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[Harmony_1985]

Yep, I put a cold cloth on it when I did it and I've taken some ibuprofen, but its still hurting a bit.

 

[LifelongCyn]

you need someone to kiss it and make it better!

 

[Harmony_1985]

Daddy kissed it better for me earlier

 

[rinka]

Hi girls!
I really should be sleeping... but I'm not right now.

So what should we talk about tonight?

I suggest... romantic or not so romantic things to say/ hear to /from a lover.

Or something else like travelling, orgasms, favourite fruits, weird habits...

 

[LifelongCyn]

Hi girls!
I really should be sleeping... but I'm not right now.

So what should we talk about tonight?

I suggest... romantic or not so romantic things to say/ hear to /from a lover.

Or something else like travelling, orgasms, favourite fruits, weird habits...

Hi rinka! Would love to have some girl talk tonight! Romance (or not!) is always good. What are you in the mood for?

 

[cherokee_dove]

Harmony,

Gently run your opposite hands fingers over the area that is injured. Does anything feel broken or out of place?

If not, switch back and forth between hot and cold packs for the pain and swelling; and if not any better by morning, might want to have ER check it out for you.

The cold pack for the pain, the hot pack to relax the surrounding muscles. Just to make what i said, make sense.

 

[rinka]

Hi rinka! Would love to have some girl talk tonight! Romance (or not!) is always good. What are you in the mood for?

I am definitely in the mood for romance.

So, what would you rather hear:

a) You are so beautiful
b) I love to hear you laughing
c) You are nothing like your mother

?

 

[Harmony_1985]

Harmony,

Gently run your opposite hands fingers over the area that is injured. Does anything feel broken or out of place?

If not, switch back and forth between hot and cold packs for the pain and swelling; and if not any better by morning, might want to have ER check it out for you.

The cold pack for the pain, the hot pack to relax the surrounding muscles. Just to make what i said, make sense.

Nothing feels broken or out of place. I can still move my hand and my fingers and things, so nothing's bust. I think it's just bruised, cos I didn't half whack my hand on the end of the bannister.

 

[cherokee_dove]

Nothing feels broken or out of place. I can still move my hand and my fingers and things, so nothing's bust. I think it's just bruised, cos I didn't half whack my hand on the end of the bannister.

Well, thats good. Just keep taking ibuprofen and switch back and forth on the packs till the swelling goes down.

But heck of a place to get it, that gonna be "a black and blue" that wasn't fun to get.

 

[LifelongCyn]

I am definitely in the mood for romance.

So, what would you rather hear:

a) You are so beautiful
b) I love to hear you laughing
c) You are nothing like your mother

?

b, 'cause it means he cares about how I feel not just how I look.

What about you (while I try to come up with something equally insightful)?

 

[rinka]

b, 'cause it means he cares about how I feel not just how I look.

What about you (while I try to come up with something equally insightful)?

Definitely b as well. But some days both of the other options would be really appreciated.

No need for insightful here, that would create to much pressure.


Realy unromantic things someone said is also entertaining...

 

[LifelongCyn]

How has embracing your submissive side changed what you look for in a romantic partner?

 

[rinka]

How has embracing your submissive side changed what you look for in a romantic partner?

Hmm... Hard to answer, since it is so new to me and I haven't looked for a partner, I just kind of found one.

I think for me it has been more about admitting to myself that I've always been attracted to dominant men, and to basically surrender to that and accept it. It has been a struggle since I am a quite radical feminist and basically never considered being in a relationship that wasn't striving for equality. I still haven't figured out how to reconcile my needs and values.


Well, there's more, but that's a start.

 

[LifelongCyn]

Hmm... Hard to answer, since it is so new to me and I haven't looked for a partner, I just kind of found one.

I think for me it has been more about admitting to myself that I've always been attracted to dominant men, and to basically surrender to that and accept it. It has been a struggle since I am a quite radical feminist and basically never considered being in a relationship that wasn't striving for equality. I still haven't figured out how to reconcile my needs and values.


Well, there's more, but that's a start.

*nods* That's quite a puzzle, reconciling the feminist and the submissive. I don't know how to do that either.

I've always been attracted to dominant men (and one particular woman), too, but they also scared the bejeesus out of me. lol My natural response was to be sort of combative. lol

 

[rinka]

*nods* That's quite a puzzle, reconciling the feminist and the submissive. I don't know how to do that either.

I've always been attracted to dominant men (and one particular woman), too, but they also scared the bejeesus out of me. lol My natural response was to be sort of combative. lol

I so know what you mean...

Wanting to be taken, but not letting it happen.
Fighting to set boundaries I didn't really have.

Trying to not be so pleasing...

 

[Lady_Midnight]

I always feel that it takes a very strong person to be able to submit...someone very aware of what they want/need and very at peace with themselves.

 

[rinka]

I always feel that it takes a very strong person to be able to submit...someone very aware of what they want/need and very at peace with themselves.

I agree.

I want to really choose to submit, make a conscious choice, continually. Not just be swept away, be active, say yes.

Maybe for me I first needed a lot of practice at saying no, so now I can really say yes.

 

[LifelongCyn]

I agree.

I want to really choose to submit, make a conscious choice, continually. Not just be swept away, be active, say yes.

Maybe for me I first needed a lot of practice at saying no, so now I can really say yes.

I like that, rinka. Well said.

 

[LifelongCyn]

I like that, rinka. Well said.

Hey Harmony! How's your "poorly" today?

I love that expression!

 

[LifelongCyn]

I always feel that it takes a very strong person to be able to submit...someone very aware of what they want/need and very at peace with themselves.

*blows to Lady M*

well, i'm definitely working in that direction, anyway

 

[Harmony_1985]

Hey Harmony! How's your "poorly" today?

I love that expression!

Haha, its an English saying that pretty much bases itself in the county I live in.

Go anywhere else in England, say "poorly" or "badly" and people go "wtf?"

And its ok today. Aches a bit and its still tender, but I'll live.

 

[LifelongCyn]

Haha, its an English saying that pretty much bases itself in the county I live in.

Go anywhere else in England, say "poorly" or "badly" and people go "wtf?"

And its ok today. Aches a bit and its still tender, but I'll live.

Oh good! Glad to hear you're on the mend.

It's too bad that's not a more wide spread expression. It must be absolutely adorable when children say it.

 

[cherokee_dove]

I always feel that it takes a very strong person to be able to submit...someone very aware of what they want/need and very at peace with themselves.

Hello Lady M.

To me, what You said is the inner submissive within me. i know what i want, crave, and need to be complete. And knowing that until the submission happens, i will not be fully complete again.

But at peace with myself knowing that and still dealing with life, as is.

Have a good evening.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

I think all your words were beautiful. I have been truly touched and actually wistful in my thoughts of sharing those feelings.

 

[Lady_Midnight]

*wanders in yawning and rubbing eyes sleepily*

Morning everyone