Cock Size = Personality Type

irishblade

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This is my landmark 2000th post so I figured I’d start a discussion! (And yes, for as long as I’ve been here, only having 2000 is embarrassing. Lol)

Anyway, do you ladies and gentlemen see any correlation between cock size and personality type? For instance, do all or most type A personalities have big dicks? And vice versa. Do most submissive men’s cocks sit on top of their balls?

I’ve always wondered but rarely have seen another dick in person so figured I’d ask you misfits 😘
 
I can only speak for myself. In my “public” life, I dress quite masculine. I have an athletic build, am tall, and worked in a profession where I needed to be in charge and in control. So I would say my public persona was Alpha.

However, I have worn panties 24/7/365 most of my adult life. I start each day by kissing my wife’s ass. She manages my orgasms. I do most of the domestic chores in one of my frilly aprons. I crave and need female authority. I am nearly four inches fully erect.
 
I don't think it's a consistent correlation. And something that would be kinda hard to study because personality is such a malleable and fluid thing.

Speaking for myself, at larger end of average length and pretty large girth, I very much have a type B personality. I just have a laid back personality and don't have that same competitive drive some people do, but that doesn't mean I don't have confidence or anything.

That being said, I think guys that wrap their identity up in their penis size can probably trend one way or the other personality-wise. Guys that obsess about their big penis tend to be, well, dicks it seems. Which being a dick and being Type A are 2 different things, but you get the point. Conversely, I think guys that obsess over a small penis tend to go to the opposite side of the spectrum as far as confidence and things like that.

Which all comes to... guys shouldn't wrap themselves up in the size of their member.
 
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I tend to hold that assertive male personalities have little willies, but then I am quite fond of the compensation theory. I'm on the large side when it comes to the cock department, but I am not at all sure how that influences my personality. In general, I am a mix of an easy-going attitude with personality that likes to quietly dominate a situation. I'm chatty, but not noisy. I tend to dress conservatively - jacket, shirt and tie - are normal for me, and dislike scruffiness unless it is warranted by something like shoveling a drain out. I am somewhat domesticated, and cultured in the sense being interested in literature, art, history, classical music, etc. That said, when I was in my 20s an older bloke told me that most young women were nervous of me because they worried about me putting them through the headboard!

Go figure...
 
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My dick is average, but my personality is... Not.

I would say no correlation it it is fun to give the pinky salute to the terrible, aggressive drivers.
 
I can only speak for myself. In my “public” life, I dress quite masculine. I have an athletic build, am tall, and worked in a profession where I needed to be in charge and in control. So I would say my public persona was Alpha.

However, I have worn panties 24/7/365 most of my adult life. I start each day by kissing my wife’s ass. She manages my orgasms. I do most of the domestic chores in one of my frilly aprons. I crave and need female authority. I am nearly four inches fully erect.
I crave to see a man like you with a four inch cock take my wife and penetrate her. 🤩
 
I crave to see a man like you with a four inch cock take my wife and penetrate her. 🤩
Wow! Would be great for me since my wife does not allow me penetration with it any more. In our FLR, I provide her orgasms with her vibrator and oral worship. I haven’t been allowed to fuck like a man for years.
 
My cock is 7.5”, decent girth and gets very erect. I a confident man in my sexuality and seemingly attractive to others. I’m laid back but serious too. Lol. Love sex and erotica Sam lucky to have a lovely natural wife. Would love to explore her with another man and possibly a woman though she is not as interested in them. I think most cock sizes are sexy as long as the man is happy with himself. Cheers 🥂
 
Wow! Would be great for me since my wife does not allow me penetration with it any more. In our FLR, I provide her orgasms with her vibrator and oral worship. I haven’t been allowed to fuck like a man for years.
Wish we could help you out with that! Would love to see your orally worship her as well!! ❤️
 
I don't think there's much of a correlation between cock size and personality type. I've always been a type B personality; although not passive. I've also always been determined. In the corporate world and in the military I found I prefer to work behind the scenes to get things done
Even in high school I was a bit of a jock and in the army I was a PT stud. However, I've always been modest and a bit shy. I got along with jocks but I was never that outgoing, slapping guys on the back while flirting with all the girls kind of personality. That's not to say I didn't have girlfriends in high school & college. I did.
When my wife & I were dating, the first time she saw my dick, she said, 'Shit!, That's big. I think I'm gonna' need a beer before I take that one.'
Actually, I was never porn star large, just 7.5 to 8 inches and thick in circumference. Her response was probably based more on her previous experience.
Back to my point, I guess I was larger than average. Yet I was always still a type B personality.
You realize of course that 7.5 to 8 inches puts you in the 99th percentile of cocks? The average cock is 5 3/4 inches hard and all these guys with 7 and 8 inch cocks are going on about they are just average. Fucking nonsense!
 
