commitment phobics, sign in here.
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i'm very rarely screwed, tyvm. maybe a week or two a year.
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I should've been committed years ago.
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Colonel Hogan
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Is this gonna be a club? I'll join, but only if we can pay dues on a monthly basis.
And I'm assuming we are not going to have any officers because, well, like who would volunteer to serve?
Quote: When a commitment phobic says he 'has your back," what he is really saying is that that is the best position from which to throw you under the bus.
And I'm assuming we are not going to have any officers because, well, like who would volunteer to serve?
Quote: When a commitment phobic says he 'has your back," what he is really saying is that that is the best position from which to throw you under the bus.
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hmm...
my grannies say maybe i just haven't met the right man.
i say maybe i'm just the wrong woman.
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we're always the wrong woman for the wrong man... for the right man, we're the only woman (unless you're a person who enjoys polygamy, of course)
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See, I think that is very possible, and yours is a very enlightened position to take if it is backed up by a long period of introspective study. If you know what you are afraid of, why you are afraid of it and that you are unable or unwilling to change, then the discussion is pretty much closed.
It took me a second marriage to someone who was very different from my first wife for me to realize that perhaps I was the largest shovel of sand in the gearbox.
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other than convention, I've yet to find a convincing argument for why i should change.
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A whole week or two.... Jesus Christ. That is commitment. If I do not bust a nut in 40 minutes, I fake it and go to bed.
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i always picture 'bust a nut' as some sort of bloody rupture.
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^^^i sometimes feel like there might be a reason to change, but it never lasts for long. it's easy to get caught up in the moment.
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I told someone the other day "I'm not afraid of commitment I just worry that I would pick the wrong person." She informed me that is kind of the definition of fear of commitment. 
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Whether or not you find an argument convincing isn't necessarily related to its validity.
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Dolt will get near her sell by date then embrace commitment....like a convict finding Jesus.
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I have been with the same woman for 14 yrs now.
Before this my longest relationship was like 8 mths.
Before this my longest relationship was like 8 mths.
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Skiddles2014
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She must be very special.
She is, and not in a window-licker kind of way either.
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I feel yo pain....
