Crossing lines

[Texture]

Have your particular bents ever led you into acting in ways you're not comfortable with or fantasising or obsessing about an area where you don't really want to go?

What did you do about it?

 

[ethereal~minx]

Have your particular bents ever led you into acting in ways you're not comfortable with or fantasising or obsessing about an area where you don't really want to go?

What did you do about it?

I think I will continually push myself to where I'm not comfortable, face my own judgements & go forward... it's not that I'm going somewhere I don't want to go~ it's just new territory, new experiences that I have to adjust to..... it's called growth~ life experience

I don't go against my integrity but I do push my own limits..
recently I did something that was a little unsettling to me... but I know I'm "okay".. it's not a bad thing, blah blah blah..it's just workin through the learned judgements & being secure in my own mind

 

[catalina_francisco]

Have your particular bents ever led you into acting in ways you're not comfortable with or fantasising or obsessing about an area where you don't really want to go?

What did you do about it?

Explored the true feelings and underlying motivation, and shared with my Master when possible (fanstasising)....and tried to obey to the best of my ability (uncomfortable tasks)....and always remind myself I am meant to be fulfilling his needs, not mine.

Catalina

 

[Alfresco]

whooooooooo jeeeeeeeeeeez loved the thought ladies
it is an wakening
if my spell is bad bad luck
but it is an experience
to hold and saviour i'm glad i did it
fuller for it and yes who care's

 

[Quint]

Much like Catalina said, starting off with honesty--both to myself and my partner--is crucial. Even though I do have some desires I don't even like to admit to myself, I had to if I wanted to get over the shame. Wasn't so painful as I thought.

This also lets me put the control over if these actions happen or not into my dominant's hands, where I feel they should be. The ball is in his court, so to speak, and so now I can just relax and let him deal with them however his desires dictate.

 

[Texture]

Thanks for the replies.

I left the question vague, because I wanted to hear what people came up with.

I was partly thinking of things which threaten to cross the line between what you consider acceptable for yourself to do and not, maybe between 'fantasy' and 'reality' if these ideas apply to you.

If you're ever scared of losing control of yourself, or putting yourself in a situation you don't want to be in, perhaps in 'real life'.

BTW, this shouldn't come across as an outsider interviewing you post.