Cocksuckers ... can a 'straight' man like sucking cock

[jimmyturtleman]

For years there has been much debate here and elsewhere about 'straight' men sucking cock. There are several schools of thought, where the phrase "straight cocksucker" is an oxymoron.

For most of my life, I considered myself as a heterosexual with some kinks that included wife sharing (fantasy only). In the past several years I became what most consider a bi-curious individual. I was looking far too long at photos of cock and thinking ,"What if?"

A little over a year ago, I took the plunge and met a guy for mutual blow jobs. Strictly, by the book, a bi-sexual activity, since I still enjoy sex with my wife.

My questions are:

Can a straight man, like sucking cock?

Does it instantly make him bi-sexual, if he still enjoys women?

Does the proviso ' I am not interested in the man, just the cock', release him from any label of bi-sexual or gay?

How many 'straight cocksuckers' consider themselves as tops, and how many identify as bottoms, or versatile?

Just wondering how the straight guys, who love cock think. I reluctantly accept the bi-sexual label, if I must. I will say that I didn't quit sucking cock after my first foray, and will admit that I do crave cock as much as I do pussy now. I like for my man to man sessions to include both of us being satisfied. I identify as neither top nor bottom. I will get on my knees and suck my buddy as he holds my head and calls me a cocksucker, then I will stand over him and call him a cocksucker as he blows me.

Just wondering what everyone thinks.

 

[herrdrier]

For years there has been much debate here and elsewhere about 'straight' men sucking cock. There are several schools of thought, where the phrase "straight cocksucker" is an oxymoron.

For most of my life, I considered myself as a heterosexual with some kinks that included wife sharing (fantasy only). In the past several years I became what most consider a bi-curious individual. I was looking far too long at photos of cock and thinking ,"What if?"

A little over a year ago, I took the plunge and met a guy for mutual blow jobs. Strictly, by the book, a bi-sexual activity, since I still enjoy sex with my wife.

My questions are:

Can a straight man, like sucking cock?

Does it instantly make him bi-sexual, if he still enjoys women?

Does the proviso ' I am not interested in the man, just the cock', release him from any label of bi-sexual or gay?

How many 'straight cocksuckers' consider themselves as tops, and how many identify as bottoms, or versatile?

Just wondering how the straight guys, who love cock think. I reluctantly accept the bi-sexual label, if I must. I will say that I didn't quit sucking cock after my first foray, and will admit that I do crave cock as much as I do pussy now. I like for my man to man sessions to include both of us being satisfied. I identify as neither top nor bottom. I will get on my knees and suck my buddy as he holds my head and calls me a cocksucker, then I will stand over him and call him a cocksucker as he blows me.

Just wondering what everyone thinks.

I'm not sure you understand what a top or bottom is, it doesn't relate to standing or kneeling for oral.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I'm not sure you understand what a top or bottom is, it doesn't relate to standing or kneeling for oral.

I fully understand what a top and a bottom are. Perhaps, you didn't understand my questions. Each is a separate inquisitive query, not to be read as one big question.

 

[Frank1540]

For years there has been much debate here and elsewhere about 'straight' men sucking cock. There are several schools of thought, where the phrase "straight cocksucker" is an oxymoron.

For most of my life, I considered myself as a heterosexual with some kinks that included wife sharing (fantasy only). In the past several years I became what most consider a bi-curious individual. I was looking far too long at photos of cock and thinking ,"What if?"

A little over a year ago, I took the plunge and met a guy for mutual blow jobs. Strictly, by the book, a bi-sexual activity, since I still enjoy sex with my wife.

My questions are:

Can a straight man, like sucking cock?

Does it instantly make him bi-sexual, if he still enjoys women?

Does the proviso ' I am not interested in the man, just the cock', release him from any label of bi-sexual or gay?

How many 'straight cocksuckers' consider themselves as tops, and how many identify as bottoms, or versatile?

Just wondering how the straight guys, who love cock think. I reluctantly accept the bi-sexual label, if I must. I will say that I didn't quit sucking cock after my first foray, and will admit that I do crave cock as much as I do pussy now. I like for my man to man sessions to include both of us being satisfied. I identify as neither top nor bottom. I will get on my knees and suck my buddy as he holds my head and calls me a cocksucker, then I will stand over him and call him a cocksucker as he blows me.

Just wondering what everyone thinks.

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Guess you could call me bisexual. When I was young I made love to another guy for about a year. I really enjoyed sucking cock and getting sucked.
Then he fucked my ass and it hurt ... at first. But he did a reach-around while his dick was in my ass and I came like gangbusters!!!
When I'm in the shower I finger fuck my ass while masturbating ... good stuff.

