Condoms

[batesy1959]

New member here and thought I would ask this question, hope you dont mind.
Condoms, french letters, johnnies, trojans, Durex call them what you like. I may be the opposite to most who say that they stop the true feel when making love but I actually enjoy using condoms when having sex and my lady sometimes will say to use one to save the mess, especially if we have a quickie when getting ready for a night out
How do others feel and are there any pictures of you experiences?

 

[Guest]

This is a good question, cant believe that no one has any thoughts on it.
I also have a thing for condoms and agree about them saving on the mess.
Lets see if we cant get this thread moving.

 

[Snork Maiden]

Condoms eeeeeeekk Groady. Groady to the core !!
Aren't they just gross, phhhhheewee and that 'eau de pirelli' aroma, what an aphrodiasc to assault my olfactory senses.

Personally I absolutely hate condoms, ribbed, flavored, colored they are all the same yeeeeeeeeeeeeuck.

If you think your gonna stick that slimy recycled car tire thing in me, think again.

SM:

 

[batesy1959]

Hi Snork Maiden,
Its not all the time that I like to use condoms for sex and I certainly would not want to use one if I had the chance to get close to you. Such a lovely lady I would want to feel every bit of you without any barrier between us.
What a dream come true that would be.
batesy1959

 

[Dracoa]

I leave the decision for condom use up to the woman.

 

[Snork Maiden]

Hey there,

I just had to post that, I think condoms really are the biggest turn off. Right in the middle of foreplay when its time to get down to some serious passionate sex it's 'Just a minute where is that condom. I had it here earlier - hold on let me check my pants pocket. You found it yet ? <Tug> <pull> get the wrapper of, is it the right way round. Damn, come on hurry up - the moment has passed. Oh well since you've finally found it and got it on.

I don't think the mess side of it really counts as an excuse either since I get pretty messy

I thought I would take a counter point of view to help get the thread going.

SM:

PS. I think condoms are a sensible things to use in casual relationships. But I would rather feel my guy exploding inside me - that is a turn on in itself. Of course in my current situation the use of condoms, or not, is acedemic

 

[batesy1959]

Thanks for your comments SM, I do agree withyou about the stop start process of putting the condom on thats why when we do use them we include the putting on part into the foreplay, I guess you can imagine some of the fun that can be had when doing this.
I also agree with you about the use of condoms in casual sex, this is a must and if a guy says that he doesn't have one with him then he is not worth taking a chance with. As for the ladies who carry them in their bag I give them full marks for knowing that you can't rely on us guys to always carry one.

I'm off to bed now, must be up at 5am so I will check the thread on Thursday evening GMT.

Goodnight, Good morning or Good afternoon to you all where ever you may be.

batesy 1959

 

[navarre]

Hmmmmmmm.....

Now c’mon Snork Maiden.
I think you’ll have to admit that condoms (especially the natural skin kind-no latex smell) can save a ton of embarrassment when you need a quickie right before going to a formal dinner at a fancy restaurant. Also, it also saves a lot of wear and tear on the guys. Usually, by the time you get home, it’s the guy’s fault because cum was running down her leg when she got up to “powder her nose”.

 

[DulceCrema]

As nasty as they may be, unless folks are in a completely anonymous relationship with eachother....they are somewhat of a necessity this day and age. At least, that's what I think...

 

[Guest]

Good point from DulceCrema, I know a guy who thought he was in a one on one relationship and stopped using protection. 2 months down the line he had got himself a STD. best to be safe than sorry.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

it very much depends on the situation. If you having casual sex with someone you dont know very well, then i think its a necessity. If your in a long term relationship and are open and honest with one another, in terms of loyalty, or if you do have partners on the side, at least you both know and can make arrangements for using condoms or the like... Personally i dont mind using them. I like the fact that they dull the sensitivity for the guy just that little bit, so i can go for much longer!!! Plus my SO is a little haphazard with her PILL taking, so sometimes to be on the "safe" side i will happily use one. Then if its a spontaneous type session, maybe i wont... there are so many ifs and combinations to me, of when there good and when there good and when there not...

just my .02cents worth...

DM

 

[batesy1959]

Hi everyone, thanks for your replies, just from these few you can see both sides to the debate of yes or no to condoms.

Since the weekend is here perhaps there maybe a few weekend surfers with their opinions to post and who knows we may even get some pictures posted.

