Communication!

[JADED_ONE1969]

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[cloudy]

Because its fiction, and that's how the author writes it.

 

[Camilleon]

Why is marital unhappiness assumed to be a prerequisite to cheating?

 

[mjl2010]

Just question in many stories on this site and others why is it that the partner who cheats rarely tells the other partner that their not happy about how things are and I dont just mean sex I everything that might lead to cheating.

Essentially you have to consider both the writers and the readers. On the one hand you've got this certain set of readers who like to read stories about women who are cheating on their husbands. Since there is a "market" for that kind of story, you've got writers who cater to that type of story. The two easiest setups for a wife to cheat are: A) Her husband cheated and so now, pissed off, she goes out and cheats to either get even or to experience it herself. B) She is unhappy in her marriage and looking for love or sexual satisfaction. Therefore, she goes out and cheats.

Why is marital unhappiness assumed to be a prerequisite to cheating?

Realistically, of the two scenarios above, the latter is the most likely of the two. In real life, I would think a woman is more likely to cheat because she somehow falls in love with someone outside her marriage and it just happens.

Personally, I don't read the cheating wife stories. In fact, I rarely read anything in the Loving Wives category. For me, Love and Sex belong in a caring relationship of some kind. I think Loving Wives has become something it wasn't meant to be and thats something I don't find erotic or pleasant to read.

MJL

 

[sr71plt]

Just question in many stories on this site and others why is it that the partner who cheats rarely tells the other partner that their not happy about how things are and I dont just mean sex I everything that might lead to cheating.

Oh, I think this is more reality than fiction. Partners rarely "tell" each other these things. They try to show these things, and quite often this doesn't translate to the partner, both because their signaling isn't clear and because the partner doesn't want to hear/know/aknowledge it.

If the story was about someone telling their partner they were unhappy, their partner understanding/acknowledging they'd been told, and the two of them working it out together, this would be nice, but I don't think it would be typical. It also wouldn't be the basis for a good story unless the writer had a really clever way of presenting it.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Look, in the real world all little boys are taught that the tiny, insugnificant piece of meat between their legs is wonderful - possibly even legendary, while all women are submissive and virginal even after their marriage.

Porn fiction is about breaking those rules - Your cock ain't really all that wonderful and you wife will fuck anyone she sees fit, then not worry about it as long as "Mr. Man-Meat" doesn't have to be told. Got that?

 

[sr71plt]

Look, in the real world all little boys are taught that the tiny, insugnificant piece of meat between their legs is wonderful - possibly even legendary, while all women are submissive and virginal even after their marriage.

Porn fiction is about breaking those rules - Your cock ain't really all that wonderful and you wife will fuck anyone she sees fit, then not worry about it as long as "Mr. Man-Meat" doesn't have to be told. Got that?

To give "the world" some credit, I think the messages have changed a good bit from that in the last century. lol.

 

[starrkers]

To give "the world" some credit, I think the messages have changed a good bit from that in the last century. lol.

Depends where you live.

 

[sr71plt]

Depends where you live.

If I found otherwise, I'd move. I don't think it serves any useful purpose to exaggerate stereotypes.

 

[Guest]

Look, in the real world all little boys are taught that the tiny, insugnificant piece of meat between their legs is wonderful - possibly even legendary, while all women are submissive and virginal even after their marriage.

Porn fiction is about breaking those rules - Your cock ain't really all that wonderful and you wife will fuck anyone she sees fit, then not worry about it as long as "Mr. Man-Meat" doesn't have to be told. Got that?

"Mr. Man-Meat" ?

 

[elfin_odalisque]

Look, in the real world all little boys are taught that the tiny, insugnificant piece of meat between their legs is wonderful - possibly even legendary, while all women are submissive and virginal even after their marriage.

Porn fiction is about breaking those rules - Your cock ain't really all that wonderful and you wife will fuck anyone she sees fit, then not worry about it as long as "Mr. Man-Meat" doesn't have to be told. Got that?

Actually, it's the other way round these days. Little boys are taught to be fearful of the dangling man-meat and women are supposed to be feisty sex-hungry vamps.

sr, stereotypes are what we live by, unfortunately.

 

[sr71plt]

sr, stereotypes are what we live by, unfortunately.

And vegetate by--and sometimes die by. I get it.

 

[Oblimo]

There's also the male fantasy of "the whore who only loves me."

 

[sr71plt]

There's also the male fantasy of "the whore who only loves me."

Or the female fantasy. "My man will take care of me--right after I redecorate him."