Condoms

[artistgonewyld]

Laidies, I was reading on another thread about guys using condoms and it got me to thinking about many conversations I've had or heard in the past.

The question is: do you hate a guy to wear a condom? If at all possible, would you have them never use one?

I remember a girl telling me once that she refused to have sex with a guy if he wore a condom, so please tell me what you think.

 

[desired_tempest]

i hate condoms because sometimes it stops all the things i can feel but a condom is a good way to keep my system clean...meaning no diseases and less of a chance for pregnancy...had one pregnancy scare in my short life dont really want another...

 

[artistgonewyld]

i hate condoms because sometimes it stops all the things i can feel but a condom is a good way to keep my system clean...meaning no diseases and less of a chance for pregnancy...had one pregnancy scare in my short life dont really want another...

So, in an ideal world, where disease was non-existent, you wouldn't use a condom?

 

[siddhartha757]

I hated condoms for the longest time, then one day they were out of my brand so I bought Magnums. I then realized Id been buying condoms that were way to small.

 

[darkangel85]

I hate them so much but when you have to you have to, if this as was said above an ideal world where diseases did not exsist then that would be different and i proberly wouldnt use them there are of course other methods to reducing risk of pregnancy which im quite happy to hope works

 

[cele2flowers]

So, in an ideal world, where disease was non-existent, you wouldn't use a condom?

I wouldn't use one. I've been on the pill for years and haven't had one very short lived pregnancy scare. So, if it weren't for diseases, I'd go without the condom everytime. They tend to make me feel sore, especially if there isn't enough lube.

 

[College_geek]

I used condoms with my boyfriend until I went on birth control, but now we don't since we were both virgins and we're quite monogamous (and trust me when I say this, I knew him for years before we dated).

If I was to have sex with anyone else, I would use a condom since I wouldn't know their sexual history.

It does dull the sensations, but I'd rather dull my vaginal sensation a bit than get the sensation of herpes.

 

[artistgonewyld]

I used condoms with my boyfriend until I went on birth control, but now we don't since we were both virgins and we're quite monogamous (and trust me when I say this, I knew him for years before we dated).

If I was to have sex with anyone else, I would use a condom since I wouldn't know their sexual history.

It does dull the sensations, but I'd rather dull my vaginal sensation a bit than get the sensation of herpes.

Wouldn't it be nice to go back to the 60s or 70s before AIDS and herpes. I think condoms can be fun on ocassion, even in a monogomous relationship, but it would be nice to be without sometimes too.

However, I know people that not only like them, they won't even consider sex without them, even in a long-term monogomous relationship.

Also, I know girls that refuse men if they try to wear a condom. Silly maybe, but true.

Anyway, I'd love to hear more of your thoughts and experiences.

 

[outrabutterfly]

The question is: do you hate a guy to wear a condom? If at all possible, would you have them never use one?

I love the feeling of sex without a condom and I think that if another form of birth control is used and your with only one person then its okay not too...but if you weren't in a committed relationship then using condoms would be best, even if the feeling isn't the same

 

[monique1971]

Also, I know girls that refuse men if they try to wear a condom. Silly maybe, but true.

These women need some help, pronto. What can they possibly be thinking?

I don't like condoms either, but in the real world they are a necessity.

 

[princyblonde]

Personally, I don't like using them, but that doesn't mean I don't. Obviously with my husband and I, we don't use them, when he and I were dating though we used them for a bit. I've only had 2 seroius, long term relationships, after a while with both of them we stopped using condoms because I went on the pill. I don't know, I just hate the sex with condoms but I also am not about to play russian roulet and take the chance of an unplanned pregnancy or diseases. Better safe than sorry, whether you like condoms or not....a crying baby or an STD can kill the "sex" more than a condom will.

 

[princyblonde]

These women need some help, pronto. What can they possibly be thinking?

I don't like condoms either, but in the real world they are a necessity.

Exactly. I don't like them, but step out of fantasy land and into reality and it is a necessity. I agree.