Cocksucking 101
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Blastasbird
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BlueSugar said:
No you are not the only one that stalks and waits for the car. he is back today and I will be waiting impatiently and I might just give hime time to walk through the door and close it first.
BlueSugar
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I didn't quite milk his cock but instead of shooting his cum into my mouth, it oozed and he had quite a different type of orgasm this time (last night) I didn't do anything different, I was even a little slow for his liking... but it was very sweet.
HAHA reviving cocksucking101 !
HAHA reviving cocksucking101 !
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BlueSugar said:
http://hometown.aol.com/slejames/images/skull%20f.gif on the brain Blue?
I knew I liked you
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James G 5 said:
::steals the smiley::
I had a craving, and there are alot of new faces, so I bumped.
any new input James?
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BlueSugar said:
Nope
Just more of the thing about BE ENTHUSIASTIC
I have had some great head lately
One lady is clearly unnerved about me coming in her mouth, so I CAN'T
But she LOVES my cock & I could hapily let her suck it for hours
2 ther ladies have lovingly drained me, which I have mentioned having issues with, but their desire made it all ok
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Safe but tasty cocksucking
Let's say someone has decided to use condoms while sucking cock. What type of condom should one use? Lubricated or unlubricated? This type or that type? I know they make flavored condoms but I've read postings in which people say not to use them. Are they safe to use? Should flavorings be used? Honey? Chocolate syrup? Basically, how does one make protected oral sex seem more enjoyable than sucking on a rubber hose?
IM
Let's say someone has decided to use condoms while sucking cock. What type of condom should one use? Lubricated or unlubricated? This type or that type? I know they make flavored condoms but I've read postings in which people say not to use them. Are they safe to use? Should flavorings be used? Honey? Chocolate syrup? Basically, how does one make protected oral sex seem more enjoyable than sucking on a rubber hose?
IM
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Re: Safe but tasty cocksucking
ick- if you must. People say don't use them not because of a saftey issue but because it is like licking a latex glove.
Unlube and flavored, ya have to find one that your partner likes. Maybe even use "goodhead" all those flavored gels that are like liquid lollipop but safe for sexual practices.
don't use flavored condoms for intercourse.
inferiormale said:
ick- if you must. People say don't use them not because of a saftey issue but because it is like licking a latex glove.
Unlube and flavored, ya have to find one that your partner likes. Maybe even use "goodhead" all those flavored gels that are like liquid lollipop but safe for sexual practices.
don't use flavored condoms for intercourse.
Help
Ok I am dating a fella... great guy but man is he thick... I have always gotten compliments on how I give head... partially because i love giving it...
with this new man he likes what I do but wants less teeth... now that I get but I wasn't using teeth I reserve some teeth for special occasions when I know the man and know he likes it.... but this guy is so thick... some teeth are inevitable... As I sucked him more last night I started analyzing my sucking... he has a great cock but I have a smaller mouth and his cock is so thick...
So tips on avoiding the teeth but still giving him oral sex that makes me beg for more!
Thank you any advice is welcome... if I could unhinge my jaw I would trust me!
Ok I am dating a fella... great guy but man is he thick... I have always gotten compliments on how I give head... partially because i love giving it...
with this new man he likes what I do but wants less teeth... now that I get but I wasn't using teeth I reserve some teeth for special occasions when I know the man and know he likes it.... but this guy is so thick... some teeth are inevitable... As I sucked him more last night I started analyzing my sucking... he has a great cock but I have a smaller mouth and his cock is so thick...
So tips on avoiding the teeth but still giving him oral sex that makes me beg for more!
Thank you any advice is welcome... if I could unhinge my jaw I would trust me!
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susieq321: My woman has a similar problem, she just happens to have a smaller mouth / I'm bigger than I think I am. What she finds to work best for her when she's worrying about grazing me with her teeth is to lick her lips and pull them back over her teeth. I don't know if you have thick enough lips for this or not, it occurs to me that a woman with thin lips may have some difficulty.
Alternative technique I've seen done (and feels fooking incredible) is laying your tongue over the bottom lip and dropping your jaw as far as you can, then sliding down. Make eye contact for bonus points. Wiggle your tongue afterwards. Always a favourite (with me at least).
