compersion not cuck

[muycurioso]

New word --- Compersion: A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship.

That is what my fantasies center around. A little teasing and sexy encouragement is ok. But not the dog collars and such. To each their own, mine is not degradation. Fun for all I say. Meeting a fun loving couple and having fun with them. A MMF with my wife is no way, no fucking way. I'd rather jump off the roof.

 

[pcarp]

I'm not sure where you got the idea that cuckolding involves "dog collars and such". The definition of a cuckold is simply "the husband of an unfaithful wife". I knew a lady once whose husband was a cuck. She came to my house often, we had some wild sex and she went home. He knew, and never complained. He was a cuckold, that's the exact definition. There is no "new word" required. Nothing requires a cuckold to know about his unfaithful wife or to participate. Nothing says he can't either.

EDIT: come to think of it, my ex-g/f and I frequently had mmf threesomes. Although we were not married, I would say that those threesomes made me a cuckold. I've never worn a dog collar in my life.

 

[muycurioso]

then I guess you are in it

I'm not sure where you got the idea that cuckolding involves "dog collars and such". The definition of a cuckold is simply "the husband of an unfaithful wife". I knew a lady once whose husband was a cuck. She came to my house often, we had some wild sex and she went home. He knew, and never complained. He was a cuckold, that's the exact definition. There is no "new word" required. Nothing requires a cuckold to know about his unfaithful wife or to participate. Nothing says he can't either.

EDIT: come to think of it, my ex-g/f and I frequently had mmf threesomes. Although we were not married, I would say that those threesomes made me a cuckold. I've never worn a dog collar in my life.

for the fun and joy, hence compersion. I don't remember calling you anything nor judging. free country

 

[pcarp]

I don't remember calling you anything nor judging. free country

Wow. First, I never said you did. And secondly, I didn't call you anything either.
I did correct the misleading comment you made about cuckolding. Yeah, its a free country, you are right. You are free to make up names for ducks, motor vehicles and people if you want. Its just when you state the reason a new name is necessary, you should be accurate.

 

[muycurioso]

the man doth protest too much, methinks

Wow. First, I never said you did. And secondly, I didn't call you anything either.
I did correct the misleading comment you made about cuckolding. Yeah, its a free country, you are right. You are free to make up names for ducks, motor vehicles and people if you want. Its just when you state the reason a new name is necessary, you should be accurate.

whatever dude, fuck it, you win. Next time I have a post about cuckholding, I will have you proof read it.

 

[Jerseyshore]

New word --- Compersion: A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship.

That is what my fantasies center around. A little teasing and sexy encouragement is ok. But not the dog collars and such. To each their own, mine is not degradation. Fun for all I say. Meeting a fun loving couple and having fun with them. A MMF with my wife is no way, no fucking way. I'd rather jump off the roof.

I like your attitude. Tenderness is something that gay and bi men do not always seek, esecially in chance encounters or one-night stands. It is all about the sex.

 

[muycurioso]

I am ok with some teasing

I like your attitude. Tenderness is something that gay and bi men do not always seek, esecially in chance encounters or one-night stands. It is all about the sex.

as long as it comes from a fun place and not degradation. If I met a woman and she wanted me to be mean and rough with her husband I'd say no thanks. I want to have a "gay ol' time" I want to give them a good time

 

[yukonnights]

Compersion
A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship.

Commentary: Compersion can be thought of as the opposite of "jealousy;" it is a positive emotional reaction to a loved one's other relationship. The term was coined by the Kerista Commune. It differs from candaulism in that compersion does not specifically refer to joy regarding the sexual activity of one's partner, but refers instead to joy at the relationship with another romantic and/or sexual partner. It is analagous to the feeling of joy a parent feels when their children marry or that best friends feel for each other when they are happy in a romantic relationship. [Urban Dictionary]

Based on the above; I don't see this as a 'new term' for a cuckold. While there may be 'compersion' in a cuckold relationship, it isn't restricted to a 'cuckold relationship'. This could apply to any open relationship, swigging and such.

Nice word though — it's a new one for me

 

[TallOne]

Yeah, compersion is why there are people that do not mind being cuckolds. Even in a swinging couple that does a wife swap, both husbands are still cuckolds by definition. The whole humiliation/denial of the cuckold aspect is just a specific separate fetish some people enjoy.