Cocksucking 101

[Gods_Favorite]

This is a pretty good thread, and since its written by a guy, I have a question, is it true men give better head than women? I've heard that from alot of people, and I've always fantasized about letting a gay man suck my cock.

 

[Quint]

I don't think gender makes a damned bit of difference. Both men and women have gone down on me, and if they don't listen and pay attention to the ways that my body responds, it's not going to respond, regardless of whose tongue is behind it. The thought that "they can please you better since they know how it feels for them" just hasn't held true in my case. The women that went down on me were nothing like me physically; the same techniques that made them come did nothing for me. I can't think it would be any different for males.

 

[Queersetti]

This is a pretty good thread, and since its written by a guy, I have a question, is it true men give better head than women? I've heard that from alot of people, and I've always fantasized about letting a gay man suck my cock.

Well, that's at least one question on the subject I can't really answer!

 

[ASP4ST]

Queersetti

Cocksucking......
If you're not going to swallow every last delicious drop.....why bother...

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[PinkOrchid]

Re: Queersetti

 

[Rubyfruit]

Some people object to having the dick slapped against their face. Personally, I'm all for it, but some will feel demeaned by it.

i just love that.....i wish more men tested the waters with things like this. not hard to see the reaction if you're watching.

great thread, Mr. Q.

i've always wondered if the inside (closest to the body)of the cock, or the outside is more sensitive. any consensus?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[warrior queen]

i find one of the pre-requisites for deepthroating my guy is that i have to be really turned on.
if i'm not, then i have a huge amount of trouble with the gag reflex.
but if i am turned on big time - then i can suck him all the way in and have no trouble going in, then all the way out, and then right back in again, over and over, as much as he wants.
and i've found that if i 'swallow' just when the head of his dick is at that point in my throat, then he gets a wonderful feeling of 'grip'......

 

[warrior queen]

i've also found that since i've had my tongue pierced, the world of great cocksucking has just been improved!
he loves it when i rub the ball of my tongue bar over and around the head of his cock, and slide it slowly up and down the slit in his cock-head........

 

[Rubyfruit]

I think men are all different, but mostly I've found it's the outside, right along that beautiful throbbing vein that runs down it. Yum.

Damn. I don't need to be thinking about this right now......

thanks and yes, i know exactly how you feel, ms. orchid.

can we talk about face fucking for a minute? i really love this, but the fucker needs to know how to do it. please don't pull the fuckee's head down onto your cock, but rather, hold the fuckee's head steady as you thrust your cock into his or her mouth.

this is what works best for me anyway. how about you all?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[shescurious]

I find that for guys that are open to it slipping a finger in their ass while sucking his cock is pleasurable.

I am still trying to get over the swallowing thing as well. One day I suppose...

 

[Quint]

Ruby,

What's your preferred position for facefucking? If I'm feeling really claustrophobic it's easier for him to be laying down and holding my head above him (and yes, I agree that it has to be his movement, not mine), but what gets me the hottest is being pinned between his body and the bed. Straddling my chest and giving me no escape. It's much harder to take that way but it's ever so enjoyable--and leaves the pleasant option of shooting all over my face.

 

[FastFastr]

Anyone giving free samples of technique??

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Queersetti]

Re: Queersetti

Cocksucking......
If you're not going to swallow every last delicious drop.....why bother...

Well, I feel that way myself, but it can be a daunting attitude to put before beginners, and I wouldn't want to scare anyone away!

 

[Queersetti]

I think men are all different, but mostly I've found it's the outside, right along that beautiful throbbing vein that runs down it. Yum.

Damn. I don't need to be thinking about this right now......

That seems to be almost universally true. On most men, the single most sensitive spot is on the underside where that vein meets the rim of the head. The head itself is usually more sensitive than the shaft. And one area that is often overlooked is the outside of the rim, which can be very sensitive, and is practically designed to match up with the tip of the tongue.

