Creative Eroticization: Effective Motivational Tool?

[Technodivinitas]

I'm sitting here realizing that I have become something like 65 percent more efficient since it became a personal objective to better please and serve my Master, and also, that I always find myself to accomplish more when I consciously eroticize my basic everyday tasks. For example; My primary daily duty is to clean the house. (That breaks down into a WHOLE lot of individual tasks, but...) If all I focus on is the task at hand, it's very easy to become distracted by things which are more interesting, more fun, or, to my creative inner artist, more productive. Conversely, if I focus myself, put on my collar, consider Master (strong, hot, sexy Master!) over my shoulder with a pleased and not so innocent smile, while I am , say, on my knees, ass in the air, scrubbing the floor, scrubbing the toilet, doing my workout, etc., the task becomes foreplay, and therefore something much harder to be distracted from, since hey-! What's more fun than foreplay?

I recently posted a "languished" post in the cafe about how sad and slavelike was scrubbing Master's truck in the hot sun. A few were concerned. (I assured them with a wink that it was all good...) Analyzing that, I realize that in a sense, by dramatizing it, by playing up my own suffering and its relevance to my slavery, I gave the task a hot spin, and later was a little extra-randy when Master got home and I was all sweaty and mussed up.

Heee! BY making it less fun, I made it more fun!

Does anyone else find this to be true or efective for them? Suppose this could be applied to less directly slave-oriented drudgeries or unpleasant experiences?

I'm thinking, if one could eroticize things which cause them fear or pain in non-erotic ways, they might be able to overcome signifigant life-issues! Fear of needles, medical pains, spiders, what have you... (Suddenly imagines spiders all over the world as tiny potential Dom-minions... )

 

[Shadowsdream]

I'm sitting here realizing that I have become something like 65 percent more efficient since it became a personal objective to better please and serve my Master, and also, that I always find myself to accomplish more when I consciously eroticize my basic everyday tasks. For example; My primary daily duty is to clean the house. (That breaks down into a WHOLE lot of individual tasks, but...) If all I focus on is the task at hand, it's very easy to become distracted by things which are more interesting, more fun, or, to my creative inner artist, more productive. Conversely, if I focus myself, put on my collar, consider Master (strong, hot, sexy Master!) over my shoulder with a pleased and not so innocent smile, while I am , say, on my knees, ass in the air, scrubbing the floor, scrubbing the toilet, doing my workout, etc., the task becomes foreplay, and therefore something much harder to be distracted from, since hey-! What's more fun than foreplay?

I recently posted a "languished" post in the cafe about how sad and slavelike was scrubbing Master's truck in the hot sun. A few were concerned. (I assured them with a wink that it was all good...) Analyzing that, I realize that in a sense, by dramatizing it, by playing up my own suffering and its relevance to my slavery, I gave the task a hot spin, and later was a little extra-randy when Master got home and I was all sweaty and mussed up.

Heee! BY making it less fun, I made it more fun!

Does anyone else find this to be true or efective for them? Suppose this could be applied to less directly slave-oriented drudgeries or unpleasant experiences?

I'm thinking, if one could eroticize things which cause them fear or pain in non-erotic ways, they might be able to overcome signifigant life-issues! Fear of needles, medical pains, spiders, what have you... (Suddenly imagines spiders all over the world as tiny potential Dom-minions... )

Thank you for this post...I look forward to following this thread very much.

 

[Netzach]

I do know a lot of people more on the SM side of our world who definitely find comfort and correalation between pain management and SM play, who have found SM to be a window into managing pain or illness.

Google Bob Flanagan for an extreme example of this...amazing man.

 

[serijules]

I do this often and it works very well for me. For example...getting tattooed. As much as I enjoy pain, sitting for 3-5 hours while my back is being worked on can take its toll rather quickly. I survive these sessions and turn them into something very desireable by imagining I am taking the pain for my Domme, and eroticizing the whole experience in that way. It works, very well, and now being inked is an incredible turnon for me, and I have a hard time keeping myself out of an almost subspace-like trance.

While I was visiting her recently, some of the expectations of me included cleaning up after a scene, straightening the house in the morning while she showered, and helping her pack for a move while she was at work. I was admittedly in a "Im on vacation, I don't want to do this" mode, so to help myself turn that whiny lazy feeling around, I reminded myself that I was doing this to please her, and that she had expectations of me because I belong to her, and it made the tasks much easier and more enjoyable. Even personal care tasks like keeping myself shaved smooth become much less of a chore and more desireable when approached with this mentality.

 

[spankableBelle]

Does anyone else find this to be true or efective for them? Suppose this could be applied to less directly slave-oriented drudgeries or unpleasant experiences?

