congratulations bully...a "Daddy" at last....!

[intrigued]

Yes!!!!!!

One of my best friends, bully, is now a daddy to his first born, a little angel born Tuesday, October 1, and this is part of what he had to say, from the cloud of love and wonder he floated in on.....

"Looks like I'll be indisposed for a while. I'm a daddy.

Connie, it was the most beautiful moment of my life. I was completely unaware of just how affected I would be by the birth of my daughter.

Oh, sure. I saw all the programs on television. I had an idea of how I would react, based on experiences that I thought might be similar to this occasion, but upon the actual moment, I realized, almost at once, just how naive I had been. Nothing could have prepared me for the flood of emotion that passed through me and I wept. I was there, surrounded by strangers, and I wept. I was proud of my wife, I was proud of my daughter, and I was even proud of myself, if for the first time........"


Honey, I am so very happy for you, I love you, and I am so singing 'happy birthday' to your little angel baby~girl.

Please congratulate this beautiful man with me? Thank you...I'm just so happy for him!!!!!!

 

[juicylips]

Congrats on your beautiful daughter.

 

[intrigued]

Please know she has in me, a guardian angel for life.


As always, daisies......









Can someone please resize the daisies for me, a little bigger? i don't know how. Thank you so much!

 

[Tantanah]

Heartfelt Congrats to you Bully!!!

It's wonderful news.

 

[Jewelz]

What a beautiful post to read today. Congratulations and may you always feel that wave of butterfly kisses from daddy's little girl. How very precious it is to watch it. (Hubby and our 3 lil girls)

*Dropping off some butterfly kisses for her to get started*

 

[Debbie]

Congratulations!

 

[intrigued]

debbiexxxx, thanks for trying to resize, I'm going to keep searching until I find something befitting a little princesses first 24 hours in her parents arms.

bully is facing this same fear we've all felt upon the birth of our first born. I think it would be so nice to maybe share with him some of our own memories, fears and first emotions and thoughts once that baby was placed in our arms. I think words like this could really help him right now....
Any thoughts?

Yeah, I know I'm a little overboard, but first time parents and babies just make me gush!

 

[Trail48]

Connie, it was the most beautiful moment of my life. I was completely unaware of just how affected I would be by the birth of my daughter.

Oh, sure. I saw all the programs on television. I had an idea of how I would react, based on experiences that I thought might be similar to this occasion, but upon the actual moment, I realized, almost at once, just how naive I had been. Nothing could have prepared me for the flood of emotion that passed through me and I wept. I was there, surrounded by strangers, and I wept. I was proud of my wife, I was proud of my daughter, and I was even proud of myself, if for the first time........"

Wow, does this bring back a flood of memory. I had never wanted children, and when told we would have them I was not a happy guy, nor was I a good partner. I had no enthusiasm for any classes, or any of the wonderful things a couple should share before the baby is born. I even questioned whether or not I would be in the delivery room.

At that moment of birth, however, I was the one who was jumping up and down, clapping people on the back, and yes crying too. It is a miracle, and even an asshole cannot witness it without being changed.

Now my oldest is going thru a very hard time, and I find myself calling her during the day, just to say I love you......Its funny how things can change.

God Bless you Bully and family!!

 

[intrigued]

Re: Re: congratulations bully...a "Daddy" at last....!

Wow, does this bring back a flood of memory. I had never wanted children, and when told we would have them I was not a happy guy, nor was I a good partner. I had no enthusiasm for any classes, or any of the wonderful things a couple should share before the baby is born. I even questioned whether or not I would be in the delivery room.

At that moment of birth, however, I was the one who was jumping up and down, clapping people on the back, and yes crying too. It is a miracle, and even an asshole cannot witness it without being changed.

Now my oldest is going thru a very hard time, and I find myself calling her during the day, just to say I love you......Its funny how things can change.

God Bless you Bully and family!!

There you go! Thanks for sharing, dear.

As you know bully, with my son, I was a single parent. I went through my labor/delivery alone, and I was so terrified when he was placed in my arms that I just shook and would not let the nurse leave my side. I would not even change his diaper. All I could think was "how on earth did I ever become worthy enough for God to make me this baby's mommy????" I still don't have the answer to that one, but you know what? You just go one day at a time, and you trust those instincts that just seem to come alive, so finely tuned, the moment that little angel is born, and you
believe in yourself. Babies feel our love, and right now, as always, thats the most important thing. Give her your eyes, your arms and your soul...and a ton of nourishment and dry diapers, and your little baby girl will just thrive, honey.

And don't worry, you will be a wonderful Daddy..I know your heart, and she is one beautifully blessed little baby~girl. Read your baby books that you guys have so many of, (I would never have made it without mine!) and do things your way...you'll make all the right decisions, I just know it. Bless you!

I hope you're still sleeping...sleep is now something of the past.

 

[The Harley Guy]

Beautiful words, Intrigued. Nice that you are posting again after the crap last week.

Stay strong, lady.