Connection or Attraction...?

[Anomaly1964]

If you are going to have an...affair...what is more important to you, an emotional connection or a purely physical attraction, keeping the emotions at bay?

 

[Iceprincess12]

If you are going to have an...affair...what is more important to you, an emotional connection or a purely physical attraction, keeping the emotions at bay?

That's a hard one, for me to risk my marriage it would need to be emotional, but I would have to be attracted to the guy before I would ever get emotional about him. I like guys who are smart and can challenge me. He has an imagination that can keep up with me. I am attracted to a certain type of guy though and I've had a few emotional affairs (still cheating) but I have never had sex with anyone outside my marriage. Since having a physical affair would make me single . I hope there would be some emotions, otherwise would it be worth it?

 

[rachel7824]

That's a hard one, for me to risk my marriage it would need to be emotional, but I would have to be attracted to the guy before I would ever get emotional about him. I like guys who are smart and can challenge me. He has an imagination that can keep up with me. I am attracted to a certain type of guy though and I've had a few emotional affairs (still cheating) but I have never had sex with anyone outside my marriage. Since having a physical affair would make me single . I hope there would be some emotions, otherwise would it be worth it?

Pretty much verbatim what she said!

 

[cravon4884]

That's a hard one, for me to risk my marriage it would need to be emotional, but I would have to be attracted to the guy before I would ever get emotional about him. I like guys who are smart and can challenge me. He has an imagination that can keep up with me. I am attracted to a certain type of guy though and I've had a few emotional affairs (still cheating) but I have never had sex with anyone outside my marriage. Since having a physical affair would make me single . I hope there would be some emotions, otherwise would it be worth it?

Well spoken, Ice! And I'm right there with you.

 

[Iceprincess12]

Ty miss velma (or do you like fred or shaggy better?) and mr. Lemon yellow. I like finding threads with questions that are interesting or fun. Moral dilemas are always nice

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I need both....though not much of either, if that makes sense...I need a bit of a connection to BE attracted....though I do not need a lot of a connection...it is enough to know that the woman is smart, fun, open...friendly...and that shows me how attractive she is....I see hair color and length/thickness before I see breasts or ass.....

 

[TheLM]

^this. I've seen some hot human beings, but if the inside doesn't match I can pass on them every time.^