Alternative technique I've seen done (and feels fooking incredible) is laying your tongue over the bottom lip and dropping your jaw as far as you can, then sliding down. Make eye contact for bonus points. Wiggle your tongue afterwards. Always a favourite (with me at least).
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I love to feel the teeth ..and always ask for it...usually I prefer to feel some pain with it..
Adoolf_Hilter
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No, cum is very healthy.
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Last night my girl was giving me dome, and she hates when I shoot it on her face, so right before I came, I pulled out and shot it on her face. I hit her in the eye and she couldn't see for a good 10 minutes. I tought I blinded her.
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Blowjobs for Beginners
So you’re new to this blowjob thing. You’ve finally found the right guy and you feel you’re ready, but suddenly you’re nervous. You don’t know what you’re doing and you don’t want to mess it up. Maybe you’ve never even seen a penis before. Many people find themselves feeling awkward and clumsy and lose confidence if things don’t turn out. This is a friendly tutorial giving you some pointers to help you feel more prepared.
First of all, a blowjob is not gross, sexually depraved, or a tool of evil. It is a wonderful, loving gift that is shared between two people for the purposes of pleasure and intimacy. Giving a blowjob does not make you dirty, skanky, or morally bankrupt.
Secondly, if you have never seen a penis before, it may seem bizarre and alien. It twitches and changes size, often without conscious input from your man. The balls are especially interesting, the skin shifting and squishing around of its own free will like a lava lamp. The penis can often seem like an entirely separate entity from your man. It is not. If you treat it harshly, you will hurt him, sometimes quite badly, whereas lavishing it with a little TLC allows your man to enjoy all the pleasure and happiness that the situation calls for.
Thirdly, be patient with yourself. You’ve never done this before; you’re bound to make mistakes. Try, try again! Find a man who will appreciate your innocence and gently guide you towards his preferences. I doubt you will ever encounter a man who is disappointed that you want to try again.
Here are a few general suggestions to keep in mind:
1. Beware the teeth!
The number one mistake that first-timers make is allowing their teeth to scrape against the shaft as they move in and out. Teeth are sharp! Especially molars. When first taking the penis into your mouth, try to hold your jaws as far apart as you can inside until you are more certain of the dimensions and the way everything fits. This can be difficult, but is definitely worth it if you can avoid scraping his tender parts! This is not to say that you should avoid all contact with teeth; as you grow more experienced, gentle nips and nibbles with the front teeth can be quite pleasing to your man and lend an air of playfulness.
2. Start out slow
You don’t want to end up tiring yourself out by rushing frantically into things. A penis can respond to the lightest of touches. Try teasing him at first with light licks and strokes. Run your hands gently over his thighs and abdomen, stimulating his skin. It builds excitement for him and you don’t burn out right away. It can also be a pretty sexy experience for you too, increasing your enjoyment.
3. Not too hard!
As mentioned earlier, you do not have to wrestle a penis to get it to respond. You don’t want your man to feel like you’re trying to pull his penis out like a stubborn dandelion! Especially in the beginning, when the penis is still soft and pliable, a gentle but firm hold is more than enough. Also, you want to be sliding the skin of the shaft up and down rather than jerking the whole thing, so you don’t have to pull very hard either. If you are sucking on it, a constant, minimal suction is the way to go, at least at first; just enough so he knows it’s there. Sucking too hard right at the beginning can have a similar effect to yanking (for him) and you may end up with a headache which spoils everyone’s fun! As things intensify, you can increase speed and suction in order to bring him to new heights, but remember to still not squeeze too hard! As the penis grows and hardens, you will no longer be able to slide the skin up and down, so make sure to keep up lots of lubrication to avoid chafing. A mixture of hand and mouth action takes care of this problem quite nicely.
4. Don’t be afraid to try new things
Since you are still getting to know your partner’s preferences and reactions, try lots of different things until you have a better idea of what works. Ask him for direction, check in with him often until you can read his reactions better. Play, investigate, try different positions and locations, different sequences of actions. Your man himself might not have even discovered all his pleasure spots and preferences. For best results, keep doing this for the duration of the relationship, it’ll only make things better!
