Covert mom son incest

[alpharyan]

Hey all,

Just wondering how many of you out there have a covertly incestual relationship with your opposite sex parent. After reading up on the psychology behind it it seems like it is more common than most would thing-- usually occurring after a divorce or split.

My mother got counseling a couple of years back for relationship issues (lost interest very quickly in other men) but was told by her therapist that she had a covert incestual desire for me, since we lived alone together through my college years and she did not date.

We've actually talked about it over the years and it's still a little secret between us but it's actually brought us closer together.

Basically it's a subconscious thing that happens when living together that you start getting spousal emotions that have sexual undertones. It also can lead to sex addiction, commitment issues, and confusion--

Just asking because she (as well as me being thrown in there) have been dealing with it for years now but I feel like it may be getting worse and I want to see her through it.

Anyone with experience please reply. Thank you

 

[chimpers767]

Have you ever felt like your mom was...

smothering or wanting to dominate your entire life?

 

[alpharyan]

Yes. Wanting to play a bigger role than she should be at this point in my life. What's done is done and it was fun-- but now it's hard for both of us to have solid relationships.

 

[chimpers767]

does she like...

to use her body..her charms..to try to gain your attention?

 

[chimpers767]

I understand the turmoil...

Yes. Wanting to play a bigger role than she should be at this point in my life. What's done is done and it was fun-- but now it's hard for both of us to have solid relationships.

i agree, Ryan.
too close of a desirable relationship with one's mom can really fuck a guy up,mentally. I was an ill child....doted on by a very desirable mom as well as her hot girlfriends. All were sluttish.

 

[alpharyan]

Yes we both have commitment issues now and it's hard to deal with and I don't feel like going to counseling as I don't know how much it helped her. Basically, she raised me from a young age by herself (she had me very young). I lived with her through college and dated girls on and off-- but when I was 19 ish she told me she was getting counseling for relationship issues. Evidently the shrink told her she was involved in covert incest because we were so close and she leaned on me for things a spouse should do.

 

[chimpers767]

Yes we both have commitment issues now and it's hard to deal with and I don't feel like going to counseling as I don't know how much it helped her. Basically, she raised me from a young age by herself (she had me very young). I lived with her through college and dated girls on and off-- but when I was 19 ish she told me she was getting counseling for relationship issues. Evidently the shrink told her she was involved in covert incest because we were so close and she leaned on me for things a spouse should do.

what sorts of things did you do that a spouse would do?

 

[chimpers767]

what sorts

what types of things did you do for her a spouse would do?have you ever had an orgasm with her present...or helped her cum?

 

[alpharyan]

never mind. Looks like there are already threads on this.

 

[alpharyan]

I have also talked and gotten close with a couple of single moms (in person, not on lit) that either were or are in that situation now and The majority of which admitted the tensions exist and the thoughts are there so I know this is more common than people would think (we're talking covert and not necessarily full fledged but enough to know and acknowledge).

 

[chimpers767]

would you ever

like to watch her have sex with a man? maybe have her go down on you while she takes it from behind?

 

[alpharyan]

Would like a females perspective.