Confessions from Married Women

[Dreamer110]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

Jeez that guy needs a slap upside the head!

 

[StarGazer58]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

Everybody has different sexual needs, desires and even sexual confidence. Some want the comfort of a monogamous relationship while others want the spice of varied sex life. That you were even able to tell your husband about your sexual fantasies is a good thing since I don't believe most marriages have that level of sexual intimacy to discuss sexual desires that might include others. I would be more than willing to give my wife a hall pass in return for the same though I know she would have a much easier time finding guys willing to indulge her sexual desires than I would be able to find willing women. It is too bad that you and your husband have different sexual fantasies but that is probably a common problem.

 

[mrspank30]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

I am the mirror of you in some ways. I am the husband offering freedoms to my wife who does not want to step outside out marriage so hugs and my sympathy .

 

[woodword]

More confessions, please.

 

[Jackba57]

I actually use Lit as my outlet. I am happily married, have never stepped out on my marriage and have no plans to do so. I enjoy the interaction on here, and it helps me to get my kinks out from home.

Exactly the same here.

 

[sunshinestate100]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

I am the same but in reverse, PM me if you want to chat and carry out the fantasies via messaging

 

[woodword]

Shameless bumping here hoping to revive a threads and encourage new posts.

 

[MutualMatureMike]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

Is that something you are still working on or hoping for.
(That's not an offer or wishful thinking, I'm in the UK, I'm just naturally curious).

 

[AndrewandLinn]

I am a 39 year old married woman that desires to be shared by her husband. I would love for him to watch or join in. I would love to have enough men in the room to have me airtight and cumming until the point of almost passing out... I fantasize of this daily....

You should do it its the most erotic fun a cpl can have join a swinging site there are lots on line

 

[woodword]

Weekend bump to inspire a thread revival. Any takers?

 

[Mr_bogey]

The way I'm reading this, you apparently, for either your amusement or as a sort of personality prop, spent "...a few hours of moves..." leading that woman on to believe that you actually had the strength and intention to push the moment to its expected, and apparently indicated, conclusion, but then dashed when confronted by the moment of truth.

I'm not sure you could convince me or any number of others just how you reasoned yourself to be either graceful or relevant under the circumstances, when it seems your behavior would hardly merit either of those adjectives.

And there was this from your previous post that really grabbed my attention, since I just don't understand what you meant: "I'm sad to say it's not the 1950's/1960's anymore. It'd be great to be in this position back then...."

It would seem that you feel those were more permissive times, but as someone who lived through both, I can assure you that nothing could be further from the truth. You should be aware that much of the sixties was a continuation of the rigid, white bread fifties, and much of what is referred to as the sixties didn't actually take place until the seventies. That was the decade in which things got really crazy.

We do not know each other, but based on what you've revealed here, if we were to sit down and have a couple of drinks together, I'd advise that you content yourself with a life of fantasy, and avoid dragging others into situations that cannot produce satisfactory endings, either in the near or far term.

You might enjoy T.S. Eliot's "Love song of J. Alfred Prufrock."

I realize I'm a little late to this party and these comments are 6 months old but I assumed that PP had watched Mad Men and envisioned himself as one of the boys that had a wife with dinner waiting and a mistress. We all have fantasies, right?
As far as his near miss night of passion, I think cold feet happens often in those situations.

 

[woodword]

Anyone ready to revive this thread with sordid tales or confessions?

 

[cqiam]

I have a lot of sexual fantasies that I have spoken to my husband about and offered to do what he wanted in return. Problem is his fantasies involve just me and mine involve another man or woman or even couple but he’s not interested in sharing. I have given him a hall pass hoping for one in return but he’s never wanted to step outside our sex life...

I am in the same boat. We've had a couple threesomes but now she feels shes "done that" its never to happen again.

There is another married woman who has confessed to me that she is in the same boat. Covid really puts a damper on doing extra-cirriculars..

 

[Loveitdady]

You are not an anomaly! Welcome to the kinky wives club! I have several fantasies I’ve been developing in my mind for the past decade that incorporate all that you mention above. I just might have to write them and post them. I think I love the consent issue bc in real life I have to be such an appropriate and competent professional and wife and mother. I love that in the fantasy I don’t get to have a choice.

I wonder if anyone is talking to hubby..it seems to me like you need to sit down and write him a nice long letter expressing your interests and desires. You can sit down and play on Lit so why not write him a letter if you are too bashful to talk it out with him... I bet you would see a change...I wish I had my ex to tell me or write me a letter...
Would love to hear your answers...

 

[yaturtle]

Interesting q

Subscribing

 

[yaturtle]

Wow I subscribed to this thread almost a month ago and no one has posted since.
Am I that scary?
Come on girls there must be something you want to confess

 

[yaturtle]

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