Counting and numbers....

[MissTaken]

Using counting and numbers in play is a neat tool.

Numbers can be used to help a submissive gauge the intensity of the pain.

Numbers can be used to provide some structure to the play. When you know you will recieve 12 strikes, you can take almost anything at 9, 10 and 11!

Counting down to an orgasm can have a deliciously wild affect.

Just thought I would share that and see if any of you have used this tool or been involved in a scene where numbers played a role.

 

[WynEternal]

Does counting birthday spankings in rapid succession with mistakes being grounds for starting over count?

 

[zanna]

Anytime there is striking involved, no matter the tool being used, i find myself mentally counting. Not quite sure why.

zanna

 

[Quint]

T has this neat quirk where he always KNOWS what number we're on, regardless of if we're counting out loud or not. He'll surprise me later on by informing me how many whacks I took; it's usually a disappointingly small number. o)

We have counted down to orgasm before and it's usually the only way I come for him. I've failed at it a few times for various reasons but it's pretty surefire. One time he told me he'd start at 10 and I was to come at 1; I could have come at any number along the way but held myself on the edge until he said "one," and I exploded. That was fun.

To my dismay--hell, who am I kidding, I was sobbing--earlier tonight we were doing my exercises and I lost count at 28 out of 30 and had to start over. Didn't make it past 18 the second time and so took 9 whacks with the hairbrush on each side of my ass. The worst for me was that I failed in both that command and his one to NEVER say "I can't" about anything relating to him, which I did in a moment of incoherent panic. That hurt worse than losing count and then letting my legs drop long before I was supposed to. 'Course, I hurt worse than both of them after a few minutes. o)

 

[lassarina]

Using counting and numbers in play is a neat tool.

Numbers can be used to help a submissive gauge the intensity of the pain.

Numbers can be used to provide some structure to the play. When you know you will recieve 12 strikes, you can take almost anything at 9, 10 and 11!

Counting down to an orgasm can have a deliciously wild affect.

Just thought I would share that and see if any of you have used this tool or been involved in a scene where numbers played a role.

i have used the counting down of strikes but have never used the counting down to an orgasm. It sounds intriguing and i'd like to try it. It sounds like it would intensify the orgasm-especially after being denied one for a while!!

lass

 

[Singularity]

A Counting Self-Test

One of my favorite, and most difficult challenges for a sub when she is alone and performing her obedience training on her own is to have her kneel with clothespins on her nipples and labia, while she is blindfolded. The clothespins are tied with string to her ankles or to her dresser drawer handles, or the like.

She is required to masturbate using a vibrator and a butt plug until she is right at the brink of orgasm. All the while she is required to gauge the amount of time that has elapsed (no cheating with music in the background).

When she thinks the specified number of minutes is up, she is to stand up swiftly and surely, and pull the pins off her nipples and cunt lips without using her hands.

When she is standing up, she can take off her blindfold and look at the clock. If she has guessed the time right, she is permitted to come. If she has missed it, she is forbidden her orgasm.

Very tough, and very demanding.

I had one sub who did this every day as part of her training. She was extraordinary.


Singularity

 

[Hexiegirl]

OK, I'm gonna cry I think I'll be a very shitty sub

 

[D's mariposa]

OK, I'm gonna cry I think I'll be a very shitty sub

Nah... you'll be a great sub! It's not always that hard. (No D hasn't made me try that, he's decided that if there's going to ba any clothespins he'll do the pinning!)

 

[Desdemona]

Yes. One time, He had me count to 100 while masturbating. I wasn't allowed to beg for release until I reached 100. He was listening on the phone and directing how fast to touch myself and how slowly I had to count. The orgasm was incredible when I was finally permitted to cum.

 

[lark sparrow]

When we're together She hasn't used numbers - I never know how long or many. Well, that's not entirely true, as there have been times when I thought I could not take anymore, and She said okay, and added a certain small set more, just to push me alittle bit further than I thought I could go, while letting me know it was coming to an end.

On the phone She will use numbers (me counting - as with no body language to read, the voice is important), but the thing is She always has a new set of numbers after the last set! And if She doesn't like the sound of a certain slap (not hard enough) it's a do over and doesn't count, and if I lose count (going faster and faster) I have to start all over at 1. (I'm really not complaining.)

I've also had numbers used with a new partner, so they can began to judge my pain tolerance and likes and dislikes as well, as you mentioned. I find it a little difficult to use numbers as a measurement personally but it's better than nothing.

 

[Hexiegirl]

Nah... you'll be a great sub! It's not always that hard. (No D hasn't made me try that, he's decided that if there's going to ba any clothespins he'll do the pinning!)

thank you! I sure hope so~