I've had women diddle my ass to get me hard and or harder ... it always makes me cum extra hard.
For my money gay/bisexual is good stuff.
Just remembering all this makes me want to suck cock again!!

 

[Y_Diner]

My own definition is that if you liked sucking a cock, you DEFINITELY are not straight!

But Staci, in a previous iteration of this topic, said it best: Labels are for soup cans.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

My own definition is that if you liked sucking a cock, you DEFINITELY are not straight!

But Staci, in a previous iteration of this topic, said it best: Labels are for soup cans.

I couldn't agree with you more. I did say that I 'reluctantly' would accept the label of bi-sexual. I consider myself a male who enjoys the pleasures of women and men.

 

[Stacy_TG]

My own definition is that if you liked sucking a cock, you DEFINITELY are not straight!

But Staci, in a previous iteration of this topic, said it best: Labels are for soup cans.

Indeed I did.

Labels ARE for soup cans. If you enjoy something, why apply an arbitrary society construct label to define who you are.

Be safe and own who you are and what you enjoy.

*hugs*

 

[Frank1540]

Indeed I did.

Labels ARE for soup cans. If you enjoy something, why apply an arbitrary society construct label to define who you are.

Be safe and own who you are and what you enjoy.

*hugs*

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TOUCHE'!!

 

[jackstud]

Stacy your mouth gets me stiff

 

[KirstySissyCumslut]

I truly don't care what anyone calls me. If they are comfortable with describing me as gay, homosexual or anything else then I am happy with that. I am sure though that I am missing one trait that it's pretty fair to attribute to a homosexual male person, and that is being attracted to men. Life would be much easier if I was. As it is, my fantasies of sexual acts involving men's body parts will probably remain fantasies, because in real life they tend to come with a face and the rest of the body too!

To illustrate another way, I can watch a feminised male sucking cock very happily and often. I just cannot enjoy seeing an obviously male mouth sucking on a cock, especially if facial hair or anything that I am really not fond of comes into it.

 

[pcarp]

For years I sucked cock at my g/f's urging..and only with her. We played exclusively with an old friend of hers and she and I were the only ones sucking cock, he never did. So, for years I told myself I was just submissive, not bisexual. After she moved away, he called one day and asked if I was still willing to suck his cock. Until that call I hadn't given it much thought but realized that I had enjoyed having his dick in my mouth so I said yes. I date women, and suck his cock.
Like others I think labels are ridiculous but if I have to use one, I just call myself "orally bi". He just calls me his own personal cocksucker.

 

[blowit]

For years I sucked cock at my g/f's urging..and only with her. We played exclusively with an old friend of hers and she and I were the only ones sucking cock, he never did. So, for years I told myself I was just submissive, not bisexual. After she moved away, he called one day and asked if I was still willing to suck his cock. Until that call I hadn't given it much thought but realized that I had enjoyed having his dick in my mouth so I said yes. I date women, and suck his cock.
Like others I think labels are ridiculous but if I have to use one, I just call myself "orally bi". He just calls me his own personal cocksucker.

Nice.

 

[haurni]

We can talk about romantic orientation vs sexual orientation, and how sometimes people engage in behaviours inconsistent with their identified orientation (e.g. having MM sex in cases where one is in the company of other men exclusively for long periods of time but still identifies as straight) but, as far as I'm concerned, if you suck cock and like it then you're at least somewhat bisexual.

Still, as others have said, what does it really matter? The only reason the label could make a difference to you in your own mind is if you're a homophobe and/or you think it somehow compromises your masculinity, in which case you're the one with the problem and you need to take a look at your attitudes.

 

[Andrealikessex]

I am a woman, and I will speak to this, if y'all don't mind.

Ok, so you asked if you sucked cock and you identify as straight. Well I would think that would depend on whether you liked it or not and plan on doing it again. If you liked it and plan on doing it again, technically that would classify you as bisexual, in my opinion at least. If you hated it and never plan on it again, then I guess you could probably classify yourself as 100 percent confirmed straight.

But really, who cares about labels. My husband is a masculine man, who works out, rides a harley, drinks beer, likes to go to the Gentlemens Club, go fishing, but he also likes to suck cock, wears a thong in the pool, and at our beach house in Miami, likes when I fuck him with my strap on.

So I do not question his masculinity, nor does he.

 

[Stacy_TG]

So many wonderful and truthful responses to this thread! Remember, all of these labels, whether they be straight, bi, lesbian, gay pansexual, the list goes on and on, are simply that. Labels. WE define who and what we are NOT society.

If you are true to yourself, and you are with who you love, then labels are completely arbitrary. As Andrea pointed out, her and her husband having a wonderful loving relationship, so who is anyone to question or label them, themselves or anyone else?

