Cock Rings....

[Mr.L.J.M]

im curious about them...

my girl and i recently spiced up our bedroom fun by purchasing her a vibrator. now we want to get a toy for me? cock ring seemedlike the most obvious answer...so i was just curious...

how do they work? are they good fun? i heard you can wear them during the day under your clothes for extra fun... true?

any advice?

cheers guys

 

[herecomestherain]

I don't have a lot personal experience with cock rings but my friends freddy and eddy at freddyandeddy.com swear by them as do half of the guys who post on the message boards there, you might like the "how to" on cock rings -- I think there may even be a demo on how to put one somewhere amongst the info.

http://www.freddyandeddy.com/howto/howusecockring.htm

 

[phoenix1224]

how do they work?

They slow the blood flow back out of the penis so that you stay harder longer.

are they good fun?

I personally think that they're just OK... No big thrill.

i heard you can wear them during the day under your clothes for extra fun... true?

NO! You DO NOT want to wear a cock ring for more than about 45 minutes at a time... If you wear it much longer than that, you can cause some SERIOUS damage... If you wear it for a WHOLE DAY, you can wind up with gangrene... Which means that the doc might have to amputate...

any advice?

I suggest that you ONLY use a cock ring if you have erection problems... Otherwise, there's really no need for one.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I dont know how open you would be to this, but look into getting an anal toy for yourself. I know many guys will swear up and down that it's a horrible idea and there will never be anything put in their ass. I especially recommend considering it if you've ever had your prostate massaged from the outside and enjoyed that. From what I've heard from some of the men that allowed me into their ass like that, the sensation is like a gazillion times better when it's getting massaged from the inside (more directly).

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

They slow the blood flow back out of the penis so that you stay harder longer.


I personally think that they're just OK... No big thrill.


NO! You DO NOT want to wear a cock ring for more than about 45 minutes at a time... If you wear it much longer than that, you can cause some SERIOUS damage... If you wear it for a WHOLE DAY, you can wind up with gangrene... Which means that the doc might have to amputate...


I suggest that you ONLY use a cock ring if you have erection problems... Otherwise, there's really no need for one.

wow, thank you so much for your advice..... you definalty blew a couple of myths right out of the water for me.

 

[Cordae]

if you've ever had your prostate massaged from the outside and enjoyed that

how the heck do ya do that?!? ..... may be something to try

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

I dont know how open you would be to this, but look into getting an anal toy for yourself. I know many guys will swear up and down that it's a horrible idea and there will never be anything put in their ass. I especially recommend considering it if you've ever had your prostate massaged from the outside and enjoyed that. From what I've heard from some of the men that allowed me into their ass like that, the sensation is like a gazillion times better when it's getting massaged from the inside (more directly).

yeah i have considered it. i do want to get myself a toy, however i feel like there is a somewhat limited market out there for men. anal toys could be interesting... i am open and willing to try new things.. what are other toys out there for the boys???

 

[Willing and Unsure]

how the heck do ya do that?!? ..... may be something to try

the prostate is a little thing that's located between the balls and the ass hole on a guy. you just rub it and apply some pressure to it and every man I know that's had it done enjoys it to no end.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

yeah i have considered it. i do want to get myself a toy, however i feel like there is a somewhat limited market out there for men. anal toys could be interesting... i am open and willing to try new things.. what are other toys out there for the boys???

take a look on different toy websites. I'd recommend Adam & Eve for a wide variety of stuff to look at.

 

[angelicminx]

im curious about them...

my girl and i recently spiced up our bedroom fun by purchasing her a vibrator. now we want to get a toy for me? cock ring seemedlike the most obvious answer...so i was just curious...

how do they work? are they good fun? i heard you can wear them during the day under your clothes for extra fun... true?

any advice?

cheers guys

Personally, I like the cock ring on occasion. It applies extra clitoral stimulation while I'm on top (my favorite place to be).

For the ones made out of silicone... LUBRICATE!

No, not true. Dangerous (as already stated within this thread)

I agree with the anal toys. My husband won't agree to them yet, but he has allowed a single finger. Progress, lol. I've been told by several men that "massaging the prostate" from the inside increases the man's orgasm tenfold.

Pleasure sleeves are fun. Especially the ones you can see through. Giving a blowjob while using a pleasure sleeve is rather interesting. Must lubricate... can't stress that enough.

Adam and Eve is a wonderful site. Check it out.

 

[iansearchof]

the prostate is a little thing that's located between the balls and the ass hole on a guy. you just rub it and apply some pressure to it and every man I know that's had it done enjoys it to no end.

Sorry, Love, that's "taint" (needs apostrophe) as in taint one or the other. The prostate can be reached only thru the rectum. It does feel lovely being stroked there--either location, actually. If memory of basic biology serves that's the vas deferens [too tired to look it up, but it's one of them]. With your finger there you can actually feel him coming (I'm told)--old prostitute's trick to avoid attempts at second helpings.