5. Mix it up
So you’ve got the basics and you’re feeling more confident but suddenly you realize that you’ve been thinking about what to have for dinner instead of what you are doing. This is because it has become repetitive and boring! You have been doing the same lick/suck/rub routine for the last five minutes. No wonder you are no longer interested! Meanwhile, repetitive action can lead to decreased sensitivity for your man, so he’s not enjoying it as much as he could either. Time to mix it up! Try doing things in a different order, add a spontaneous flick of the tongue, (right underneath the head is nice and sensitive!) try more suction, less suction. Maybe stop for a quick make out session for a few seconds before dropping back down, or suck on the side of the shaft while your fingers massage the head. Imagine how it makes him feel when you do different things. Maybe it feels like you have five tongues when you slide your fingers around like that. Wow! How amazing must that feel! Now you are definitely devoting your full attention again and you get to enjoy his gasps of delight as you surprise him with your new tricks.
6. Look him in the eye
Depending on the position and angle, this may be difficult, but whenever possible, try to maintain eye contact. This shows your man that you are engaged and happy to be with him as an individual. It also means that you get to watch him and share his pleasure.
7. Don’t forget the balls!
While an integral part of the male anatomy, these poor little guys are easy to forget. The balls contain numerous nerve endings and can cause some powerful feelings of pleasure when stimulated. It is easy to feel afraid of hurting them, but they can withstand a surprising amount of pressure before discomfort is felt (unless you suddenly whack them for some reason!). Stroking them, cupping them in your hand, massaging them, sliding the skin around, licking them, even sucking them, are all welcome contributions to any blowjob. Also, slight pressure on the area of the skin just underneath the balls, between the legs, can be surprisingly pleasurable. Unfortunately, your man might be hairier down there than you like. Do not be afraid to ask him to keep himself clean and well kept. It is likely that he just hadn’t thought of it and will be happy to keep you happy. After all, that means more BJs for him!
8. Respond
Congratulations! You are giving your man the wonderful gift of a blowjob! He is definitely happy and aroused and you need to show that you are happy and aroused too! Aside from maintaining eye contact, smiling, giggling, moaning, gasping, humming (good vibrations!), and even dirty talk if you’re feeling saucy, are all great ways of letting your guy know that you are enjoying yourself. This helps him to know that you are doing this because you want to, not because you feel you should or because he asked you to. This makes him feel great!
9. Taking it Deep
Do not feel pressured to take his penis all the way into your mouth at first. Depending on the size of your mouth and the size of his penis, you may never be able to take it all the way in. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Someday you may feel confident enough to try, in which case, take it slow. Go a little further each time, there’s no need to rush. While you’re making your man feel good, he may get carried away and begin thrusting his hips. Don’t panic! Relax your throat as much as you can and concentrate on breathing deeply and slowly. If you find yourself gagging a lot, try clenching your free hand hard. I’m not sure why, but it really helps your throat relax. If despite your best efforts, you really can’t get the hang of it or he’s just too big for you, that’s ok. Try wrapping your moist hand around the base or middle of his penis and suck on the head. Coordinate your hand and head movements so both go in and out at the same time. This gives the impression that your mouth is much larger. Do not be afraid to drool, saliva is the best lubricant. And you definitely want a lot of lube, to avoid chafing.
10. Prepare for Ejaculation
Inevitably, there will come the moment of truth. Your man is going to cum. Don’t be afraid! It does happen suddenly, but you can ask your man to tell you when he is about to cum so he doesn’t surprise you. It will be hot and usually will also be salty, although it may also taste sweet or sour, depending on what he has eaten. (Believe it or not, it does make a difference!) You do NOT have to swallow it, despite what you may have heard. You can finish him with your hand if you wish, or if you really feel that you should keep your mouth on him until the end, you can spit it out. If you do spit it out however, it may hurt his feelings a bit and dampen his enjoyment of the blowjob. Imagine how you would feel if he sputtered and spit every time you stick your tongue in his mouth. Not that great. I recommend finishing him with your hand at first, until you gain confidence. Also, try to avoid immediately rushing to wash off your hand as though it were covered in acid. Take a few minutes to cuddle or kiss, let him know you enjoyed yourself. Maybe ask him his opinion on something new you tried.
11. Be spontaneous!
While you may be a little shy at first, as you gain confidence, don’t be afraid to randomly shove your man onto the couch and pull his pants down. Maybe surprise him in the shower or pounce on him when he gets back from work. A favourite is waking him up on a Saturday morning with a blowjob. It’s a wonderful surprise for him and definitely keeps things interesting. You also get the additional benefit of feeling crafty about giving him spontaneous presents. This shows your man that you are willing to take charge and that he doesn’t feel like he has to beg for it all the time, which is annoying for you and demoralizing for him. In short, have fun! Enjoy each other and the affection that you share, and you can look forward to many happy blowjobs in the future!
