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In many ways I see a husband who lives the cuckold life as the most realistically ideal facilitator of his wife's true sexual expression.

In the vast majority of relationships there is a conditionality to a wife's sexual expression. I am not necessarily talking about her actual sexual activity. My focus is on her ability to fully embrace and express her sexuality to herself and her partner. Whether a couple is conservative and vanilla or adventurous with a vibrant sex life in virtually all monogamous marriages there is a conditionality. In other words, not only is there a limit on what a wife can do sexually, but also an implicit limit on what she can express. Even if she and her husband are quite open about their attraction to other people and experiences that only others offer she is almost certainly conscious of the fact that there is a limit to what he is willing and able to hear.

If we go beyond monogamous couples to include swingers that dynamic still exists. The conditionality is less restrictive but it is still there and that is the key point. As long as a woman knows that there is a point at which fully embracing and expressing her sexual desire could do harm to her principal marital relationship she will feel compelled to put limits on it - both in terms of what she shares with her husband and what she acknowledges herself.

So let's go one step further and talk about an open marriage. That is a big step and does substantially change the dynamic....depending upon the parameters. It is logical that a couple have rules that address practical considerations such as safety. But more often they drift into trying to control how the wife feels and behaves with her other lovers. And there is often a competitive dynamic where the husband wants to "keep up" with his wife's extra-marital sexual activity. He will almost certainly fail to do so unless she restrains herself or simply isn't that interested in other men. So while the open relationship does offer more latitude the practical reality is that there are still constraints unless the husband is able and willing to completely separate his wife's sexual experiences from his own and accept the full unlimited scope of them.

The hot wife lifestyle goes once step further still. It erases the competitive dynamic by restricting the husband's outside sexual activities. And in so doing it effectively sweeps aside the problematic inclination to create an artificial equality. We all know that in sexual terms women have far greater opportunity and typically greater capacity. It is entirely to be expected that if truly unfettered and interested in sexual exploration we will outpace men. We can only be truly unrestrained when our husband accepts that he cannot keep up and needs to accept that his sexual experience in life will be different than ours. It isn't impossible to get to this place in an open marriage, but it is often most effective when the relative positions are more explicitly laid out.

There is one more thing that must be addressed and that is the "rules". Chances are that if the man finds himself saying "I am ok with her having sex with other men, as long as X" that X is a conditionality that restricts her sexual expression. She may enjoy telling you about it afterwards - but doesn't want to feel compelled to do so every time. She may enjoy having you reclaim her after she fucks another guy - but there will be times when she doesn't want that. And she is a grown woman who doesn't need to check in with a man monitoring her safety unless she is in a demonstrably risky situation. A wife cannot know how she will feel with any given lover or what she will want. She must have full latitude to take it as it comes without a set of rules designed to constrain her exploration or assuage her husband's insecurities.

The way I see it, by choosing to live the cuckold life a husband is compelled to set aside any unresolved manifestations of his own ego and let go of any attempt to control or limit his wife's sexual activity. Only when that is done can he embrace a role where he truly focusses on his wife's pleasure without limitation. That doesn't mean he must be torn down or humiliated or denied optimal sexual pleasure himself. The only thing that needs to be torn down is his own self-delusions that restrict him form embracing his wife's sexuality without limitation.
 
Years ago I remember being at a party with my young wife not long after we were married. Some jarhead tattooed guy was flirting with her. I got upset and ended up giving her a hard time about and started talking some shit about how he wasn't so tough. I didn't know then how weak that sounded coming from a beta like me, but she sure did. I found out recently that he fucked her regularly over the next 6 months until he went off on deployment.

That really took me off guard. I've Known I was a cuckold for several years now ever since another cheating episode which I had understood to be her first infidelity. But that was several years after she fucked this guy. When I asked her if there were any more before or after the jarhead she said yes, but she wasn't ready to tell me about them all yet. I now I am meekly and excitedly waiting to hear about all the other time she cuckolded me.

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policywank said:
In many ways I see a husband who lives the cuckold life as the most realistically ideal facilitator of his wife's true sexual expression.

In the vast majority of relationships there is a conditionality to a wife's sexual expression. I am not necessarily talking about her actual sexual activity. My focus is on her ability to fully embrace and express her sexuality to herself and her partner. Whether a couple is conservative and vanilla or adventurous with a vibrant sex life in virtually all monogamous marriages there is a conditionality. In other words, not only is there a limit on what a wife can do sexually, but also an implicit limit on what she can express. Even if she and her husband are quite open about their attraction to other people and experiences that only others offer she is almost certainly conscious of the fact that there is a limit to what he is willing and able to hear.

