corner time

[WriterDom]

serijules mentioned corner time, and I haven't been able to find anything about it in the library under discipline/punishment. Great job on the library by the way.

I'd like to know how many people have had to do corner time and how effective it is. I would think that if you were a person who meditates a lot, it would be really relaxing. If you are the type that gets bored easily, it wouldn't be much fun.

 

[Justina123]

It is also not fun when you do not get a lot of private time together, and covet every minute you do get...who wants to spend it alone in the corner?

- justina

 

[WriterDom]

would a blindfold and earplugs increase the sense of isolation?

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Mental corner time. Sit there and be still, while He completely ignores me, as He continues doing whatever it was that He was doing.

I think He knows in a corner I would just space on out and relax into it.

Having to sit there and watch Him and be ignored accomplishes it's purpose. It makes me feel small, humble, and chastised; a reality check occurs and I remember my place.

~anelize





WriterDom, thank you for the compliment on the Library, glad to be of assistance

 

[serijules]

My main interest and that of my Domme's is spanking. We both consider ourselves "spankos" at heart. However, the problem is, I love being spanked. There needs to be some other element in the spanking if it is used for discipline or punishment to make it a punishment for me. Thats where the corner time comes in. She knows how much I hate being isolated like that, so she does not use it lightly, thus making it a very effective addition to a punishment scene. If it involves corner time, I know without a doubt that the punishment is serious. My emotions also tend to go all over the place when I know I've disappointed her, so the corner time gives me a chance to calm down and get a grip on my emotions and pout a bit in private. I am quite a pouter sometimes LOL.

For many people, corner time is pointless and even damaging. I have many spanko friends that refuse to have anything to do with it...it just doesn't work for them. I personally hate it, but thats exactly what makes it effective. The only time it is mentally not good for me is when I feel like someone is laughing at me or talking about me, which I trust her to make sure won't happen.

Many people use it as a break in a scene...without breaking the submissive/Dominant mood that both partners have going on. I've had breaks in the middle of a long scene where the Dom will suddenly strike up conversation with me as if all we've been doing the last few hours is having lunch or something. The corner time is a nice rest without breaking the mood, rather actually adding to it because of the control surrounding the act.

I've seen it used for roleplay a lot...especially in Parent/child roleplays and schoolgirl roleplays, and it does work well for getting the bottom into a very "young" mindframe since people usually associate the punishment with children.

 

[His Flower]

I don't have to do corner time often. <mental note: saying thank goodness> But the few times where I've actually been placed in the corner, it wasn't long, but I know I hate it. He doesn't completely ignore me, sometimes I feel his eyes staring at my back. And there was once or twice I've sneaked a peek behind my back, but as you guys probably know now, I'm the most impatient person in the world. Not the type of person that can even sit still for five minutes. Imagine kneeling the corner for god knows how long. YUCK

His Flower

 

[bunny bondage]

i have limited corner experience, but here goes. i stand there, trying to hear what he's doing, wondering when he'll come back. i start to sneak little peeks, but never anything obvious (or so i hope) i sometimes wonder if i'm being tested to see how long i'll stay there with my nose in the corner. i can definitely see how it would get boring and tedious if i was left there for too long, but for short periods of time, i find it exhilirating.

 

[Etoile]

I think it would be a much more effective punishment for serijules (and other deaf subs) than for most of us - think about it, it makes sense. I'm with Anelize about relaxing if I were actually in the corner, though I've never been forced to have any kind of "time out" like this. (Though the way Anelize describes it, it does sound at least interesting.) But regrettably, I'm with Justina in that I don't get much time with Daddy because we live so far apart. It would be a waste of time.

 

[Daedalus77]

I've used corner time when I'm apart from my sub. It seems to reinforce her submissiveness (and horniness) knowing she is standing in the corner naked for a half hour just because I told her to and there is no way for me to know if she did or not.

D.

 

[morninggirl5]

I've used corner time when I'm apart from my sub. It seems to reinforce her submissiveness (and horniness) knowing she is standing in the corner naked for a half hour just because I told her to and there is no way for me to know if she did or not.

D.

Standing in a corner for 30 minutes would be the most boring, ineffective punishment i would ever receive. After about 5 minutes, i'd be re-reading a book in my mind or planning things for my classroom for the coming year.

Boredom certainly wouldn't be a problem for me, i'd find any number of things to keep myself occupied and never move.

 

[Daedalus77]

Standing in a corner for 30 minutes would be the most boring, ineffective punishment i would ever receive. After about 5 minutes, i'd be re-reading a book in my mind or planning things for my classroom for the coming year.

Boredom certainly wouldn't be a problem for me, i'd find any number of things to keep myself occupied and never move.

