic. My boss was one of these sorta sleazy 25 year old guys who would probably be the manager of a fast food joint forever. Still he had a nicer car and a bigger dick than me so my 18-year old girlfriend ended up spreading her legs for him. I found out about it from one of my co-workers who caught them in the act. He didn't even pause when they got caught. He just smirked and finished fucking my girlfriend.

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And no doubt you jerked off afterwards, thinking about him using her……😈
 
For most husbands a threesome with two members of the opposite sex is the unattainable fantasy. Even if it ever happened they would be hard pressed to rise to the occasion. For most wives it is a few minutes of flirting or a phone call away. All she has to do is ask really. This becomes self evident when you enter the cuckold life.

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