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I do not consider myself a cuckold as I do not feel inadequate despite my age and prostate issues. we still have a good relationship and do things together. Still I just love watching her or just hearing about her fucking another man. She has no problem taking care of 2 or 3 men so i am not left out. Still just watching her in the throes of passion with a lover is super exciting for me. I don't really share her either. She is not my property to share but we do share her experiences which in turn enhances our life together.
 
SlutAddicted said:
For me the starting point was more about embracing the jealousy than getting over it.

We have been conditioned to believe that we must respond in a certain way when we experience feelings of jealousy, but that conditioning isn't necessarily correct. For instance, if we are jealous because our intimate partner has sex with another person we are taught that she is in the wrong and we must do something to put a stop to that activity or exit the relationship. But if we are jealous because someone else has a bigger house or a nicer car than us we are taught that we are in the wrong and our envy of others is selfish and unseemly. The difference lies in the values society has imposed upon us. Why shouldn't we think in terms of (as Phil1955 said) respecting and accepting our partner's sexual prerogative, understanding that we don't have a claim to them and focussing on their sexual fulfillment?

Even if you accept all that, the jealousy won't just magically disappear. But you can start to reframe it and think of it like some other emotions - like say fear or anxiety - where the right approach is to remain calm, embrace the emotion and let it flow through you rather than fighting it. At the same time you will experience other more pleasurable things like arousal, excitement and titillation and you will come to see that these things all come together. When you block or fight the jealousy you do the same with these other emotions. When you embrace it you come to see it as part of growing and experiencing, which even when rewarding can be challenging. You get to a place of understanding that you must choose between sheltering yourself or broadening your horizons.

In time you start to see that the fact that your wife can take a unique sexual pleasure from her experiences with other men - not necessarily better or worse than you, but different and desirable - your ability to deny it wanes. You soon realize that all those men who have convinced themselves that their wife could never want another man are living in self-delusion. Once you recognize that it becomes impossible to maintain - self delusion is reliant upon actually convincing yourself which becomes impossible after you have seen the truth. After that you start to realize that the truth was right there all along and nothing has really changed. She had those desires all along and pretending otherwise isn't what kept her devoted to you. And if trying to keep her bottled up and in denial is the way a man tries to keep his wife faithful it won't work anyway. If anything opening up her sexual horizons will draw you closer together.....if in fact you are a good match. If she runs off with some other guy who fucks her then that potential was always right there under the surface anyway and better you realize it sooner rather than later.

You can't will your emotions away. You have to face them and embrace them. That is how we are conditioned to face most things that we find emotionally challenging. Society has approached relationship jealousy differently because it finds this emotion to be a useful and powerful tool in the enforcement of the monogamy paradigm which is so valued by patriarchal society. But the flawed reasons for that are a whole other topic.
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I have made the point elsewhere on Lit that jealousy is largely linked to what we regard as the norm. Why does a man on the other side of the world get jealous if another man sees his wife's uncovered head or leg yet here in North America many men think nothing of others seeing their wife in a bikini? They have different reference points as to what they find acceptable. There is no objective basis for either reference point. They are each entirely a product of what we have been conditioned to believe. Even within our own culture our views as to how sexually pure or modest a woman must be has changed over the years.

Similarly if a wife is cheating, why is her husband jealous but the other man is not? Each man has a different understanding of what degree of loyalty or exclusivity he is due. So again the jealousy is a product of expectations. If it was solely the product of the fact that she is having sex with another man then bot men would be equally jealous.

As SlutAddicted has said you can't just turn that feeling off or on easily. But it helps to understand where it is coming from and address it at its root - in your expectations. My husband experiences very little jealousy because he doesn't expect me to be sexually exclusive.
 
https://SPAMPOST/Lohded/post/f94808f5-3e91-4f15-be47-1c3a5083ed46/
 
My wife's bull wanted to demonstrate to me how much sway he holds over my wife. So he ordered her to put on her slut heels and bend over so he could fuck her in the ass. She complied without a peep and he made sure that I had a good view of her normally well fucked pussy so that it was obvious that his cock was in her ass. (click link for gif)

https://www.sex.com/pin/56974556-delicious-ass/

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I have heard of women that treat anal sex as though it doesn't count as cheating. This always seemed very odd to me. If anything the ass seems even more intimate. My wife never let me near her ass. That is why when I saw her bull put his much bigger cock (than mine) in her ass I jizzed in my cock cage right away. I could tell by the way she took it that it wasn't her first time. Suddenly I realized that I was one of those men who's wife lets other men fuck her in the ass. It was somehow more humiliating than all the other things she lets them do. (click link for gif)

https://www.sex.com/pin/63283844-haley-gonna-learn/

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phil1955 said:
I do not consider myself a cuckold as I do not feel inadequate despite my age and prostate issues. we still have a good relationship and do things together. Still I just love watching her or just hearing about her fucking another man. She has no problem taking care of 2 or 3 men so i am not left out. Still just watching her in the throes of passion with a lover is super exciting for me. I don't really share her either. She is not my property to share but we do share her experiences which in turn enhances our life together.
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I have always thought of a cuckold as simply a man who's wife fucks other men. Why she fucks other men, the husband's sexual adequacy and any other fetish aspects of the relationship are separate matters.
 
There will be times when the cuckolds wife prefers sex to get a little rough - just not with him.
https://videos.SPAMPOST/file/videos-out/1313134-1651328679-116/1313134-1651328679-116.mp4
 
The first time we went to swingers club it was my idea. I ended up having sex with two women - both pleasant enough but nothing special. I was sitting at the bar chatting with another woman, wondering if I could get it up again and wondering where my wife was. That is when the woman told me my wife was in the gang bang room. She was on her fifth group of guys and there were more waiting.

https://www.sex.com/pin/5117217-sexy-blonde-butt-in-this-incredible-gang-bang-tug-job-pic/

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