Morninggirl you totally misunderstood. It's not about punishment. It's about submitting to me even when I'm not physically present. From what she tells me she gets more out of it than I do.

D.

 

[cellis]

It is rather like when Himself tells me to do something,,,, to be ready for Him and He has no way of knowing if I am doing it or not... I do it because He asks me to... I do it because my doing it is a form of submission... it increases my anticipation of the acts to come... It has nothing to do with boredom or anything else. It more than anything else has to do with my submission and my willingness to bend to His will.... and that pleases me oh so very much!

 

[morninggirl5]

Morninggirl you totally misunderstood. It's not about punishment. It's about submitting to me even when I'm not physically present. From what she tells me she gets more out of it than I do.

D.

I was reading punishment since that's what WD used in the first post.

I'm even more baffled by submitting to corner time just because. It's totally beyond me that it could be anything other than sleep-inducing boredom.

 

[bunny517]

I have a love hate relationship with the corner.I do hate to be put there but love the submisiveness I feel when I am there.
Try standing in the corner with your nose on a dime. Dont drop the time because if you do you get to bend over to pick it up while he stands behind you with something in his hand ready to spank you when you bend over.Been there done that and I dont like it at all.

 

[Daedalus77]

I have a love hate relationship with the corner.I do hate to be put there but love the submisiveness I feel when I am there.
Try standing in the corner with your nose on a dime. Dont drop the time because if you do you get to bend over to pick it up while he stands behind you with something in his hand ready to spank you when you bend over.Been there done that and I dont like it at all.

So bunny do you love it or hate it more?

D.

 

[Netzach]

G would get hot. He's like that. Then he'd get frustrated and then he'd get more hot. I don't think I'd ignore him though, I think it'd be much better if I harassed him. Punishment my ass.

M would laugh in my face and I wouldn't blame him.

I don't do punishment. If you've pissed me off you'll know how and why and the only way to make it up to me is not to do it again, sorry.

 

[quietwillow]

I was reading punishment since that's what WD used in the first post.

I'm even more baffled by submitting to corner time just because. It's totally beyond me that it could be anything other than sleep-inducing boredom.

morninggirl5:

It really is not as boring as you might think! I don't like the corner at all but time spent there increases my thoughts of submission to my Dom and helps me center on what I need to center on. Of course, when you have dangling weights on your pussylips taking your mind off the boredom.....

qw

 

[morninggirl5]

morninggirl5:

It really is not as boring as you might think! I don't like the corner at all but time spent there increases my thoughts of submission to Master and helps me center on what I need to center on. Of course, when you have dangling weights on your pussylips taking your mind off the boredom.....

qw

I'm definitely not going out and seeking the experience to be able to confirm or deny. My reaction is based on who i am, and how i know i react to things. If the time ever comes, i'll be sure to let you all know what i think about it.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

serijules mentioned corner time, and I haven't been able to find anything about it in the library under discipline/punishment. Great job on the library by the way.

I'd like to know how many people have had to do corner time and how effective it is. I would think that if you were a person who meditates a lot, it would be really relaxing. If you are the type that gets bored easily, it wouldn't be much fun.

good thread idea....
Speaking as a masochist first and a sometime submissive second...corner time is the ultimate in punishment for me. My ex-Owner...used to have me sit balancing encyclopedia's in my hands
either facing into the corner or kneeling up looking out into the room as He ignored me. Spankings, canings nor floggings are good for punishment with me...since my joy is from those things..hence the perfect use of corner time...(I HATE corner time!!!)
PET

 

[bunny517]

Re: Re: corner time

Originally posted by Daedalus77
So bunny do you love it or hate it more?

D.

"giggles" I guess that would be Love it more!

 

[le_kinklet]

Mental corner time. Sit there and be still, while He completely ignores me, as He continues doing whatever it was that He was doing.

I think He knows in a corner I would just space on out and relax into it.

Having to sit there and watch Him and be ignored accomplishes it's purpose. It makes me feel small, humble, and chastised; a reality check occurs and I remember my place.

~anelize





WriterDom, thank you for the compliment on the Library, glad to be of assistance

I'm with you on that one anelize, being ignored is prolly one of the worst punishments i could recieve, sitting in a corner takes me back to primary school days, and the "Dunce Hat",,, i get the giggles, and if left there it gets so bad there is no point in the rest of the scene!! and i hate that, so corner time metally is more effective!!
~*HuGs*~

 

[s'lara]

Isolation.

i used to find being isolated from the Dominant was far worse than any other punishment. By isolation, i mean removal of the Dominant's presence for a period of time.

lara

 

[TwistaFate]

punishment

the worse punishement i have seen so far is to just ignore them, and be silent about it. their mind will freak trying to figure out what to do next