Collar play

[xxxSubSamxxx]

I have looked on the BDSM library for ideas of play when a collar and leash is used, but I haven't found any.

What do you make your sub do when they are in a collar and leash?

Doing what turns you on while you are wearing a collar and leash?

Sam xx

 

[Etoile]

Collar and leash is either for guidance/control, or puppy play, IMO. I wouldn't do anything different from normal just because I was in a collar and leash.

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

Collar and leash is either for guidance/control, or puppy play, IMO. I wouldn't do anything different from normal just because I was in a collar and leash.

Thanks for your input

Sam xx

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

There are 195 views on this thread but only one post. I have a collar and leash now and don't know what my Master has in mind.

I do have a safe word though

Sam xx

 

[cascadiabound]

Hi SubSam -
I agree with the other respondent that wearing a collar and leash does not necessary change what you might do.

I don't know if you ordinarily wear a collar for your PYL, but for me, I live my life just the same wearing my collar as before... it is a sign of my relationship.... like a wedding band - it makes me feel different, special, more than DOING something different, other than the promises that go along with the collar that are between me and my PYL.

As to leash and collar... I would say it may depend on whether or not you and your PYL are interested in pet play or not. My PYL sometimes uses the leash as part of foreplay or to just exert extra physical connection and control over me. I love the feel of the tug on my collar... but my neck is sensitive and causes me to become aroused easily and my PYL likes to take advantage of this fact. We do not really engage in any kind of formal pet play (though I do have some rather significant fantasies around such things)

You might get some ideas about leashes and activities therein from the following thread (pet girls etc). But... in the end - you will, with your PYL find what is fun and arousing for the two of you. Enjoy!

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=825551

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

This is good information. My Master has said it's more about symbolising the ownership too, but I have only known him a couple of weeks and he bought me the collar and leash after the third date.

He seems very serious and we seem compatible.

Lets see how things progress

Sam xx

 

[Witchybug]

Good advice here! I, too, wear my collar the same as I wear my wedding ring...and I never touch the buckle/remove it myself. We use the leash when we our play includes other people...whoever has the leash is my Master for the moment

Congrats & have fun playing & learning boundaries

 

[lvs2lck]

Obviously this is a personal preference, but I like the inclusion of taking my pet outside to pee!!!

 

[cascadiabound]

I was asked to explain the abbreviation PYL used in my prior post.
= Pick your label

When capitalized PYL refers to Dom, Sir, Master, Domme, is the Dominant partner... Pick your label whatever works in your relationship.
When in lower case pyl refers to submissive, sub, slave, little, baby girl, sissy boy, ...again... Pick your label for the submissive partner in your relationship.

It is a short hand commonly adopted on the BDSM board so it does not leave anyone out of the conversation.

I hope I have explained this correctly, as this is a convention used here but certainly not created by me.

 

[cascadiabound]

Obviously this is a personal preference, but I like the inclusion of taking my pet outside to pee!!!

Using a leash for this type of pet play, control and humiliation play is obviously an option. This could either be incredibly hot or a total turn off. Depends on the scene...and the two of you.

 

[James1324]

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[xxxSubSamxxx]

Obviously this is a personal preference, but I like the inclusion of taking my pet outside to pee!!!

Wow that sounds luscious mmmmmm, especially if he uses bladder control and makes me wait to pee until I am desperate

Sam xx

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

My sub wears a collar just when were playing. We do sessions of a few days every so often (we live far apart, so can't play all the time). So the collar symbolises that it's play-time, and that I'm going to control things for her for a few days. After that, it goes back on its stand for a while, and we go back to regular life.

It's useful because it helps to separate play from just normal life, and so to keep a balance between the different aspects of our relationship. Also, they're pretty hot, especially with leads

That's good feedback, I am getting excited now. I will be seeing him in a few days and give you all my experiences.

Sam xx

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

D(.)(.)---------- My hubby or master has only recently got me to be tied or have intercorse with others. Yes I'm a very late bloomer but I have reasons .

His latest game was to put my red collar and lease on and take me to a preplanned place for a game with more men that I expected. I was put in the wire cage naked.
Down here lots of young guys have pick up trucks with big wheels and a Pit Bull in a cage in the truck bed. I became a Pit Bull for an afternoon. It was very degrading yet exciting and no harm was done.

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

D(.)(.)---------- My hubby or master has only recently got me to be tied or have intercorse with others. Yes I'm a very late bloomer but I have reasons .

His latest game was to put my red collar and lease on and take me to a preplanned place for a game with more men that I expected. I was put in the wire cage naked.
Down here lots of young guys have pick up trucks with big wheels and a Pit Bull in a cage in the truck bed. I became a Pit Bull for an afternoon. It was very degrading yet exciting and no harm was done.

Wow that sounds so erotic, but I think that would be pushing my limits too far. Thanks for your experience

Sam xx

 

[herewego196121]

My collar and leash

I bring my collar and leash to the adult video arcade in Des Moines on weekends. I purchase my card and then go back to the booths with my hear racing as I think about my adventure ahead of me, not knowing what will happen each time. I enter a booth and proceed to undress. I then start my video up and select a tranny video because those really turn my crank. After I am completely naked, I place my dog collar on and attach my leash. If I am at The Minx, I then unlatch my door and open it slightly. If I am at Romantix, I stand at attention and start stroking my cock.

The thrill my collar brings me is incredible. It sends a signal to others that is interpreted many different ways. One guy came into my booth and immediately grabbed the leash and drew me to him and made me kiss him. Making out with his firm grip on the leash placing tension on my neck was a rush. another guy forced me to my knees and placed the leash under his foot so there was tension on my collar as I unzipped and serviced him. Yet another made me suck him and gave me a facial then lead me out into the hall where several guys were hanging out and then lead me back to the big booth in the corner where i was made to suck off all of them with some insisting on me swallowing and others shooting all over my shaved head.

My collar brings me all sort of things depending on who has their hand on my leash. Thanks

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

I bring my collar and leash to the adult video arcade in Des Moines on weekends. I purchase my card and then go back to the booths with my hear racing as I think about my adventure ahead of me, not knowing what will happen each time. I enter a booth and proceed to undress. I then start my video up and select a tranny video because those really turn my crank. After I am completely naked, I place my dog collar on and attach my leash. If I am at The Minx, I then unlatch my door and open it slightly. If I am at Romantix, I stand at attention and start stroking my cock.

The thrill my collar brings me is incredible. It sends a signal to others that is interpreted many different ways. One guy came into my booth and immediately grabbed the leash and drew me to him and made me kiss him. Making out with his firm grip on the leash placing tension on my neck was a rush. another guy forced me to my knees and placed the leash under his foot so there was tension on my collar as I unzipped and serviced him. Yet another made me suck him and gave me a facial then lead me out into the hall where several guys were hanging out and then lead me back to the big booth in the corner where i was made to suck off all of them with some insisting on me swallowing and others shooting all over my shaved head.


My collar brings me all sort of things depending on who has their hand on my leash. Thanks

Thank you for sharing that was very exciting to read
Sam xx

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

looks like I won't get a chance to use my collar and leash. Things aren't progressing. Looks like I am on the market for a new Dom

Sam xx