Betticus
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Okay, I've been thinking about submissives and spankings and BAM! An epiphany, like a bolt of violet want energy through your nipples. The answer stunned me and it will likely stun the rest of you as well.
In today's hectic world we are raised in an atmosphere where time is at a premium. We are raised with limited time for affection and quality family time so when affection did rear it's ugly head it was short and probably hollow.
When people need affection a night of cuddling and feeding each other chocolates and champagne is cool but time consuming. When you have limited time you can squeeze a lot of affection into a short span of time by increasing the intensity factor in the form of a spanking. Other things also but I'm using spanking as an example.
In essence, spankings are concentrated forms of affection and later on through the day or week whenever you shift uncomfortably in your chair because of the hurt of the spanking it's like getting a hug and a kiss from your loved one even when they are too busy to be there to cuddle you.
So, S&M while painful is in reality a weeks worth of love and tenderness compressed into one intense burst of pure spanky love.
In today's hectic world we are raised in an atmosphere where time is at a premium. We are raised with limited time for affection and quality family time so when affection did rear it's ugly head it was short and probably hollow.
When people need affection a night of cuddling and feeding each other chocolates and champagne is cool but time consuming. When you have limited time you can squeeze a lot of affection into a short span of time by increasing the intensity factor in the form of a spanking. Other things also but I'm using spanking as an example.
In essence, spankings are concentrated forms of affection and later on through the day or week whenever you shift uncomfortably in your chair because of the hurt of the spanking it's like getting a hug and a kiss from your loved one even when they are too busy to be there to cuddle you.
So, S&M while painful is in reality a weeks worth of love and tenderness compressed into one intense burst of pure spanky love.
...so true, so true 