I'm thinking, if one could eroticize things which cause them fear or pain in non-erotic ways, they might be able to overcome signifigant life-issues! Fear of needles, medical pains, spiders, what have you... (Suddenly imagines spiders all over the world as tiny potential Dom-minions... )

Yes, i do...just this morning in fact sitting on the floor sorting workbook pages...

Who knew it would make one so...horny!

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I do a variation of this with my husband; I have him do some of the house work in the nude while I watch. It 's quite entertaining for me and he knows he's putting on a show for me, so it doesn't seem so tedious (I haven't mentioned to him that I'm also guarding his dangling parts from playful kitties ).

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, I find the more I normally would not want to or enjoy doing a task or act, the more erotic appeal it has both in the short and long term..comes down to the simplest of notions as you say, 'it is all for Master and his pleasure/comfort'. Makes just about anything possible to enjoy when you get locked into that mindset.

Catalina

 

[AvaAdore]

I experienced this yesterday. We had a bit of a play, and afterwords I had to change the bedsheets and clean up the sex toys. I had just gotten out of the shower and had to do this while he was in the shower. Now it is the middle of winter here and his flat is fucking cold, but somehow walking around naked doing stuff wasn't so bad - I barely felt the cold.

 

[Technodivinitas]

LOL, I find the more I normally would not want to or enjoy doing a task or act, the more erotic appeal it has both in the short and long term..comes down to the simplest of notions as you say, 'it is all for Master and his pleasure/comfort'. Makes just about anything possible to enjoy when you get locked into that mindset.
Catalina

Well, if you add to that the element of egoist-martyr: "Look how far I'm willing to go, how low I'm willing to sink, how much I' willing to suffer, for Master..."

That's where I'm coming from.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Well, if you add to that the element of egoist-martyr: "Look how far I'm willing to go, how low I'm willing to sink, how much I' willing to suffer, for Master..."

That's where I'm coming from.

Seems we share a similar thought process..have to say this week has been extremely interesting since my return and my renewed interest in pushing through those previous 'hard to' areas. Think someone here has been a little surprised, though pleasantly. Those former unwanted difficulties seem to be falling away in quick succession.

Catalina

 

[ethereal~minx]

very effective

the mere thought of "doing" because it is pleasing another is extremely erotic to me
I have tricked myself into doing the most mundane tasks, things I've *gritting my teeth* hated to do and swore I wouldn't do ...
and doing them with an inner warmth & smile & glow

it's nice to finally be able to do these things without the need for mind trickery .. in the event there's really no one to eroticize about but it suuuuure makes it beautiful when that's what it's about~~ ~so, heck yeah!!!! it works!

 

[esclave_PP]

Yes, I am totally committed to tasks because of focus, and pleasing Master. If I get off track, I remind myself, ah ah ah...Master won't be pleased and voila Works wonders!

 

[Technodivinitas]

Yes, I am totally committed to tasks because of focus, and pleasing Master. If I get off track, I remind myself, ah ah ah...Master won't be pleased and voila Works wonders!

But... can you mentally apply the eroticization to things which, generally speaking, aren't really related? A bit like serijules' tattoos, but I'm thinking less potentially erotic stuff. Today, I have to clean out Master's wife's car. It's messy, I drive it more than she does, and the mess is mostly mine. Plus, I have to cope with it more than anyone, so I'm really doing it A. for me, and B. to show her a bit of respect for letting me use it. Master didn't order it, I feel NO submissiveness toward the wife, but I can sex up the job by thinking: Master's wife can be seriously bitchy. When things make her happy, it makes his life much easier. If I knuckle down and clean the car, Master's wife will be sweet to him (and possibly me,) and he will feel better.

On an additional note: I've recently been taking this to a new (kinda hardcore) level by stressing my slavehood heavily in my day to day behaviors. Since I'm 24/7, and not much beholden to anyone on a vanilla level, I've started making a concerted effort to dress like the sexslave that I am. I try not to go out of the house without deep red lipstick, for example. In fact, I dress a bit like the "picture perfect" modern slavegirl- respectable but sexy dresses, high heel boots, etc. And my collar, of course, which is ENTIRELY not mistakable for vanilla... Going to pick Master up from work, I go bare from the waist down. (under the skirt.) That sort of thing. I've recently considered doing housework in the buff- at least the floor-scrubbing part. Master seems thrilled with the development, though!

 

[esclave_PP]

Oh totally -- whether it is my daily work, or vacuuming in the nude (Master likes that) there is eroticism for me just in serving. I guess I am old school but for me, the pleasure and eroticism are in the mere acts, like feeding him berries with my fingers.