Coupled Couple

It's definitely different from swinging. I felt weird at first being under the command of other and doing as I'm told. As we do it more and more, I kinda enjoy being sub. It kinda grows on me.
Thank you for sharing. I am genuine curious about how people feel in these situations.
Someone in my life, that I had no plan for, has ignited a submissive of me that I didn’t know existed. So, I was asking out of curiosity, admiration, and to know I am not alone.
I am single/divorced, and he is younger.
 
What could have been. . . . My wife is quite religious but seducible as she fucked at least once on her first husband. She has been flirty and, given enough time, at last two men we knew could have seduced her into fucking. In one case she offered to swap with the husband of a couple who either wasn't interested or didn't hear her. For them, I'd have fucked with his wife. Nothing came of it. In another case, a single guy we knew could have seduced her but he didn't pick up on the signals. What could have been. :)
 
Many years ago my gf and I played regularly with a certain couple. Lots of fun, but you need to be ready for an emotional roller coaster. It is a great fantasy to have, but you have no idea how you will react when you see that other man make your mate squeal in ecstasy, and beg for him and his cock. My shock the first time was helped by his wife taking me to that place also.

It was also helpful that all parties knew the pecking order, as it was a BDSM dynamic. That really made the longer term issues manageable.

I loved that time period, and it provided lasting lessons and memories.
 
I've had this fantasy for such a long time and I wanted to share it here because I can't share it with my wife... Just good to vent, I guess.

I'd love if we, as a couple, were 100% open with one other couple. He could fuck my wife, I could fuck his wife, the wives could fuck each other, and any mixture therein (MFM, FMF, FFM, MFMF).

No condoms, no rules per se, just whatever strikes your fancy that day. I'd love to know that she is going to "make a stop on her way home." I'd love to fuck my own wife while he's fucking his wife right next to us, I'd love to bounce his wife on my dick after coffee one day. And of course, the vast majority of the time it's just me and my wife.

No particular couple in mind. We're both attractive and in shape, so I'd want the same thing in the other couple.

Variety, but with the security of (1) a "closed" dynamic where we're not overexposed on the health side and (2) the familiarity of knowing and being known.

I know for a fact that she's 10,000% against this ☹️, don't even bother suggesting I ease her into it. She is disgusted by anything remotely homosexual, which is relevant here because she thinks it's gay for a MAN to want to fuck his WIFE in the ass.
I have felt the same way for a long time.
 
When I was married to my first wife, we had the experience of being part of a coupled couple twice. It was not just the sex although that was nice - it was everything that we shared together.

It fell apart because the woman in the other couple did not have enough time to devote to her three other partners (her husband and the two of us).

We formed another coupled couple later and this one lasted longer but again it was hard to stay together. It was lovely while it lasted though.
This reflects our experience. Coupled couples fantasies are wonderful. The actual experience is hard work. We ended up doing MFM 3'sums as our "go to" sex as a couple, just the extra guy, and I had permission to meet other couples and women on my own. That worked just fine for us.
 
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