So you’re new to this blowjob thing. You’ve finally found the right guy and you feel you’re ready, but suddenly you’re nervous. You don’t know what you’re doing and you don’t want to mess it up. Maybe you’ve never even seen a penis before. Many people find themselves feeling awkward and clumsy and lose confidence if things don’t turn out. This is a friendly tutorial giving you some pointers to help you feel more prepared.
First of all, a blowjob is not gross, sexually depraved, or a tool of evil. It is a wonderful, loving gift that is shared between two people for the purposes of pleasure and intimacy. Giving a blowjob does not make you dirty, skanky, or morally bankrupt.
Secondly, if you have never seen a penis before, it may seem bizarre and alien. It twitches and changes size, often without conscious input from your man. The balls are especially interesting, the skin shifting and squishing around of its own free will like a lava lamp. The penis can often seem like an entirely separate entity from your man. It is not. If you treat it harshly, you will hurt him, sometimes quite badly, whereas lavishing it with a little TLC allows your man to enjoy all the pleasure and happiness that the situation calls for.
Thirdly, be patient with yourself. You’ve never done this before; you’re bound to make mistakes. Try, try again! Find a man who will appreciate your innocence and gently guide you towards his preferences. I doubt you will ever encounter a man who is disappointed that you want to try again.
Here are a few general suggestions to keep in mind:
1. Beware the teeth!
The number one mistake that first-timers make is allowing their teeth to scrape against the shaft as they move in and out. Teeth are sharp! Especially molars. When first taking the penis into your mouth, try to hold your jaws as far apart as you can inside until you are more certain of the dimensions and the way everything fits. This can be difficult, but is definitely worth it if you can avoid scraping his tender parts! This is not to say that you should avoid all contact with teeth; as you grow more experienced, gentle nips and nibbles with the front teeth can be quite pleasing to your man and lend an air of playfulness.
2. Start out slow
You don’t want to end up tiring yourself out by rushing frantically into things. A penis can respond to the lightest of touches. Try teasing him at first with light licks and strokes. Run your hands gently over his thighs and abdomen, stimulating his skin. It builds excitement for him and you don’t burn out right away. It can also be a pretty sexy experience for you too, increasing your enjoyment.
3. Not too hard!
As mentioned earlier, you do not have to wrestle a penis to get it to respond. You don’t want your man to feel like you’re trying to pull his penis out like a stubborn dandelion! Especially in the beginning, when the penis is still soft and pliable, a gentle but firm hold is more than enough. Also, you want to be sliding the skin of the shaft up and down rather than jerking the whole thing, so you don’t have to pull very hard either. If you are sucking on it, a constant, minimal suction is the way to go, at least at first; just enough so he knows it’s there. Sucking too hard right at the beginning can have a similar effect to yanking (for him) and you may end up with a headache which spoils everyone’s fun! As things intensify, you can increase speed and suction in order to bring him to new heights, but remember to still not squeeze too hard! As the penis grows and hardens, you will no longer be able to slide the skin up and down, so make sure to keep up lots of lubrication to avoid chafing. A mixture of hand and mouth action takes care of this problem quite nicely.
4. Don’t be afraid to try new things
Since you are still getting to know your partner’s preferences and reactions, try lots of different things until you have a better idea of what works. Ask him for direction, check in with him often until you can read his reactions better. Play, investigate, try different positions and locations, different sequences of actions. Your man himself might not have even discovered all his pleasure spots and preferences. For best results, keep doing this for the duration of the relationship, it’ll only make things better!
5. Mix it up
So you’ve got the basics and you’re feeling more confident but suddenly you realize that you’ve been thinking about what to have for dinner instead of what you are doing. This is because it has become repetitive and boring! You have been doing the same lick/suck/rub routine for the last five minutes. No wonder you are no longer interested! Meanwhile, repetitive action can lead to decreased sensitivity for your man, so he’s not enjoying it as much as he could either. Time to mix it up! Try doing things in a different order, add a spontaneous flick of the tongue, (right underneath the head is nice and sensitive!) try more suction, less suction. Maybe stop for a quick make out session for a few seconds before dropping back down, or suck on the side of the shaft while your fingers massage the head. Imagine how it makes him feel when you do different things. Maybe it feels like you have five tongues when you slide your fingers around like that. Wow! How amazing must that feel! Now you are definitely devoting your full attention again and you get to enjoy his gasps of delight as you surprise him with your new tricks.
