Correlations Between the Physical and the Mental

[AngelicAssassin]

... today I'd probably take off the toucher's arm if they tried it. A hugger person would probably die.

No, they wouldn't.

 

[snowy ciara]

Your faith in my ability to control myself is commendable AA, but somedays I scare myself.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Your faith in my ability to control myself is commendable AA, but somedays I scare myself.

BS. i have faith in your partner. Knit one, pearl two ... and if that doesn't work, spoon, whether that be bridle with spikes, or body contact.

Get the point?

 

[snowy ciara]

It wasn't a really knit one purl one sort of thing...

 

[AngelicAssassin]

It wasn't a really knit one purl one sort of thing...

Don't correct my use of "pearl two."

i intended it.

Shall i PM someone for you to get a first hand demonstration?

 

[snowy ciara]

I didn't mean it as a correction. I'm sorry for the lack of clarity. Perhaps a subconsious substitution based on my lack of really great knitting ability? Who knows. As for the PM question.. I'd rather not to go into that here, please.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I didn't mean it as a correction. I'm sorry for the lack of clarity. Perhaps a subconsious substitution based on my lack of really great knitting ability? Who knows. As for the PM question.. I'd rather not to go into that here, please.

Granted.

 

[snowy ciara]

Thank you.

 

[Killishandra]

That was kind of a rhetorical question, but it is always nice to know there are female animals on this site, too.

Pay no mind to me DVS.... I think everyone has established that the new kid is gullible.

 

[babiesmiles]

What happens following the 10 minute/two hour doze might not fall in the realm of desired possibilities either.

I have no doubt !

 

[Shamanskiss]

reply to original question posed

so, please skip it if you moved beyond that...

Hello... I would like to propose a discussion on direct correlations between physical gestures and/or touch and mental states of mind. Here's why I'm so interested in this...

I haven't experienced much D/s behavior in real life, however even in a vanilla context (sex or not) I find that anytime the back of my neck is put into a strong grip or bitten I immediately enter "submissive" mode (regardless of how I was feeling before hand or where my attentions were before it happened.) It occurs in both sexual and non-sexual situations, the difference just seems to be the extent of my reaction.

For instance, if a boyfriend reaches under my hair in public to rub/massage the back of my neck, I immediately turn into an obliging pussycat. So far none of them have been observant enough to take advantage of the fact (lol, thank god) but it happens nonetheless.

At the opposite side of the spectrum, rough neck bitting in the bedroom turns me practically orgasmic. I believe it is the closest I have come to entering that "subspace" I have seen mentioned in some threads. Absolutely all I can focus on is the pleasure rushing through my body, my eyes close, and at times I have even lost conscious control of my limbs... they just kind of flop around while I whimper in pleasure. (So I've been told... I don't recall anything but the feeling I was experiencing, LOL.)

Respectfully,
killishandra

Many mighht disagree,
but I feel it has a direct tie in to good old genetic 'memory',
or maybe something close to Jung's 'tribal memory' ideas,
but in a species imprint way..if that makes any sense...
part of the mating process in many species involves
a 'female presenting raised rear', and often a grip or securing bite on the back of the neck.
Big cats have had a mention, it can also be seen in canine species, wolves as a relevant reference for KIllishandra. Many Saurian species feasture it.
Even horses commonly apply it, the stallion biting the neck/mane ogf the mare.
I wonder if it may well be one of those deeply buried triggers that some respond to more than others.. Possibly many have been led away from such primieval keys, yet perhaps some still respond to them..
we still feature other trace behaviours/body languages that have roots in the instinctual..
maybe this is one for you.

 

[DVS]

so, please skip it if you moved beyond that...




Many mighht disagree,
but I feel it has a direct tie in to good old genetic 'memory',
or maybe something close to Jung's 'tribal memory' ideas,
but in a species imprint way..if that makes any sense...
part of the mating process in many species involves
a 'female presenting raised rear', and often a grip or securing bite on the back of the neck.
Big cats have had a mention, it can also be seen in canine species, wolves as a relevant reference for KIllishandra. Many Saurian species feasture it.
Even horses commonly apply it, the stallion biting the neck/mane ogf the mare.
I wonder if it may well be one of those deeply buried triggers that some respond to more than others.. Possibly many have been led away from such primieval keys, yet perhaps some still respond to them..
we still feature other trace behaviours/body languages that have roots in the instinctual..
maybe this is one for you.

This is why I enjoy doggie style as my most favorite position. And, I know anal sex is very much akin to this, when you are a connoisseur, as I am.

Just read the first post of my anal thread. We all have animal potential in us, but with some, it takes the right partner or situation to bring this animal out. We all have triggers for different feelings, and the back of the neck is a strong one for many.

