Could this day get ANY shittier? A thread for long, grumpy rants only, please.

Svenskaflicka

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For the third day in a row, I've been to work with a heavy cold. I only have half of my regular voice strength, which makes it hard to talk to people without going near them - and the bastards keep running away from me because they know I'm sick! It's discrimination against sick people, I tell ya!

Come lunch break, I noticed that I was broke. I didn't even have enough money to buy a much-needed tampon. I swallowed my pride and called mum to ask for help. Asking your mother for financial help is a hard blow for your pride when you're close to 30, and even worse so if you have to do it in front of a lot of your coworkers because that's where the only public phone is!

Luckily (?), she wasn't home, so I had to go to the bank and fill in an application to withdraw 45:- SKR (about $6) from my account, leaving me with only 2:- SKR left. (The ATM won't give you anything smaller than a 100:-.) The middle aged lady behind the counter smiled at me and adviced me to eat porridge for the rest of the month. I told her I had to invest in oats first.

I went to McDonalds for lunch (the cheapest place in town) where almost all of my money disappeared. My coworkers, who didn't have to run to the bank prior to going to lunch, were already done and left early, leaving me sitting there alone.

As we were going home, who's driving the bus but the Pig - an obnoxious bus driver who's been acting like a jerk towards me since day one. He doesn't allow me to talk "loud", because "it disturbs the other passengers" - but apparently the other passangers are not disturbed by him turning up the volume of the radio, or talking God-knows-what-language with HIS friend! He's been rude all the time, and when I tried to ask him to turn the radio down because I couldn't hear what the girl next to me was saying, he said in a stuck-up voice that he only turned the radio up because he wasn't interested in hearing us talking! The passenger-story came muuuuuuuuuuch later.
Today, he tries putting on a grin and "explaining himself", and my coworker, the-rich-bimbo-who's-afraid-of-conflicts, almost hugged him, and assured him we understood how difficult it must be to drive a bus all day, listening to people babbling...
EXCUSE ME? What do you mean, "we"? I'd like to speak for myself, please..! I just gave him an icy look and didn't answer either of them. Only when I got off the bus did I inform him that even though my pal might be the forgiving kind, but I was going to report him to his boss. "You do that!" the jerk said.

I was in such a shitty mood that when a young girl stopped me and asked if I could buy cigarettes for her, please, I just snapped at her that at her age, she shouldn't smoke. (She was 15.) Then I turned around and walked away, without bothering to look behind me.

I get home, I call my best friend - she's busy on the other line because of the death of the mother of one of her sisters-in-law. I reach for the cat - she's not in a cuddly mood.

If I wasn't broke, I'd go out and buy me something to drink.
 
Feel better? That was a very good rant and I liked getting the 'pictures' of your life (even the negative bits). Get better. Mucho bessos, P. :kiss:
 
*passes Svenskaflicka a bottle of rum, and a can of Coca-Cola*
Hope that helps, have a virtual drink on me. :)
 
*swallows the cola in one gulp, stares at rum bottle, trying to figure out what it is*


Thanks, lilith!:)
 
I hope you feel better soon. :rose:

And as for that bus driver swine... report him!

May the rest of your day and tomorrow go much better!
 
millennium_bard said:
I hope you feel better soon. :rose:

And as for that bus driver swine... report him!

May the rest of your day and tomorrow go much better!

Thank you! *hugs*

Damned! I'm out of EVERYTHING!

I need to go shopping tomorrow morning.
 
You may now use this thread for your own rants. We all promise to be supportive, don't we?
 
Svenskaflicka said:
You may now use this thread for your own rants. We all promise to be supportive, don't we?

Ask and ye shall receive ;)

[rant]It's the fourth quarter in Corporate America. For those of you lucky enough not to work for uber-corporations, that means the axes are falling fast and furious as everyone tries to get back in line with their annual budgets. Appparently about 300 people got their walking papers Thursday afternoon across the country in the company I work for. My boss was one of them. They told the managers that report to her (as they figure out their new little hierarchy :rolleyes: ) yesterday, but no one bothered to tell me, her lowly assistant.

She had worked there for decades and worked damned hard. She was a good boss and a good person and coming to work to find myself sitting in a meeting as they announce that she "decided to seek other options" made for a shitty morning. Having to walk up to my new boss and ask him myself, 'So, do I report to you now?' made it that much better.