Either way have a great weekend and why not be brave and try something new after all life isn't a dress rehearsal its the real show.

batesy1959

 

[Woodmiester]

This might spark some debate

Putting beside the issue of foreplay, a mess or not, if they taste like crap or whatever, as one has said already, in this day and age unless you really know your partner, and know him/her very well, they really do just make sense as far as your standard STD's go, but ......
With that being said .....
Let's bring into play those 4 nasty letters AIDS ...
Do condoms prevent AIDS? No. Don't they provide a barrier that the AIDS virus can't get through? No.
The last time I checked only 1 company made a condom that did provide a complete and safe rubber that prevented the virus being transferred, but the damn thing was so thick you might have thought you had a garden hose on.
I don't know what your country does or doesn't as far as studies, but here in the USA, we tend to spend stupid amounts checking out everything, but one of interest was condoms.
The general public doesn't know this information, but those within most medical fields do and if you have a doubt just take a trip to your local plasma donation center or a blood bank and ask their medical director how safe they truly are and if they're honest, they'll explain it like this.

Natural Skin offers 0% protection. All others, no matter what the material used, even latex, still has a weave, and weaves means openings. The question is, how large. This is the lay example.
The best condoms weave can be compaired to a normal chainlink fence, while the AIDS virus is the size of a BB.

So next time you slip on that rubber for whatever reason, and if you think it's going to offer 100% protection from AIDS, think about this.
Your cock is behind a chainlink fence and your partner has just thrown a BB at you, what's the odd's that it's going to hit the fence and bounce off, or will it make it through?

 

[batesy1959]

What a great reply from Woodmeister, your probably right about causing a reaction but it would pobably go better on the General Board, so why not start the thread on there. I would definitley keep an eye on it to see peoples reactions they should prove to be very interesting.
By the way I think your avatar is great.

STILL NO PICTURES

batesy1959

 

[chewbacca71]

Good points Woodmeister, I will never look at a condom the same way again. My wife and I had to use them for years because she can not handle the pill very well. Life has gotten a lot more spontaneous now that we do not have to use them. They serve their purpose at times, but I would have to say overall they are a downer for the sexual experience. Chewey

 

[Abraxas Winterlight]

My wife hates the damn things ( i'm not too fond of them either) , but we keep sone handy in case of emergencies ( such as she's on antibiotics or something. ONE bundle of joy is enough tight now!!!!)

 

[sabbathstorm]

Since I'm unable to take any form of birth control due to medical reasons, condoms are essential. We've found two that we really like, one made by Kimono and the other being mint flavored. Using the mint one during sex gives a cool sensation all over.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i'm for condoms

I may only be 20 but I'm all for condoms, I've only been having sex for a year and after hearing my friends say they caught some std every week or at least for the second time, I am glad I use them. It doesn't kill the mood for me and my man we were joking about it today because he bought so different color ones this morning, i tease him now his cock matched his blue balls,I got to stay protected some how so we insist on getting a condom, or else neither one of us will get some, if we really have to, one of us will go to the 24 hour drug store up the street.

 

[Guest]

As unpleasant as they may be they are required if you are not in a committed full time relationship with someone that you are 100% positive is faithfull and not going to be brining home some unknown STD or worse.

Stiffy_Wood

http://www.lovelife.uk.com/frameless/advice/get_on/img/sm_on.gif

 

[Guest]

Love the slide show from Stiffy_Wood, reminds me of sex education lessons at school. I have used condoms quite a lot in my young life for the 2 obvious reasons:
1, I don't want to be a father yet.
2, I want to stay clean from infection and with the nights out I have with my mates ending in many a one night stand you have to be careful.

Thats how I feel anyway.

 

[batesy1959]

Thanks to all of you who have replied to my first thread, there have been some great replies.

However its a shame that no one could come up with any photos of condoms being used when making love I just thought it may lead to some different pics appearing.

Thanks anyway

batesy1959

 

[batesy1959]

Sorry just bumping my thread.
My lady has bet me that the thread will not get to 1000 views by 8pm GMT today (15.03) and that if it does my prize will be something rather special tonight
If I do not win the wager I hate to think what she might make me do, cut the grass, wash the car fix the fence all those jobs that I keep putting off.
Come on guys help me make it.

Thanks

 

[TheDagda]

I'm not a big fan of them for their own sakes, but they certainly reduce the risk of disease [including HIV]. They're not perfect, but they're better than nothing. They also reduce the risk of pregnancy. My fiancee and I use them because we don't want to be parents yet [after we've been parents enough, we'll get the snipsnip and it won't be an issue] but dislike oral contraceptives on principle. And as for putting a pouch full of spermicide into her vagina, well... we're not over thrilled with that either. It <em>can't</em> be good for her.

So we do an awful lot of "outercourse:" hands and mouths. Since we're both pretty good at it, neither one of us complains {grin}

And, of course, for sex with anyone else, we'd insist on using a condom. We don't generally use dental dams, but the risk of HIV transmission that way is relatively low, although if either of us had a partner who wanted one we'd surely go along.

The Dagda

 

[batesy1959]

Been some time....

since a post to this thread, thought I would bump it in case any one fancied posting to it.

batesy1959

 

[Guest]

just spotted this old thread and thought i would bring it back to the top of the board.

TOM