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Ambrosious

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Ever seen anything so wonderfully brave it brings a tear to your eye? I have, and I do every morning and afternoon, while working security for a child rehab unit in Atlanta.

Every morning the busses roll in and the kids hobble, stumble, walk, roll, and stagger onto the sidewalk. There is the girl that has a gunshot injury to the brain. She always looks up at me and smiles in her beautiful, lopsided way. There comes her friend and partner in arms, a motor vehicle accident victim, who has graduated from wheelchair to walker to cane.

"Good morning, you sure are looking fine this day," I'll say.
"Thank you sir, and you sure look handsome yourself," she replies.
"Work hard superstar," I say.
"I always do, I'm not going to be here much longer," she says.
It's like our morning ritual.

There comes the young man, also a motor vehicle accident victim, who can now hold his head up on his own and signal and shake with one hand. He's always trying to get the attention of our female officer. Ladykiller.

There's the young man, gunshot victim, who can barely grunt and can move two fingers. He can hold his head up some days, but at the end of the day his chin touches his chest. Rehab is hard work. He still drools on himself. He is making improvement, he now sits up by himself.

Two by two and one by one they come in every morning and file out every afternoon. I am humble by the great spirits that these children have and show. Do you know how hard it is to have a bad day when a little girl who can barely speak tells you to, "Smile, sir, it's a good day."? I leave some days nearly crying, some days smiling, and every day impressed.

Go hug your child.

Ambro
 
My 13 year old girl probably has a good case of mono going and will have to miss her month of resident camp this year, something she looks forward to all year. We'll find out this afternoon about the mono but the docs think so. She's already crying and moaning and, sorry to say, feeling very sorry for herself that she has to miss camp.

But she's lucky, isn't she?
Don't know if she can hear it at the moment - but she's lucky.

A rerun: thanks for the reality check.
 
Thank you Ambrosious...
You have succeeded in causing tears once again :)
 
I don't know if you all ever watch Discovery Health Channel, but they have a show where they go around to different hospitals in the US, Canada, and the UK and profile the nurses, doctors, and children in them.

It's always so astounding to me how brave and strong children can be. These are kids with cancer, with cystic fibrosis, with terrible birth defects - children living in pain, being radiated, being operated on - yet they go through their day just like other kids. Coloring in coloring books. Stacking blocks. Laughing when tickled.

As hard as it is to watch (because not all the stories have happy endings), that show helps to put life into perspective. When I get pissy because the pizza's late or a client won't pay on time, I remember the girl who was born without ears who never stopped smiling. The dwarf boy who made it on his school's soccer team. And I realize that I'm so DAMN lucky. I have no right to whine about anything when these kids can face death and pain with a smile on their face.

You go, Ambro. You're awesome. Give those kids a hug for us, eh?
 
A member of my family was born with a sever chase of cleft lip and palet. I know its not a real defect. But it changed the way people percive him. people staring lookingf asking what happened to him. I know he puts on a brave face and pretends the staring and bulling remarks and names dont hurt him but i see his face whena little girl asks her mammy what happened to that boy I see his eyes look down then up with a smile and carrys on reguardless. But even a thousand cuts will kill you eventually. I admire him alot for his determination.

Shit i think i nearly shed a tear.
 
Laurel..

you're so right about watching (Children's Hospital, I believe) on DHC, it's always makes me think how brave children are compared to adults sometimes. I rememebr the episode you are talking about with the girl from the UK born without ears, and her foster mother taking her to have the operation. That show had a happy ending, some as you say do not, and those are very hard to watch. Sometimes to the point that I turn the TV off with a tear in my eye.

Thanks for the wake up call Ambro!

Lobito
 
Great thread!

Sometimes I think we get caught in the struggles of our own world....thanks for reminding us that there are those innocents with the wide eyed courage that don't HOPE for the best, the EXPECT IT.

PMA=======Postive Mental Attitude!
 
Ambro

This has got to be the most words I have ever seen you put together at one time. Why has it taken me this long to shatter my illusions of you? :D

Bump, bump, bump.

This needs to stay at the top for the next week.

Thanks bud, I seem to be visiting at a differnt time these days, miss your wit.
 
With the emotion I was already feeling today, I backed out of this thread earlier, just didn't think I could handle another bout of crying today.. Now I am glad I came back in. Your words are beautiful Ambro, and those kids are truly blessed that they get to see your smiling face and hear your kind words everyday. You are blessed that you get to share a small part of their world. Thank you for sharing that.


It's all good people..:)
 
Thanks Ambro

Thank you for sharing that. I know with Simply and I we get to see these people when they are at their worst and if they make it past us a lot of the time we never see them or hear of them again. It is nice to get the perspective of someone who deals with these kids after we try and do our best to patch them up and keep them alive.
 
Ambro!! Ambro !! Ambro!!

Ambro !! Ambro !! Ambro !!

Three cheers for Ambro

hip hip.........
hip hip.........
HIP HIP.......


kgboot
 
Maybe that is the type of place I should go to work in next, I have been at the receiving end now maybe it is time to help these kids out.

Thanks Ambro for giving me something to think about and consider.
 
After reading this, I need to track down that thread on the last time you cried. Thank you, Ambro, that was simply beautiful.
 
Thanks people. I have been invited to a graduation this weekend for two of the girls.

I'm bringing Kleenex.
 
How great Ambro! Give them an extra hug from the literoticans..
I envy you seeing that:)
 
Congratulate them for me. Graduation is such an important day. Thank you Ambro, for being so caring. This thread needs to be back at the top.
 
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