Crying/Pain/Fear

[Kuiper]

I don't often find others who share some of my more unusual fantasies/kinks, such as the ones listed in the title, and I'm wondering if there's anyone here who enjoys such things and wants to talk about them.

I'm not looking for a BDSM relationship or really any sort of structured relationship, just some conversations with someone of any gender, preferably someone who is attracted to cisgendered women (I'm a girl), but if not that's cool too. All I really ask is that you be looking for conversation about these sorts of topics, not be into real nonconsensual situations with actual people (that is fucked up, get help), and be respectful.

I'll reply to messages that seem interesting to me and not overly creepy. All you have to lose is maybe 5 minutes of your time.


Also, if you have a problem with my preferences, please feel free not to tell me about it. There has to be an ignore function or something so you won't see my posts? I guarantee I won't be offended if you use it.

 

[subdued_passion]

Score 1 for the new girl!

I don't often find others who share some of my more unusual fantasies/kinks, such as the ones listed in the title, and I'm wondering if there's anyone here who enjoys such things and wants to talk about them.

I'm not looking for a BDSM relationship or really any sort of structured relationship, just some conversations with someone of any gender, preferably someone who is attracted to cisgendered women (I'm a girl), but if not that's cool too. All I really ask is that you be looking for conversation about these sorts of topics, not be into real nonconsensual situations with actual people (that is fucked up, get help), and be respectful.

I'll reply to messages that seem interesting to me and not overly creepy. All you have to lose is maybe 5 minutes of your time.


Also, if you have a problem with my preferences, please feel free not to tell me about it. There has to be an ignore function or something so you won't see my posts? I guarantee I won't be offended if you use it.

Great post. I don't know if this is the right corner for it, but I bet someone will come along soon enough to offer direction. Till then...

A song for you!

 

[Kuiper]

Great post. I don't know if this is the right corner for it, but I bet someone will come along soon enough to offer direction. Till then...

A song for you!

Haha, thanks.

Still looking for people aroused by the same odd shit I am.

 

[darklord4637]

gret post...

 

[CuteBrat]

I don't often find others who share some of my more unusual fantasies/kinks, such as the ones listed in the title, and I'm wondering if there's anyone here who enjoys such things and wants to talk about them.

I'm not looking for a BDSM relationship or really any sort of structured relationship, just some conversations with someone of any gender, preferably someone who is attracted to cisgendered women (I'm a girl), but if not that's cool too. All I really ask is that you be looking for conversation about these sorts of topics, not be into real nonconsensual situations with actual people (that is fucked up, get help), and be respectful.

I'll reply to messages that seem interesting to me and not overly creepy. All you have to lose is maybe 5 minutes of your time.


Also, if you have a problem with my preferences, please feel free not to tell me about it. There has to be an ignore function or something so you won't see my posts? I guarantee I won't be offended if you use it.

I am very turned on by fear. I often say my pussy has a death wish. The more frightened I am...the wetter I get.

I don't know if crying turns me on. I guess I probly get turned on by the helplessness of knowing someone doesn't CARE that I'm crying. He or she knows what they want from me....and how I feel about it or if I'm crying about it isn't important.

I'm not turned on by pain. But...people who like to scare me and don't care if I cry, also sometimes like to hurt. I accept that.

 

[jbro]

Hmm... I am intreged to day the lest. Very intreged... *winks to the ladies*

 

[CuteBrat]

Hmm... I am intreged to day the lest. Very intreged... *winks to the ladies*

But not quite intrigued enough to spell the word correctly, I see...

 

[CuteBrat]

Oh this is what always gets me in trouble.... I never "day the lest"....

 

[Jonny G]

Oh this is what always gets me in trouble.... I never "day the lest"....

Always in trouble , and always looking for it ............

 

[CuteBrat]

Always in trouble , and always looking for it ............

lets just say im not so good at holding my tongue.

 

[Jonny G]

lets just say im not so good at holding my tongue.

You might have to put that tongue to good use !

 

[CuteBrat]

You might have to put that tongue to good use !

that has been known to happen....

 

[Kuiper]

I am very turned on by fear. I often say my pussy has a death wish. The more frightened I am...the wetter I get.

I totally understand this. The fear, the being out of control of the situation... it is an aphrodisiac. Seeing it in someone else's eyes works for me too.

I don't know if crying turns me on. I guess I probly get turned on by the helplessness of knowing someone doesn't CARE that I'm crying. He or she knows what they want from me....and how I feel about it or if I'm crying about it isn't important.

For me, it is very hot to make someone cry in a sexual situation. And when it's me crying, it's much hotter if the other person is actively trying to elicit that response. It's less "I don't care whether you like this or not" and more "I love to make you cry" or "It turns me on so fucking much that this is actually making you cry and I don't have to stop."

I'm not turned on by pain. But...people who like to scare me and don't care if I cry, also sometimes like to hurt. I accept that.

I'm only into some specific types of pain, and even then it's less about the physical sensation (which is not always pleasurable in any physical sense) and more about the idea of someone being aroused by causing me pain - much like the crying thing. Likewise, when I'm hurting someone else, it's not that they're in pain that arouses me, it's that I'm causing it, that I have that power over their bodies.

 

[subdued_passion]

Bump for the new girl who knows what she likes and isn't afraid to say so.

Kuiper, have you tried posting in the BDSM section? Sounds to me like you need a sadist who won't give you real pain but the rest of the experience.

All the best!

 

[Kuiper]

Bump for the new girl who knows what she likes and isn't afraid to say so.

Kuiper, have you tried posting in the BDSM section? Sounds to me like you need a sadist who won't give you real pain but the rest of the experience.

All the best!

Thanks for the bump!

I'm not so much looking for a play partner as just someone to talk with about such desires - either sadists or masochists would do!

 

[Kuiper]

Another quick bump. I'm going to specify here that I want a conversation with someone who communicates well. It may be too much to ask, but I have a hard time communicating with people who don't read what I write, don't type well or don't move the conversation forward with any original thoughts.