Cradle carry

[Jacosta6969]

Hi all. Quite niche but can I ask if any of you are fond of a cradle carry?

There are undertones of dominance and submission with it that excites me.

Particularly where there is an age gap with those involved e.g older man carrying a younger woman or a young man carrying a mature lady.

 

[Emma_O]

Since I'm already (happily) married, hypothetically speaking...

For me, age would be mostly meaningless. It's about maturity, emotional support & genuine affection. Carries themselves with confidence, without pretense. A relationship in which I feel safe, emotionally and physically. In other words: adulting, or simply being a man. There are 20-somethings that exude those qualities. There are 50-somethings that don't. For me, it would be something like, "frat boys need not apply".

If the above qualities exist, yeah, I'll play the part of your little ragdoll. Might even let you tie me up once in a while. Luckily for me, I have, and do.

Sometimes, after a particularly rough or stressful week at work, or for whatever reason, it is nice to just have that someone else take charge, and let yourself be pleasured.

 

[Jacosta6969]

Thanks Emma.

In reality I wholeheartedly agree with you, a man being a man is not defined by their age, I am aware of plenty of older seemingly experienced men who have no emotional maturity.

Somewhat amusingly it also comes down to strength; is the man strong enough to lift his partner/wife/lover/ mistress? The women in my fantasies are not stick thin super models and I also know some men who would struggle to lift their significant others.

Therein lies the arousal and excitement for me. Once you she is lifted, where is she going? What happens next? Do you have any control over it?

Hypothetically speaking of course…!

 

[Emma_O]

Thanks Emma.

In reality I wholeheartedly agree with you, a man being a man is not defined by their age, I am aware of plenty of older seemingly experienced men who have no emotional maturity.

Somewhat amusingly it also comes down to strength; is the man strong enough to lift his partner/wife/lover/ mistress? The women in my fantasies are not stick thin super models and I also know some men who would struggle to lift their significant others.

Therein lies the arousal and excitement for me. Once you she is lifted, where is she going? What happens next? Do you have any control over it?

Hypothetically speaking of course…!

Oh, I think I'm right there with ya. Manly man, girlie girl. Vive la différence.

 

[Jacosta6969]

There are other dynamics to lifting aswell. I have always been a fan of over the shoulder too but I see that more of a cave man approach, something about the cradle carry is more sensual and erotic.

It can also allow for a kiss should that be appropriate.

 

[Emma_O]

There are other dynamics to lifting aswell. I have always been a fan of over the shoulder too but I see that more of a cave man approach, something about the cradle carry is more sensual and erotic.

It can also allow for a kiss should that be appropriate.

Sometimes I get this little vision in my head...hubby carrying me down the hallway to the bedroom, like a sack of flour, under one arm/hand, viewed from behind, and I'm bare ass up. Not sure that's possible, but the picture of it I have in my head makes me chortle.

 

[Jacosta6969]

Sometimes I get this little vision in my head...hubby carrying me down the hallway to the bedroom, like a sack of flour, under one arm/hand, viewed from behind, and I'm bare ass up. Not sure that's possible, but the picture of it I have in my head makes me chortle.

That made me laugh.

The exposed ass is another aspect! As she is lifted then her bum is exposed to all, especially if she is wearing a short skirt or loose dress.

Another part of it I have considered is the feeling for both parties should it happen in front of others. Perhaps embarrassment, perhaps pride, perhaps arousal. How does the younger female feel as the older man lifts her up in front of her girlfriends, taking her away as his own.

 

[Emma_O]

That made me laugh.

The exposed ass is another aspect! As she is lifted then her bum is exposed to all, especially if she is wearing a short skirt or loose dress.

Another part of it I have considered is the feeling for both parties should it happen in front of others. Perhaps embarrassment, perhaps pride, perhaps arousal. How does the younger female feel as the older man lifts her up in front of her girlfriends, taking her away as his own.

I think I'd feel a combined sense of pride, flattered, aroused, and willingly vulnerable. Although, I might have to feign just a bit of resistance, for the benefit of those witnessing the scenario.

 

[Jacosta6969]

I think I'd feel a combined sense of pride, flattered, aroused, and willingly vulnerable. Although, I might have to feign just a bit of resistance, for the benefit of those witnessing the scenario.

Yes I can see it now, kicking your legs and letting out a yell as you are lifted off your feet, then followed by a sly smile over his shoulder to your friends as he carries you away!

No doubt they would be the jealous ones.

 

[Emma_O]

Yes I can see it now, kicking your legs and letting out a yell as you are lifted off your feet, then followed by a sly smile over his shoulder to your friends as he carries you away!

No doubt they would be the jealous ones.

Yes. I'm just not that kind of girl (wink, wink; nudge, nudge).

 

[harv]

Once long ago, when I was much younger and in better shape, I was on the dance floor with a young lady. The lady was relatively petite but very sexy. I had only met her that night. As we danced and she teased a bit, I crossed my wrists placing my hands on either side of her waist, lifted her uncrossing my wrists lifting her and spinning her so that she was upside down. I gave the crotch of her jeans a kiss and reversed her to her feet again.
She later told me it was the most exciting thing that had ever been done to her. Unfortunately nothing further happened and I never saw her again.
Not really the topic you started with but caused me to recall this event.