I once had a sub who was a little timid about allowing me to Dom her. But, I'm known for my back rubs, because I have strong hands and fingers. I know how to make someone's whole body tingle during a back rub. A lot of that tingle begins with the muscles of the neck, and spine.

This timid sub said she knew she would allow me to do most anything I wanted to her, after I gave her a back rub. She said there was something about the feeling it gave her. She did mention my strong fingers, but I'm sure it was also related to the animal urges it might have brought out in her. I centered my rubbing on her shoulders and neck, only slightly moving down her spine, at times.

There is something about that area of a woman's body. Did I cause the animal in this sub to be released? Who knows. All I know is she turned out to be quite enjoyable and I continued m attention on the back of her neck during all aspects of my time with her.

When I had her naked and bound and her lubed ass stretched by my cock, my hands were always at the back of her neck, pushing her down, or on her shoulders, forcing her body back onto my cock. She could cum from anal sex. Sometimes I wonder if the placement of my hands had anything to do with it.

...nah, it was probably just where my cock was. LOL.

 

[Killishandra]

so, please skip it if you moved beyond that...




Many mighht disagree,
but I feel it has a direct tie in to good old genetic 'memory',
or maybe something close to Jung's 'tribal memory' ideas,
but in a species imprint way..if that makes any sense...
part of the mating process in many species involves
a 'female presenting raised rear', and often a grip or securing bite on the back of the neck.
Big cats have had a mention, it can also be seen in canine species, wolves as a relevant reference for KIllishandra. Many Saurian species feasture it.
Even horses commonly apply it, the stallion biting the neck/mane ogf the mare.
I wonder if it may well be one of those deeply buried triggers that some respond to more than others.. Possibly many have been led away from such primieval keys, yet perhaps some still respond to them..
we still feature other trace behaviours/body languages that have roots in the instinctual..
maybe this is one for you.

I've thought something similar... and I feel a strong connection between sex and positions/actions like having my neck bit or being on all fours with my ass presented. I remember during puberty, doing things such as trying to unplug something from the back of the vcr and being on my hands and knees with my head bent low.. and feeling a rush of sexual energy, and horniness, and loving the feeling.

So, yes... I think there's some type of genetic memory, or some correlation between physical acts or positions and sexual tension.

Thank you for your post.

 

[Killishandra]

This is why I enjoy doggie style as my most favorite position. And, I know anal sex is very much akin to this, when you are a connoisseur, as I am.

Just read the first post of my anal thread. We all have animal potential in us, but with some, it takes the right partner or situation to bring this animal out. We all have triggers for different feelings, and the back of the neck is a strong one for many.

I once had a sub who was a little timid about allowing me to Dom her. But, I'm known for my back rubs, because I have strong hands and fingers. I know how to make someone's whole body tingle during a back rub. A lot of that tingle begins with the muscles of the neck, and spine.

This timid sub said she knew she would allow me to do most anything I wanted to her, after I gave her a back rub. She said there was something about the feeling it gave her. She did mention my strong fingers, but I'm sure it was also related to the animal urges it might have brought out in her. I centered my rubbing on her shoulders and neck, only slightly moving down her spine, at times.

There is something about that area of a woman's body. Did I cause the animal in this sub to be released? Who knows. All I know is she turned out to be quite enjoyable and I continued m attention on the back of her neck during all aspects of my time with her.

When I had her naked and bound and her lubed ass stretched by my cock, my hands were always at the back of her neck, pushing her down, or on her shoulders, forcing her body back onto my cock. She could cum from anal sex. Sometimes I wonder if the placement of my hands had anything to do with it.

...nah, it was probably just where my cock was. LOL.

LOL, doggie is my favorite style as well.

Neck hold plus anal? I have a little phobia of anal (even though, or perhaps BECAUSE, Marquis expected it every day) but I love the mental aspect of being penetrated there.. (I just hate the pain.) I bet adding neck stimulation to that would make it alot more relaxing and enjoyable.

Your posts are exquisively hot, DVS. I know you like it when I say that... but I only say it when it's TRUE!

*fans self, gets back under control*

 

[Bandit58]

Sigh ... i do so love a 3AM make-the-bed-and-everything-else-squeal fuck. i don't even need to reach completion. That early morning cardio beats the hell out of long ago o'darkthirty PT sessions any day of the week.

Hmmmm is there something about 3am I am often woken by Master between 3 and 4 am for a blowjob or play/spanking Usually with a slap on the butt and a "get your head down here slut"

On the original topic - grab a handful of my hair (even though it's on the shorter side) and I will just melt. I've just discovered the biting thing too, especially on the back or side of my neck, or where my neck meets my shoulder, or on my back.......