In my opinion we are are all beautiful "luminous" beings and any perceived hangups are simply leftovers from insecurities that arbitrary societal programming has incorrectly led us to believe.

If you believe that you are gay, then you are. If you believe you are straight, then so be it. Sexuality is a spectrum. Just make sure you love yourself. That's all that matters in the end.

 

[Y_Diner]

...Just make sure you love yourself. That's all that matters in the end.

I love your brain!

 

[Stacy_TG]

I love your brain!

Awww, thank you!

 

[44special]

I think that anyone can like anything. It seems to me that a lot of people are so obsessed with labels for themselves.

 

[dacoach44]

I am much the same way; love to date sissies, suck and fuck them, but am not gay.

 

[suckonsimon]

So here's me, happily married, monogamous, loads of sex, and ...

There is a sense of envy I have about the pleasure my wife has in sucking cock. Now, of course, it's an immense pleasure for me, especially seeing her so totally immersed in the lusciousness of it, her hands, eyes, mouth so ... adoring.

And, yes, I reckon I'd adore that too! Given a handsome cock on a fit guy who I liked and admired. Yeah it would work very pleasurably indeed I'm sure.

Whatever 'label' that might give me ... is of no interest to me really.

 

[AlterMoose]

So many wonderful and truthful responses to this thread! Remember, all of these labels, whether they be straight, bi, lesbian, gay pansexual, the list goes on and on, are simply that. Labels. WE define who and what we are NOT society.

If you are true to yourself, and you are with who you love, then labels are completely arbitrary. As Andrea pointed out, her and her husband having a wonderful loving relationship, so who is anyone to question or label them, themselves or anyone else?

In my opinion we are are all beautiful "luminous" beings and any perceived hangups are simply leftovers from insecurities that arbitrary societal programming has incorrectly led us to believe.

If you believe that you are gay, then you are. If you believe you are straight, then so be it. Sexuality is a spectrum. Just make sure you love yourself. That's all that matters in the end.

How could anyone not love Stacy? Equally sexy and wise, entirely beautiful within, without, and throughout!

 

[Stacy_TG]

How could anyone not love Stacy? Equally sexy and wise, entirely beautiful within, without, and throughout!

Thank you so much, sweetheart! That's one of the nicest things anyone has ever said about me!!!

*hugs*

 

[AnnieBonneau]

I don't like labels either but whether you are male or female and have sexual urges involving the same sex, I don't think one can consider themselves as straight. I also think that for many if not most of us, sexually urges have a lot to do with circumstance. Men and women who never had same sex desires before, if incarcerated and hetero sex is unavailable can develop those same sex urges.

 

[goud21]

So, I definitely fall into the "I love the cock not the man" category and while not out about it, I'd consider myself orally bi. For me, I have no interest in kissing, cuddling, body contact, anal play, or anything like that with another guy. I also don't find myself checking out men when I'm out in public the same way I check out women. I can tell when others would consider a man to be attractive, but to me I'm not really that interested in how the guy looks, I just like a nice hard cock. I also won't turn down a blow job or hand job from a man.

I also agree with a lot of other posters here. I don't really care about labels, but if I had to label things, it would be very difficult for me to call myself straight when I know I love to suck on a nice hard cock and swallow a hot load of cum just as much as I love to have sex with women

 

[Needingbackdoor]

For years there has been much debate here and elsewhere about 'straight' men sucking cock. There are several schools of thought, where the phrase "straight cocksucker" is an oxymoron.

For most of my life, I considered myself as a heterosexual with some kinks that included wife sharing (fantasy only). In the past several years I became what most consider a bi-curious individual. I was looking far too long at photos of cock and thinking ,"What if?"

A little over a year ago, I took the plunge and met a guy for mutual blow jobs. Strictly, by the book, a bi-sexual activity, since I still enjoy sex with my wife.

My questions are:

Can a straight man, like sucking cock?

Does it instantly make him bi-sexual, if he still enjoys women?

Does the proviso ' I am not interested in the man, just the cock', release him from any label of bi-sexual or gay?

How many 'straight cocksuckers' consider themselves as tops, and how many identify as bottoms, or versatile?

Just wondering how the straight guys, who love cock think. I reluctantly accept the bi-sexual label, if I must. I will say that I didn't quit sucking cock after my first foray, and will admit that I do crave cock as much as I do pussy now. I like for my man to man sessions to include both of us being satisfied. I identify as neither top nor bottom. I will get on my knees and suck my buddy as he holds my head and calls me a cocksucker, then I will stand over him and call him a cocksucker as he blows me.

Just wondering what everyone thinks.

I am a married and bi-sexual man who loves taking it in the mouth and up the ass. I am not bi I am a cocksucking whore