DO NOT MESS AROUND WITH COCK RINGS WITHOUT CONSULTING AT LEAST AN INTERNIST AND PREFERABLY A UROLOGIST!!!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Sorry, Love, that's "taint" (needs apostrophe) as in taint one or the other. The prostate can be reached only thru the rectum. It does feel lovely being stroked there--either location, actually. If memory of basic biology serves that's the vas deferens [too tired to look it up, but it's one of them]. With your finger there you can actually feel him coming (I'm told)--old prostitute's trick to avoid attempts at second helpings.

actually you can massage the prostate gently from the outside. I've done it. It's not an easy thing to find when you first go to do it, but you can. Just like you can have one finger inside on it while one is on the out and pretty much just rolling it between your fingers just enough for him to get extreme sensations from it.

 

[iansearchof]

There certainly is something there. I don't care sufficiently to look it up, so I'll defer to you and fall back upon "if memory serves" and the coda, "as so often it does not."

It's a delight knowing of your experience. Thanks.

 

[A-Heart-On]

Something else fun

Having tried cock rings I'd have to say they weren't as fun or visual as a nice leather harness for your cock and balls. Check out them out at the Stockroom---if you haven't been to their site, it is worth the visit. The harness does the samething as the cock ring, but also stretches your balls, and for me it is more comfortable. My SO really enjoys "her package" harnessed.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

There certainly is something there. I don't care sufficiently to look it up, so I'll defer to you and fall back upon "if memory serves" and the coda, "as so often it does not."

It's a delight knowing of your experience. Thanks.

The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum.

http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/not90714.htm

just for you. you can too find it from the outside.

 

[iansearchof]

Darlin' Lovely person, I thought I was graceful and not argumentative. However, a better source would be Grey's my copy of which is in the office and my medical license in my other pants.

May I kiss---pick the location--and make up? Please...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Darlin' Lovely person, I thought I was graceful and not argumentative. However, a better source would be Grey's my copy of which is in the office and my medical license in my other pants.

May I kiss---pick the location--and make up? Please...

you werent being argumentative, just trying to tell me I was wrong when I wasnt. I dont pretend to be an expert, there's just some things that I do know for sure.

 

[mikeofokc]

I got no dog in this fight

I remind everyone that we all are learning. Our bodies change and our minds change and their is always more for us to learn about ourselves, our partners and sexual pleasures for both.

We are like the blind men and the elephant. Where one blind man touches a different part of the elephant to descibe what it is like. The trunk, tusk,leg, ear, tail, and its side all had a different feel. So its not wrong to say the elephant felt like a snake, spear,tree trunk, fan, rope or a wall. Its just none is exactly right. Share the info folks, its how we learn.

The prostrate gland and the "taint" as we call it are two different things. The prostrate is deeper inside and the taint is the area of skin between the groin and rectum. Taint pussy or taint asshole is how us Okie boys learned it. Although stimulation of either may produce a very similar result as I believe may have been the intent of our members.

All men are different. Some like one, both or neither stimulated. It really dont matter what others like do, its what you like and the taint is easy place to start because its easy to reach and doesnt have those homophobic issues that stimulation of the prostrate may have.

Regarding cock rings, I would suggest caution. The purpose its normally used for is to keep blood in the penis so the man stays hard. Its a more common in the gay community than strait I believe, but Im not taking a survey. Retaining blood or limiting its flow has all sorts of risk associated with it as you can well imagine. Proper sizing and use is not taught anywhere I know of although there will be many self appointed experts. There is no safety release and the glow of a cutting torch between my legs at 2am in the morning is not my idea of fun. Stick with the taint and prostrate rubbing and leave cbt to the professional wack-o's.

Btw, I am a professional wacko and my friend rosie is my wacko partner. Im just not into cbt or electo shock therapy. Although every thursday at 2pm sharp nurse Cratchet and her merry band of white coated thugs always enjoy zapping me but whats a few thousand volts compared to a cackling girlfriend and her portable torch at 2am.

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

Personally, I like the cock ring on occasion. It applies extra clitoral stimulation while I'm on top (my favorite place to be).

For the ones made out of silicone... LUBRICATE!

No, not true. Dangerous (as already stated within this thread)

I agree with the anal toys. My husband won't agree to them yet, but he has allowed a single finger. Progress, lol. I've been told by several men that "massaging the prostate" from the inside increases the man's orgasm tenfold.

Pleasure sleeves are fun. Especially the ones you can see through. Giving a blowjob while using a pleasure sleeve is rather interesting. Must lubricate... can't stress that enough.

Adam and Eve is a wonderful site. Check it out.

what is a pleasure sleeve... sounds very very interesting!! do tell!!

 

[angelicminx]

what is a pleasure sleeve... sounds very very interesting!! do tell!!

It's just as it sounds. A sleeve made of silicone (other materials too, but his is silicone), with a hole at both ends. It's considered a masturbation tool. The one I bought for my husband looks like a pussy on one end. The first time it was used, we used it together. I was became very aroused when I could see his cock inside it. "So that's what it looks like when it's inside me... wow." I believe were my exact words.

 

[mikeofokc]

. . . with a hole at both ends. It's considered a masturbation tool. The one I bought for my husband looks like a pussy on one end.

What will they think of next? Really why? Oh well, boys and their toys I guess. Rosie will be so jealous.

Btw, if its pussy on one end whats it look like on the other? Im just curious, Im not long enough to make it through the tunnel of the real ones. I tried the other tunnels but didnt know which ones connected and which ones didnt.