Come again?

[Comshaw]

We can't take responsibility for how you come across even if you don't mean it in that manner.



Not our place to tailor our responses to make up for whatever shortfall in your socialization led you to misunderstanding how your words are viewed in both meaning and attitude.

Per your everyone for themselves directive.

Interesting. My shortfall in socialization is: 1) that I expect those I'm talking with to respond like adults. 2) If you don't understand, ask. 3) If my words offend, tell me, don't try children's tactics. 4) If you get your feel's hurt about someone questioning you or challenging what you said, perhaps you shouldn't be in the conversation to begin with.

Everyone for themselves directive? And just where did you get that? Thin air maybe?

Comshaw

 

[Comshaw]

So you admit you didn’t understand what I was saying and yet still said I was wrong. I then explained further, and politely suggested you read what I said again. Then you doubled down with the mansplaining.

Sorry, maybe I just interpreted all that.

Sorry, I never said I was wrong. I said I saw where you were going. Big difference. And I love the fact that instead of trying to explain where I was wrong, rather than engage in a meaningful conversation, you accuse me of "mansplaining" a convenient insult/dodge for those who can't explain or are arrogant enough to assume they don't have to.
So if you wish, if you believe I don't understand what you are saying, do this: explain it in small terms, terms anyone can understand without being condescending. Coonverse with me until we are both looking out the same window. If you can do that, show me why I was wrong instead of getting spun up about it and throwing insults around, we could have a rational, intelligent conversation.

Comshaw

 

[pink_silk_glove]

Interesting. My shortfall in socialization is: 1) that I expect those I'm talking with to respond like adults. 2) If you don't understand, ask. 3) If my words offend, tell me, don't try children's tactics. 4) If you get your feel's hurt about someone questioning you or challenging what you said, perhaps you shouldn't be in the conversation to begin with.

Everyone for themselves directive? And just where did you get that? Thin air maybe?

Comshaw

Ok, now you're just being a fuckin' douche. Not the first time, so not surprised.

 

[Comshaw]

Ok, now you're just being a fuckin' douche. Not the first time, so not surprised.

Insults instead of rational conversation? Expected.

Comshaw

 

[pink_silk_glove]

Insults instead of rational conversation? Expected.

Comshaw

Considering how many times you've been a total asshole to me, I'm being completely rational.

 

[LargoKitt]

I’m not gonna get into a detailed reply. Feels too much like sexting. But it is worth noting that the nerve bundles in our genital regions are homologous (broadly the same structures, but dragged into different shapes by differential tissue development mediated by the Y chromosome in men).

I’m not for a second saying male and female experience of orgasm is identical. But it’s not - biologically speaking - totally different.

Prrobably why people dare write sex scenes featuring the opposite gender from what they is.

 

[LargoKitt]

I'm done whenever I don't want more, lol. It's almost like a sort of hunger, and I have no idea how else to describe that. This was a weird thing to write, but I hope it helps.

Yeah, in watching honest vids of women pleasuring themselves it seems sometimes she is mentally saying, "That was nice, but I guess I don't need any more for today. Kind of like 'a tasty snack and now I'm full but I don't want to stuff myself (pun intended.)"

 

[LargoKitt]

Interesting how this thread got derailed. They idea was to respect and explore the variety of female sexual responses. Also, in the interest of writing a variety of good sex scenes, to get some feedback on what makes for a great orgasm for a person born with ovaries.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

Interesting how this thread got derailed. They idea was to respect and explore the variety of female sexual responses. Also, in the interest of writing a variety of good sex scenes, to get some feedback on what makes for a great orgasm for a person born with ovaries.

Interesting isn't the word I'd use. Apparently some people weren't getting enough attention today so they had to manufacture some drama.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

Interesting. My shortfall in socialization is: 1) that I expect those I'm talking with to respond like adults. 2) If you don't understand, ask. 3) If my words offend, tell me, don't try children's tactics. 4) If you get your feel's hurt about someone questioning you or challenging what you said, perhaps you shouldn't be in the conversation to begin with.

Everyone for themselves directive? And just where did you get that? Thin air maybe?

Comshaw

Your shortfall in socialization was that you assumed you were dealing with people who would debate in good faith. As soon as it was clear that you were factually correct they retreated to character assassination.

 

[Comshaw]

Considering how many times you've been a total asshole to me, I'm being completely rational.

Hmmmmm...well if 20 random people were asked to rate them, I do not believe I would be the one who would be tagged as the asshole. But you are free to go dig them up and prove your point, if you dare.

Comshaw

 

[Comshaw]

Interesting how this thread got derailed. They idea was to respect and explore the variety of female sexual responses. Also, in the interest of writing a variety of good sex scenes, to get some feedback on what makes for a great orgasm for a person born with ovaries.

Doesn't it happen all the time? We start talking about using natural materials, say Porcupine quills in place of hypodermic needles and before you know it we have walked off the edge of that subject and are yelling out our opinions on porcine air flow characteristics. T'wood be no fun if we be grounded in the staid world of order and reality huh?


Comshaw