You realize of course that 7.5 to 8 inches puts you in the 99th percentile of cocks? The average cock is 5 3/4 inches hard and all these guys with 7 and 8 inch cocks are going on about they are just average. Fucking nonsense!
Porn definitely skews perception. I assumed I was average if not a little small for years. I'd also never considered girth (which is where I actually am noticably large) because typically all that gets talked about is length, be it porn or otherwise.
 
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You realize of course that 7.5 to 8 inches puts you in the 99th percentile of cocks? The average cock is 5 3/4 inches hard and all these guys with 7 and 8 inch cocks are going on about they are just average. Fucking nonsense!

Based on Lit posts, it's clear a lot of people don't know what 8 inches looks like or how statistically unlikely it is. Yet half the men have it and most of the women have encountered one. Bless their hearts.
 
You realize of course that 7.5 to 8 inches puts you in the 99th percentile of cocks? The average cock is 5 3/4 inches hard and all these guys with 7 and 8 inch cocks are going on about they are just average. Fucking nonsense!
It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution
You realize of course that 7.5 to 8 inches puts you in the 99th percentile of cocks? The average cock is 5 3/4 inches hard and all these guys with 7 and 8 inch cocks are going on about they are just average. Fucking nonsense!
It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution, at least from my experience. The smallest I have had is 5 inches. I have had several that are 6 inches or greater. I suspect the median (not average size) is greater than 5 3/4.
 
Based on Lit posts, it's clear a lot of people don't know what 8 inches looks like or how statistically unlikely it is. Yet half the men have it and most of the women have encountered one. Bless their hearts.
Well put. 😆 Ya, my favorite was the guy who claimed/claims (dunno if he still does) 12 inches, and said it was 4 inches across. Then when I called him out on the girth, he said he meant around so still really thick. To which I pointed out that was noticably below average, and he stopped posting about it. I got a solid laugh out of it.

I get it, it's a sex forum. People want to role play and all, I just think it's silly to do it outside of actually role-playing.
 
It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution

It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution, at least from my experience. The smallest I have had is 5 inches. I have had several that are 6 inches or greater. I suspect the median (not average size) is greater than 5 3/4.
You may be correct, but I don't think the median would be more than a fraction of an inch off on the whole.

One of the questions is size in men as a whole vs sexually active men. The latter may skew a bit larger.
 
It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution

It would be interesting to see the distribution of sizes. I don’t think it is a normal distribution, at least from my experience. The smallest I have had is 5 inches. I have had several that are 6 inches or greater. I suspect the median (not average size) is greater than 5 3/4.
You are mistaken. Please read this article:
https://www.science.org/content/article/how-big-average-penis
 
I'm masculine in real life with both looks and personality.
Size wise I'm below average in both length and girth which makes me the complete opposite behind closed doors.
 
I'm masculine in real life with both looks and personality.
Size wise I'm below average in both length and girth which makes me the complete opposite behind closed doors.

I think this brings up a good point, that who a person is in their day to day life can be very different from who they are sexually.

My wife as an example, she's very Type A with work. Driven, super organized, etc.. In the bedroom, she prefers to be very submissive. For her, it's an escape from how she feels she needs to be publicly.
 
I think this brings up a good point, that who a person is in their day to day life can be very different from who they are sexually.

My wife as an example, she's very Type A with work. Driven, super organized, etc.. In the bedroom, she prefers to be very submissive. For her, it's an escape from how she feels she needs to be publicly.
This is probably true more often than not. My girlfriend and I have a complete role reversal in bed.
 
I don’t think that cock size is significantly correlated with a person’s personality. However, I do believe that there might be a connection between penis size, and how one holds himself in front of others. There’s a significant difference between a person’s personality and how one holds himself before others. I would be willing to say that males with larger cocks might hold themselves with more confidence amongst others than men who are not so well endowed.
 
I don’t think that cock size is significantly correlated with a person’s personality. However, I do believe that there might be a connection between penis size, and how one holds himself in front of others. There’s a significant difference between a person’s personality and how one holds himself before others. I would be willing to say that males with larger cocks might hold themselves with more confidence amongst others than men who are not so well endowed.
You may be right.

It’s a funny thing though. In my experience in locker rooms, some guys who were hung were also bashful and would walk around with towels around their waists.

Not me. I would always parade around completely naked flaunting my average sized cock 😝
 
OK. Beats the heck out of me. I never thought I was big or it was anything special. It was always just my dick. I never had a big ego because of it which is good because it is not nearly like it was. Age and old age meds will do that too you.
Normalcy bias. In my case, also being 6'5" with a large frame doesn't help with perception either.
 
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