 

[Queersetti]

thanks and yes, i know exactly how you feel, ms. orchid.

can we talk about face fucking for a minute? i really love this, but the fucker needs to know how to do it. please don't pull the fuckee's head down onto your cock, but rather, hold the fuckee's head steady as you thrust your cock into his or her mouth.

this is what works best for me anyway. how about you all?

I agree. And once more, I want to emphasize to those getting sucked, get active, don't just lie there! Move those hips, even if only a wiggle.

Here's the thing with face fucking. Sometimes the sucker wants to feel that they are orchestrating the whole affair, sometimes they want that feeling of being taken. If you are getting sucked, please try to be aware of the suckers mood.
If you are moving your cock, the sucker has the option of going with being face fucked , or pulling away from it. If you grab their head hard enough to move it, they don't have any control and are likely to feel anxious. Anxiety creates stress, stress creates a tightening in the throat, and then you have defeated your own purpose, haven't you?

 

[Queersetti]

thanks and yes, i know exactly how you feel, ms. orchid.

can we talk about face fucking for a minute? i really love this, but the fucker needs to know how to do it. please don't pull the fuckee's head down onto your cock, but rather, hold the fuckee's head steady as you thrust your cock into his or her mouth.

this is what works best for me anyway. how about you all?

I agree. And once more, I want to emphasize to those getting sucked, get active, don't just lie there! Move those hips, even if only a wiggle.

Here's the thing with face fucking. Sometimes the sucker wants to feel that they are orchestrating the whole affair, sometimes they want that feeling of being taken. If you are getting sucked, please try to be aware of the suckers mood.
If you are moving your cock, the sucker has the option of going with being face fucked , or pulling away from it. If you grab their head hard enough to move it, they don't have any control and are likely to feel anxious. Anxiety creates stress, stress creates a tightening in the throat, and then you have defeated your own purpose, haven't you?

 

[Queersetti]

Ruby,

What's your preferred position for facefucking? If I'm feeling really claustrophobic it's easier for him to be laying down and holding my head above him (and yes, I agree that it has to be his movement, not mine), but what gets me the hottest is being pinned between his body and the bed. Straddling my chest and giving me no escape. It's much harder to take that way but it's ever so enjoyable--and leaves the pleasant option of shooting all over my face.

Another good position for novice facefuckers is to sit or kneel in front of your standing partner. That allows him to move freely, and you can still pull back easily if it becomes too much for you.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I'm one of those chicks that likes cocksucking alittle too much

 

[likaway]

lovin it

The girl that talked about her guy jackin off for her hit it on the head! I think it's the coolest to see him stroking himself. And he loves it too. At first I thought I was lacking in appeal or something, but learned that he just likes to jack off sometimes and not have intercourse or blowjobs. He loves me to give him a handjob, but I get him going quicker if we talk about it as a jack off thing. And I do love it when I'm below him and he jacks off on my clit or my mouth. He just strokeks harder and harder and when he's close to blowing his load he slows down tso it hits my open mouth. I do him the same when I jack him off. And I think it's just as sexy for me when I jsut sit bascvk and watch him jack off! After all, he likes it when I rub my cunt for him. Turnabout is fair play. Love Lisa

 

[likaway]

lovin it

The girl that talked about her guy jackin off for her hit it on the head! I think it's the coolest to see him stroking himself. And he loves it too. At first I thought I was lacking in appeal or something, but learned that he just likes to jack off sometimes and not have intercourse or blowjobs. He loves me to give him a handjob, but I get him going quicker if we talk about it as a jack off thing. And I do love it when I'm below him and he jacks off on my clit or my mouth. He just strokeks harder and harder and when he's close to blowing his load he slows down tso it hits my open mouth. I do him the same when I jack him off. And I think it's just as sexy for me when I jsut sit bascvk and watch him jack off! After all, he likes it when I rub my cunt for him. Turnabout is fair play. Love Lisa:

 

[likaway]

mea coupa

I hate double posts......I'm sorry!!!