Coming out,ready or not...

[T.H. Oughts]

Well after being together for 20 years with my husband we are now separating. He always knew of my sensual thoughts towards woman. And being a horny male he would have liked to have seen me at play with a woman. But it never happened....

So now I'm single again I have decided to explore all those horny sensual thoughts I've had since a teenager.

When telling people of my marriage break up I have said that next time around I'm trying for a woman. The look of shock on their faces, though my closest friends know it is not a joke.

So I have joined a online dating group and have stated I am bisexual and looking.... so will be interesting if that leads anywhere.

 

[stp56]

go with what ever you feel comfortable with

 

[anne27]

Best of luck on your new life and your 'new' sexuality!

 

[John Doe]

Depending on why your marriage broke up, I wouldn't necessarily expect better results.

 

[bi golly]

Well after being together for 20 years with my husband we are now separating.

Good luck with what comes next. Healing from a separation/divorce takes a while. I don't know what happened or what is going on, but most people say that it takes from two to five years to recover from it.

 

[pantybeard]

Best Of Luck

I am going through the same thing, just that I am male. Wife could not understand the attraction. I will miss her and always love her, she is a great lady. Hope you find what you need, and it makes you happy!

 

[RavenousRae]

Good luck, hope you find someone good for you, whatever gender they may be!

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

good luck

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I'm not rushing into any relationships. Just getting word out, as being married most people don't understand the bisexual thing and some think it is disrepectful to your husband to mention it.

The sex life that my ex and I had was great. Though he would never allow my strapon near his butt

 

[DustyWolfe]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I'm not rushing into any relationships. Just getting word out, as being married most people don't understand the bisexual thing and some think it is disrepectful to your husband to mention it.

The sex life that my ex and I had was great. Though he would never allow my strapon near his butt

Wow.. I've not talked to you in ages. How have you been? I remember you mentioning that would like to try being with a woman at one point, I do believe that this was years ago?
I really do hope that this new lifestyle you are entering brings you much happiness, and perhaps your hearts desire

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Wow.. I've not talked to you in ages. How have you been? I remember you mentioning that would like to try being with a woman at one point, I do believe that this was years ago?
I really do hope that this new lifestyle you are entering brings you much happiness, and perhaps your hearts desire

Hiya

yep, I've been around Lit for a few years now. Does that make me a victim or not????

 

[deezire1900]

Many women don't "come out" until later in life. This is not something to be afraid of, but excited about.

I was married when I decided to come out. My husband was very understanding (we were only 19) but wanted tons of kids and a wife that stayed home. We didn't see eye to eye, said our loving goodbyes and made our own lives. That was 11 years ago, and I have never looked back.

 

[headstrong69]

Well after being together for 20 years with my husband we are now separating. He always knew of my sensual thoughts towards woman. And being a horny male he would have liked to have seen me at play with a woman. But it never happened....

So now I'm single again I have decided to explore all those horny sensual thoughts I've had since a teenager.

When telling people of my marriage break up I have said that next time around I'm trying for a woman. The look of shock on their faces, though my closest friends know it is not a joke.

So I have joined a online dating group and have stated I am bisexual and looking.... so will be interesting if that leads anywhere.

congrats on comin out
always gotta be true to yourself

 

[Raimondin]

re: Coming out, ready or not...

Best of luck to you this second time around. You have a right and deserve to be happy just like the rest of the world.