If we go beyond monogamous couples to include swingers that dynamic still exists. The conditionality is less restrictive but it is still there and that is the key point. As long as a woman knows that there is a point at which fully embracing and expressing her sexual desire could do harm to her principal marital relationship she will feel compelled to put limits on it - both in terms of what she shares with her husband and what she acknowledges herself.

So let's go one step further and talk about an open marriage. That is a big step and does substantially change the dynamic....depending upon the parameters. It is logical that a couple have rules that address practical considerations such as safety. But more often they drift into trying to control how the wife feels and behaves with her other lovers. And there is often a competitive dynamic where the husband wants to "keep up" with his wife's extra-marital sexual activity. He will almost certainly fail to do so unless she restrains herself or simply isn't that interested in other men. So while the open relationship does offer more latitude the practical reality is that there are still constraints unless the husband is able and willing to completely separate his wife's sexual experiences from his own and accept the full unlimited scope of them.

The hot wife lifestyle goes once step further still. It erases the competitive dynamic by restricting the husband's outside sexual activities. And in so doing it effectively sweeps aside the problematic inclination to create an artificial equality. We all know that in sexual terms women have far greater opportunity and typically greater capacity. It is entirely to be expected that if truly unfettered and interested in sexual exploration we will outpace men. We can only be truly unrestrained when our husband accepts that he cannot keep up and needs to accept that his sexual experience in life will be different than ours. It isn't impossible to get to this place in an open marriage, but it is often most effective when the relative positions are more explicitly laid out.

There is one more thing that must be addressed and that is the "rules". Chances are that if the man finds himself saying "I am ok with her having sex with other men, as long as X" that X is a conditionality that restricts her sexual expression. She may enjoy telling you about it afterwards - but doesn't want to feel compelled to do so every time. She may enjoy having you reclaim her after she fucks another guy - but there will be times when she doesn't want that. And she is a grown woman who doesn't need to check in with a man monitoring her safety unless she is in a demonstrably risky situation. A wife cannot know how she will feel with any given lover or what she will want. She must have full latitude to take it as it comes without a set of rules designed to constrain her exploration or assuage her husband's insecurities.

The way I see it, by choosing to live the cuckold life a husband is compelled to set aside any unresolved manifestations of his own ego and let go of any attempt to control or limit his wife's sexual activity. Only when that is done can he embrace a role where he truly focusses on his wife's pleasure without limitation. That doesn't mean he must be torn down or humiliated or denied optimal sexual pleasure himself. The only thing that needs to be torn down is his own self-delusions that restrict him form embracing his wife's sexuality without limitation.
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I agree with this. My wife and I have tried the open marriage thing and did some swinger events (still do sometimes). But she says that once I embraced the cuckold life she was able to have a unique combination of absolute freedom and cuckold support that was previously a little bit more qualified and conditional.
 
When I entered the cuckold life I ceded control over all of my sexual experiences to my wife. I stand ready at all times to shower her with attention and support, but I take nothing for granted. Licking her pussy clean after she has been with another man is not a right. It is a privilege that can only be bestowed by her and which I embrace with enthusiasm and gratitude.

https://SPAMPOST/wifewatchersworld/post/f70b3216-9027-4556-898e-2c2ef5af9f6b/

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Over 70% of wives say that they would have sex with another man if it wouldn't hurt their marriage or their husband. Of those women, almost all say that if they were going to do it they would choose to sample a bigger cock and they are curious about BBC. Husbands, maybe you can hold her back but it won't change how she feels or what she really wants.

https://SPAMPOST/RunkleGC/post/1c2e53af-0d9c-4cc8-a4de-204dfcdb474e/

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SlutAddicted said:
Cuckold life means embracing the fact that your hot wife will introduce your daughter to the lifestyle. Her mother will teach her how to manage a cuckold and how to great a bull.

https://SPAMPOST/Sami-babydick/post/46b0bac1-cf86-456b-a503-1654a6d3ed5c/

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This is 100% true in my house. My daughter has just turned 18 and my wife has not only been telling her about our lifestyle for a while ( she knows I’m a cuckold) but my wife’s main bull has now fuck my daughter as well. As her birthday present she was given access to him if she wanted to and she happily took her Mom’s offer.
 
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