Comfort Sex

[thambok]

Eventually, the circs change.

When they do, the nice guys start to come out ahead.

 

[angela146]

Comfort sex happens within marriages all the time...

Take a look at my story, "Two Nights"

 

[Liar]

A good fuck can be an up-cheering experience. I've been on the giving end of them a few times w a periodically depressed gf.

 

[Guest]

And then there's sex after a death - something to reaffirm your own life.

Comfort sex - yes - I've had it..it's - very.. umm..nice..

 

[Rope64]

Seems like a lot of you ladies have never experienced "comfort sex" ... does that make you ... sad?

 

[SummerMorning]

Allow me to amend my statement.

It has paid off for me. I have good friends of both sexes. I don't have anyone out there that is wishing for some painful demise to befall me. I am happy with the woman I am with, because I can respect her, and she respects me. I have had amazing experiences, because I have established that I can be trusted.

While it had some rough spots, being a nice guy has absolutely been rewarding to me overall. Its take longer to pay off, but the reward is worth the wait. If for nothing else than the fact that I cna sleep very well at night.

Now ... we might be talking about different kinds of nice guy. See, I think a lot of folks who define themselves as "nice guys" are actually talking about "shy, introvert, embarassed guys".

They don't come out ahead.

 

[Sex and Death]

My experience is that it takes a while for the lovely ladies to realize that the bad boy attraction they keep falling back to is self-destructive. One day, they give the nice guy a try as a lark, and realize what they have been missing.

I used to think I had to choose between being the Nice Guy and the Bad Guy. Turns out I've always had pretty easy access to both, but I had to learn that they are not mutually exclusive. I think my woman finds it a turn on that I can access my "Dark Side" as the mood demands during sex, and in life in general. For me, it is a matter of who or what I serve. I can use my "Dark Side" selfishly or in the service of Love. Sometimes I fuck up, but I'd rather fuck up than fail to make the attempt. The Force is the Force is the Force. It depends on your posture towards it and how you use it.

"What has no shadow has no strength to live." ~Csezlaw Milosz

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I don't see what's so bad about it. Maybe it will last, but it doesn't have to. Sometimes, it is a good way of letting a person know that they ARE attractive (which might be one of the things depressing them). Just a thought. Giving them back that confidence could hardly be a bad thing.

 

[Andreina]

yes... and it was good. weird but good. it didn't help much that he was a Prof and i was a student. but it was good.

did i mention that it was good?