6. Look him in the eye
Depending on the position and angle, this may be difficult, but whenever possible, try to maintain eye contact. This shows your man that you are engaged and happy to be with him as an individual. It also means that you get to watch him and share his pleasure.
7. Don’t forget the balls!
While an integral part of the male anatomy, these poor little guys are easy to forget. The balls contain numerous nerve endings and can cause some powerful feelings of pleasure when stimulated. It is easy to feel afraid of hurting them, but they can withstand a surprising amount of pressure before discomfort is felt (unless you suddenly whack them for some reason!). Stroking them, cupping them in your hand, massaging them, sliding the skin around, licking them, even sucking them, are all welcome contributions to any blowjob. Also, slight pressure on the area of the skin just underneath the balls, between the legs, can be surprisingly pleasurable. Unfortunately, your man might be hairier down there than you like. Do not be afraid to ask him to keep himself clean and well kept. It is likely that he just hadn’t thought of it and will be happy to keep you happy. After all, that means more BJs for him!
8. Respond
Congratulations! You are giving your man the wonderful gift of a blowjob! He is definitely happy and aroused and you need to show that you are happy and aroused too! Aside from maintaining eye contact, smiling, giggling, moaning, gasping, humming (good vibrations!), and even dirty talk if you’re feeling saucy, are all great ways of letting your guy know that you are enjoying yourself. This helps him to know that you are doing this because you want to, not because you feel you should or because he asked you to. This makes him feel great!
9. Taking it Deep
Do not feel pressured to take his penis all the way into your mouth at first. Depending on the size of your mouth and the size of his penis, you may never be able to take it all the way in. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Someday you may feel confident enough to try, in which case, take it slow. Go a little further each time, there’s no need to rush. While you’re making your man feel good, he may get carried away and begin thrusting his hips. Don’t panic! Relax your throat as much as you can and concentrate on breathing deeply and slowly. If you find yourself gagging a lot, try clenching your free hand hard. I’m not sure why, but it really helps your throat relax. If despite your best efforts, you really can’t get the hang of it or he’s just too big for you, that’s ok. Try wrapping your moist hand around the base or middle of his penis and suck on the head. Coordinate your hand and head movements so both go in and out at the same time. This gives the impression that your mouth is much larger. Do not be afraid to drool, saliva is the best lubricant. And you definitely want a lot of lube, to avoid chafing.
10. Prepare for Ejaculation
Inevitably, there will come the moment of truth. Your man is going to cum. Don’t be afraid! It does happen suddenly, but you can ask your man to tell you when he is about to cum so he doesn’t surprise you. It will be hot and usually will also be salty, although it may also taste sweet or sour, depending on what he has eaten. (Believe it or not, it does make a difference!) You do NOT have to swallow it, despite what you may have heard. You can finish him with your hand if you wish, or if you really feel that you should keep your mouth on him until the end, you can spit it out. If you do spit it out however, it may hurt his feelings a bit and dampen his enjoyment of the blowjob. Imagine how you would feel if he sputtered and spit every time you stick your tongue in his mouth. Not that great. I recommend finishing him with your hand at first, until you gain confidence. Also, try to avoid immediately rushing to wash off your hand as though it were covered in acid. Take a few minutes to cuddle or kiss, let him know you enjoyed yourself. Maybe ask him his opinion on something new you tried.
11. Be spontaneous!
While you may be a little shy at first, as you gain confidence, don’t be afraid to randomly shove your man onto the couch and pull his pants down. Maybe surprise him in the shower or pounce on him when he gets back from work. A favourite is waking him up on a Saturday morning with a blowjob. It’s a wonderful surprise for him and definitely keeps things interesting. You also get the additional benefit of feeling crafty about giving him spontaneous presents. This shows your man that you are willing to take charge and that he doesn’t feel like he has to beg for it all the time, which is annoying for you and demoralizing for him. In short, have fun! Enjoy each other and the affection that you share, and you can look forward to many happy blowjobs in the future!