I am lucky and grateful that I still have a job, though I have no idea what my job now is. I owe that to my now-former boss who intentionally never officially made me an assistant for precisely this situation. If she had, I'd be gone right along with her and now I can't even tell her how grateful I am to her because she's gone. As it is ususally done, they had her clean out her office last night. It's disturbing how easy it is to surgically remove people like that.[/rant]
 
*throws candy corn on the (clean) ground for the gosling*

That blows, min! I hope you new boss won't turn out to be an asshole. It's vital to have a job you enjoy going to in the morning. I hope all the best for you, goosey!:rose:
 
Svenskaflicka said:
*throws candy corn on the (clean) ground for the gosling*

That blows, min! I hope you new boss won't turn out to be an asshole. It's vital to have a job you enjoy going to in the morning. I hope all the best for you, goosey!:rose:

*perking up instantly*

Oooh! Candy corn! :D

Thanks, 'Flicka :rose:
 
Fudge, that's bad, Min. You mean she just had to clean out her desk one day, without warning? I don't think that would even be allowed over here. I think we have are laws making some kind of notice periods mandatory.

I hope things work out. For you, and for her.

#L
 
Damn Min, that blows.
I love how corporate America forgets how it actually takes people(with lives,bills, families,etc.) to make them what they are.
 
Finns det något engelskt ord för "uppsägningstid"?:confused:

(Finns det begreppet överhuvudtaget? Och hur är det med "sist-in-först-ut"?)
 
Liar said:
Fudge, that's bad, Min. You mean she just had to clean out her desk one day, without warning? I don't think that would even be allowed over here. I think we have are laws making some kind of notice periods mandatory.

I hope things work out. For you, and for her.

#L

They give warnings when it's a whole department that goes, but when it's one person they don't. They give a severance package, especially for people at her level, but you're out the door right away before you can do any damage.
 
minsue said:
They give warnings when it's a whole department that goes, but when it's one person they don't. They give a severance package, especially for people at her level, but you're out the door right away before you can do any damage.

Obviously they haven't studied the Postal workers.
 
Cutting a lot of personnel always raises the stock prices. Evidently people just can't wait to invest in a gutted company with nobody left who can do anything.

Then they sel the company, and the new owners dump the rest of them. Money for everyone, at the investor level.
 
Svenskaflicka said:
Finns det något engelskt ord för "uppsägningstid"?:confused:

(Finns det begreppet överhuvudtaget? Och hur är det med "sist-in-först-ut"?)
Tror det är det som menas med "notice".
 
minsue said:
They give warnings when it's a whole department that goes, but when it's one person they don't. They give a severance package, especially for people at her level, but you're out the door right away before you can do any damage.

Even if they were required to give a warning, say two weeks, they would say one day "You're fired, effective two weeks from now. Now leave." Rather than having a pissed-off supervisor around for two more weeks, they would pay her off.
 
Quick dismissals are common here in the USA. My hubby is a master mechanic (automotive and heavy trucks), when he's quit a job he doesn't give 2 weeks notice, more like an hours notice. In his field, if you give 2 weeks notice like that-most companies will try to find a way to fire you in the mean time, or they will make your life hell. They're afraid you're going to sabatage things-especially paid work (i.e a shop that takes in customers). Currently he's working for a private shop that works on their own trucks-but that still doesn't mean they would trust someone on 2 weeks notice.

I was shocked, to say the least, when he told me how things are in his line of work. But that's the way things are.
 
[rant] They say stress is bad for you. What they neglect to mention is the let down after the stuff that was stressing is gone. I've been wired to perform under stress for weeks now and I finally somewhat caught up with everything. The stress is gone, I had a quiet Thursday and now I'm in hell. My parents only stop pissing each other off when they are at opposite ends of the house or nagging me, my little sister is pushing it further in her talented drama queen way (not to mention she's just learning to whistle and won't fucking stop, same high pitched note as she breathes in and out), I now have a bunch more shit to do for school, and since yesterday I've felt like throwing up twice (for no reason) and passing out too many times to count (luckly haven't done either yet), now I'm just exhusted (still have the dizzy pull feeling before passing out too) and all I want to do is curl up and cry and sleep and cry and sleep. I am literally so tired and physically exhusted I feel like I have mono all over again. Why is there such a backlash from stress? Finally don't have the stress and now I feel so much worse than I did when I had it all weighing down on me. [/rant] for now.

p.s. Sorry Min and Flicka, that sucks. :rose:
 
I recognize that, RebeccaLeah. It's because you put all those emotions on hold while you're stressed. Your whole being focuses on the task you need to cpomplete, and afterwards, when everything's allright again, you get The Reaction. I usually get anxiety attacks when that happens. I eat chocolate, I take long walks, I watch TV, I read books, I talk for hours on the phone with friends, I try to do something funny...
You just have to hang in there and wait until it passes. Kinda like being dizzy and nauseated after a rollercoaster ride.
It WILL pass, I promise you. But every time you're stressing too much, or going through stressful times in life, BANG! The Reaction's gonna come.
You better learn how to deal with your feelings, so you can live through the bad times when they occur. Trust me, it DOES get easier over time.
 
Could it get any shittier?

Well, for a guy crossing the street in Tacoma, Washington, who was not paying attention, maybe not looking where he was going.

He walked along and fell into an open sewer manhole...

Now that is shitty!

LOL


:D :p :kiss:
 
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