Crossdressing Chat

Hell All,
I just discovered the forum here yesterday, but I have been on Literotica for several years. I love the idea of a chat board that we can discuss cross dressing. I've been dressing up for more than 35 years (I started young) and it has become part of who I am at this point. I don't pass, and live my day to day as a guy. I love satin and silk, I was fortunate to get started in the days of satin string bikini panties. When I am at home or with someone I trust I love to dress in lingerie from head to toe. I look forward to talking with all of you about our unique hobby!
 
I do play a lot... but most of the time it's alone. Apparently crossdressing and a lingerie fetish isn't everyones bag. I've shared it with all of my girlfriends (to mixed reactions) and as I've matured I think it would be fun to play with another Crossdresser. (Umbrella term) I'm not really attracted to guys unless they're wearing panties or lingerie. It could be fun to have a "friend" that also dresses.
 
I agree that it would be nice to have a crossdressing buddy or buddies but, as I live in a small town where everyone knows your name (and business), that is not likely to happen. Its just me, my lingerie, and my breast forms. Sigh.
 
I agree that it would be nice to have a crossdressing buddy or buddies but, as I live in a small town where everyone knows your name (and business), that is not likely to happen. Its just me, my lingerie, and my breast forms. Sigh.
I wouldn't trade the small town life for anything, but I do wish that I could wear a skirt while I mow the lawn. I suppose that's the challenge of being a part time crossdresser.
 
I present as female more or less full time, including at work. It was not always that
way. For many years I only changed into feminine clothes when my ex wife was away. Back then I could not get rid of body hair because she didn't know and wouldn't have liked it.
Now I can do that, but if you had that liberty, would you do the same?
The only thing I have not done is to have receptive sex from a real cock. I sometimes fantasize about that but years ago it was not on my mind.
I can even occasionally wear this kind of thing for disco, which is a lot of fun.

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I present as female more or less full time, including at work. It was not always that
way. For many years I only changed into feminine clothes when my ex wife was away. Back then I could not get rid of body hair because she didn't know and wouldn't have liked it.
Now I can do that, but if you had that liberty, would you do the same?
The only thing I have not done is to have receptive sex from a real cock. I sometimes fantasize about that but years ago it was not on my mind.
I can even occasionally wear this kind of thing for disco, which is a lot of fun.

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I admire and respect you more than you can imagine. While I do have the liberty to crossdress, honestly the thought of coming out scares the hell out of me. More than anything else in fact. This is only based on my experiences and through the lens that I see the world through mind you. I have shared Ember with all of my girlfriends and a handful of non romantic friends male and female. The idea of telling family, friends, and colleagues seems really stressful.
That said I'd love to be able to wear what ever I want, and go about my life. Maybe wear a skirt and a cute top while mowing my lawn, or going to the grocery store.
 
I admire and respect you more than you can imagine. While I do have the liberty to crossdress, honestly the thought of coming out scares the hell out of me. More than anything else in fact. This is only based on my experiences and through the lens that I see the world through mind you. I have shared Ember with all of my girlfriends and a handful of non romantic friends male and female. The idea of telling family, friends, and colleagues seems really stressful.
That said I'd love to be able to wear what ever I want, and go about my life. Maybe wear a skirt and a cute top while mowing my lawn, or going to the grocery store.
The big question is; do you enjoy yourself more when you dress than when you do not? If it feels more natural dressed in feminine clothing then that is you and what really should scare you is that you are pretending to be something else.
 
The big question is; do you enjoy yourself more when you dress than when you do not? If it feels more natural dressed in feminine clothing then that is you and what really should scare you is that you are pretending to be something else.
That is a good point. It doesn't really feel more natural to wear "woman's" clothing versus "mens" clothing. And once again, based on my experiences and through my lens, there is a time and a place for everything. Most of the time it's a mixture of both because I "underdress" daily. I've learned that when someone finds out that I wear lingerie you find out who your real friends are. I don't necessarily want to wear a dress every day, but it would be nice on occasion.
 
I guess everyone on this thread knows that if you have a suppressed feminine side, you will probably progressively go further and, if you are married, your wife will find out one day.
 
For lack of a better term I refer to myself as a Crossdresser. I enjoy wearing woman’s clothing, mostly lingerie an panties. However I have a few skirts and tops, and some other outerwear. But I also lead the life of a guy day to day.
Because I live in a very small conservative town I don‘t go out dressed in my female clothing. I have been known to wear a skirt and or leggings while camping or hiking. It is my opinion that there as many reasons that people crossdress, as there are Crossdresser’s.
 
For lack of a better term I refer to myself as a Crossdresser. I enjoy wearing woman’s clothing, mostly lingerie an panties. However I have a few skirts and tops, and some other outerwear. But I also lead the life of a guy day to day.
Because I live in a very small conservative town I don‘t go out dressed in my female clothing. I have been known to wear a skirt and or leggings while camping or hiking. It is my opinion that there as many reasons that people crossdress, as there are Crossdresser’s.
Probably. I don't explicitly say I am a woman, but I want to be addressed and treated in the way tradition thinks appropriate for women. It feels appropriate in a way expectations of males never did.
 
Probably. I don't explicitly say I am a woman, but I want to be addressed and treated in the way tradition thinks appropriate for women. It feels appropriate in a way expectations of males never did.
I consider myself male, however I’m very in touch with my feminine side. I have a wonderful friend that I’m not romantically involved with that doesn’t mind if I wear female clothing when we spend time together. She has always supported me in my choice to be me. It’s nice to have a friend that is not judgmental and accepts me for who I am.
 
Wear wife's panties quite often, but she is a couple of sizes too small. So I no have a hidden stash. When she is not around I love to slip in to her clothes that can fit.

This is from a couple of days back...


Can post more if there is interest.
I can wear my wife's panties and some of her lingerie because her bottom is a bit large. No way I'd ever be able to wear any dresses or anything like that though as she is petite in terms of stature.
 
I can wear my wife's panties and some of her lingerie because her bottom is a bit large. No way I'd ever be able to wear any dresses or anything like that though as she is petite in terms of stature.
Same here on the petite size. I have to choose larger outfits.
 
Only with pantyhose and stockings (just ordered more Wolfords). I am thinking of getting a dress/skirt tho. This is pain for my wallet. 😭
 
Nice to see this thread staying alive. There seems to be quite a bit of interest in the topic and, judging by the variety of responses, a number of people interested. My wife has known of my preference for panties for many years and recently I "came out" in terms of my desire to increase my dressing. WHile I can't say she is interested in participating, she is very accepting of my "hobby".
 
Nice to see this thread staying alive. There seems to be quite a bit of interest in the topic and, judging by the variety of responses, a number of people interested. My wife has known of my preference for panties for many years and recently I "came out" in terms of my desire to increase my dressing. WHile I can't say she is interested in participating, she is very accepting of my "hobby".
You gurls are so lucky! Over the last couple of years, I've tried to slowly integrate new things into our love life. More butt play, pegging, few more toys, little more porn. A couple of weeks ago, she indicated she's nervous about doing anything more. She's afraid I think our love life is boring (because of her low self-esteem she equates a boring love life with not loving her :cry:). For example, she knows playing with my nipples really gets me off. And she loves doing it. So, when I saw a set of beginning nipple clamps for sale on LoveHoney, I told her that would be a neat birthday present for me. I thought she was going to have a heart attack.
Long story short, if I told her I wanted to start wearing women's clothes of any type, no matter how carefully I brought up the subject, she'd completely lose it. So it'll have to remain a fantasy for me. I do wear her panties and thongs when she's at work (I'm retired) but that's going to have to satisfy my cravings.
 
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