Collaring

SexSweetheart

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Hello,

I do have a submissive sexual nature and have been looking for the right man. I have written about some of the fantasy that one can image.

I'm also a romantic. :rolleyes:


I have been writing M/s stories for some time. I want to write about the collaring ceremony.

I have several story lines going on. I would like to write a collaring ceremony, and I want to do it. Or do it justice.

I hope there is someone out there will to describe it to me. Or give some details about how it is done.



Sergeant Sebastian :cool:
 
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I recommend doing a search on the web and sifting through the info. for what material you would like to use. I'm not sure what you mean by doing it justice. It's a fairly standard ceremony (I think) Umm have you taken a peek at the "Ceremony of the Roses"? it can be just as meaningful.
 
hotblooded said:
I recommend doing a search on the web and sifting through the info. for what material you would like to use. I'm not sure what you mean by doing it justice. It's a fairly standard ceremony (I think) Umm have you taken a peek at the "Ceremony of the Roses"? it can be just as meaningful.
If I could have found the information on the Internet, than I would not have posted the request for information.

What is the Ceremony of the Roses?
 
Google Ceremony of the Roses and Collaring and you will find enough to keep you reading for hours.

Catalina :rose:
 
Perhaps in my original posting, I did not make my request for information clear enough.

I would like to have a diaolgue about the ceremony itself. I have the details but they never answer all the questions.

If you do not want to chat about it openly, please send me an email or private message.

Thanks. :(
 
I guess you need to ask questions in relation to what you want to discuss specifically to help discussion take place. As a writer I am sure you can do that and then people are likely to enter into a discussion on those points and possibly some others along the way.

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
I guess you need to ask questions in relation to what you want to discuss specifically to help discussion take place. As a writer I am sure you can do that and then people are likely to enter into a discussion on those points and possibly some others along the way.

Catalina :rose:
Good Point.

I will have to formulate the right question.
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Tattooing

I’m in the process of writing a story, were I want the new master to formally collar her. I was thinking of having her bottom tattooed as part of the ceremony. Would this be possible?

Thanks
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SexSweetheart said:
You have a very interesting picture for your avaitor. Is that you?

Thanks for your help. What you suggested that I check over has been very helpful.

Are you a submissive? :rose:

This avatar is not me, just something I found surfing the web that I liked. In the future I will have one that will be a part of me however that my Master has approved. :) I am submissive, yes.

You are most welcome. It also seems that the Ceremony of the Roses is also a part of many vanilla wedding ceremonies. I discovered this in google searching. It is just done differently with different colored roses meant to signify different aspects of the couples lives. Oh and they leave off the finger pricking and chains too. How boring huh? ;)
 
I handed my boys a collar and said "there you go."
Seeing someone's eyes light up when you do something offhandedly can sometimes be really romantic, actually. Worked well for me.
 
Netzach said:
I handed my boys a collar and said "there you go."
Seeing someone's eyes light up when you do something offhandedly can sometimes be really romantic, actually. Worked well for me.
Your boys?
 
callinectes said:
* I now have diet Dr. Pepper all over my monitor and keyboard* lmao!
Why are you laughing so hard? I would like to know about your boys.
 
SexSweetheart said:
Why are you laughing so hard? I would like to know about your boys.

I was laughing because I interpreted your post to be one of surprise and/or confusion that a collar was given to a male sub. If I misunderstood, I apologize.

I have no boys, I'm a sub myself.

ETA - bad, bad typos!
 
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CutieMouse said:
Sexsweetheart, do you know very much about the Lifestyle?

The Library at the top of the BDSM forums, is a good resource for general information.

I'm honestly not really sure what you're asking for advice about- a collaring ceremony is whatever the persons involved, decide to do.
Thanks for letting me know. I will have to go and check out this thread in more detail for what I'm looking for.

If a collar cermony is whatever the people involved decide, then what I would like to do in my story will work. I was thinking of having her tatooed in front of the others before they exchange words.
 
callinectes said:
I was laughing becasue I interpreted your post to be one of surprise and/or confusion that a collar was given to a male sub. If I misunterstood, I apologize.

I have no boys, I'm a sub myself.
That makes sense. From your statement I thought you were incharge and had male subs.
 
SexSweetheart said:
That makes sense. From your statement I thought you were incharge and had male subs.

Netzach is a Domme, it was she that posted about her boys.
 
callinectes said:
Netzach is a Domme, it was she that posted about her boys.
That makes sense but she never answered the question.

Do you enjoy being a Sub?
 
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