Control Talk Tuesday #1

[gradeajade]

ok, let's skip the heavy philosophy for a second. control is usually described as mental or emotional, but for me? it's physical. it's the weight of the key. the specific click of the lock. the sudden heat when you realize i'm the one deciding if you get relief.

right now i'm in thick nylon and stiletto heels, tapping my foot to a song that isn't playing. just the sound of my own presence.

so, what's the one sensory detail that makes you actually feel like you've handed over the reins? is it a sound? a texture? a temperature?

rate that feeling out of 10. go.

 

[Ramkhadak]

ok, let's skip the heavy philosophy for a second. control is usually described as mental or emotional, but for me? it's physical. it's the weight of the key. the specific click of the lock. the sudden heat when you realize i'm the one deciding if you get relief.

right now i'm in thick nylon and stiletto heels, tapping my foot to a song that isn't playing. just the sound of my own presence.

so, what's the one sensory detail that makes you actually feel like you've handed over the reins? is it a sound? a texture? a temperature?

rate that feeling out of 10. go.

Interesting play of words

 

[newengland07]

ok, let's skip the heavy philosophy for a second. control is usually described as mental or emotional, but for me? it's physical. it's the weight of the key. the specific click of the lock. the sudden heat when you realize i'm the one deciding if you get relief.

right now i'm in thick nylon and stiletto heels, tapping my foot to a song that isn't playing. just the sound of my own presence.

so, what's the one sensory detail that makes you actually feel like you've handed over the reins? is it a sound? a texture? a temperature?

rate that feeling out of 10. go.

For me control so far has only been mental as I have never physically given up control. Not sure if I would ever be locked up...but to give up that release into someone else's control is both invigorating and sort of takes the stress away if that makes sense.

The anticipation of being edged is like a 10/10 because I have given the control to someone else. Is that what you are asking?

 

[ShanahS]

Agree with the click of a lock and also (for me) the sound of leather straps being pulled tight and buckled.

 

[Grumpnard]

The little curl of a lip when She realizes she is in control.