Clitoral Orgasm

[KnightWing]

My wife is "clit" oriented

She wont get off at all without clit stimulation. Her breasts are sensitive and nipples responsive. "G-spot", not a biggie. Has had orgasms during intercourse which she says were the best.
Anal.... not unless you want your dick cut off!

Lately she has not been interested in sex at all. Even made the comment that she could go completely without it. Soooooo...

good luck, LD.

Wing

PS if you need a teacher....

 

[AStormyOne]

I have never had an orgasm by nipples alone. I am definitely interested in those nipple clamps though. They sound fun! I have had orgasms anally, g-spot, and clitorally. I am only 25, so if it gets better as I get older, well, I can't wait until I am 60!!!

Storm

 

[perks]

a friend of mine introduced me to wooden clothespins..<cheap nipple clamps>....lmao
the base, the tip and a tug...put me over the edge.
unfortunately, I have yet to use them with a partner.


and ultimately cumming IS a learning thing. I mean think about it...aren't there some people that turn you on just by seeing their name? a few choice words...a smack on the ass, a tug on the nipple. One kiss. Yes, I think it is Pavlovian to some extent...because I get close just thinking about it. It's a learned response. But, you have to know your body intimately in order to get to that point.

perks

 

[KnightWing]

perks... you mentioned "just by seeing their name"
Yeppir... yours!

Stay safe,

Wing

 

[AStormyOne]

Interesting. I guess I never thought about orgasms being learned. I have been able to get right to the brink just by imagining something, but never took the big plunge. My main problem is that I have a bit of a problem with masturbation. I try and try, but never bring myself to orgasm. I have 2 little boys, so it is hard to find time to practice, but <shrug> So far, I haven't been able to master masturbation.

So does this mean I will never learn to cum? When and how I want?

Storm

 

[Elizabeth]

Clitoral Orgasm ....

It's not the only way I can orgasm but I think it's the best way. Vaginal orgasms are deeper and longer lasting for me but the clit only ones are tingly and head-spinning. Nipple play only increases either of these orgasms, for me.

 

[erosman]

Pavlovian !?

Perkster...that's intellectually intense!


and..Storm,

I would love to be your practice buddy

 

[AStormyOne]

Erosman.. you DO know I need LOTS and LOTS of practice right?


Storm

 

[perks]

PUUUUURRRR!

perks... you mentioned "just by seeing their name"
Yeppir... yours!

Stay safe,

Wing

thanks sugah,
anything I can do to help you out, you know

 

[perks]

intellectually intense?

Pavlovian !?

Perkster...that's intellectually intense!

but of course, sugah. Afterall the mind IS the greatest sexual organ of the body.

 

[erosman]

the drenched veil of modesty does not hide your keen interest...

Erosman.. you DO know I need LOTS and LOTS of practice right?


Storm

Lots and Lots! and Bushels and Bundles! and...

Practice makes perfect

 

[AStormyOne]

Re: the drenched veil of modesty does not hide your keen interest...

Lots and Lots! and Bushels and Bundles! and...

Practice makes perfect

And I do want to be perfect, so we better get to practicing!

Storm

 

[Andreina]

so if it gets better as I get older, well, I can't wait until I am 60!!!

Storm

i shall be happy if my nipples dont touch the floor by the age of 60

 

[AStormyOne]

i shall be happy if my nipples dont touch the floor by the age of 60

I wonder if nipple clamps stretch your breasts? Do they then pull them down more the older you get? Hmmmmm

Storm

 

[perks]

i shall be happy if my nipples dont touch the floor by the age of 60

the number one reason I don't get nipple rings...don't want them to be toe rings....lmao

 

[BigDawg69]

Perky's Toe Rings

Yeah I have similar reasons for not getting a Prince Albert.

Just kidding

 

[perks]

Re: Perky's Toe Rings

Yeah I have similar reasons for not getting a Prince Albert.

Just kidding

HOT DAMN!!!!!<giggle>

 

[Cherry]

I'm just interested how many women can only cum through stimulation of their clit (like me for example)

That's the start for me, building higher and higher ... but, for the EARTH SHATTERING ones, I require penile penetration.

 

[Andreina]

by the time im 60 i prolly just have to lift the hem of my skirt to show guys my nipples

 

[llee69]

Ok I am of the fortunate that can cum with my nipples being played with. Being a guy though, for me its a massive one. Takes a while, normally need to be tied up so that i cant reach down and start stroking myself... My lover not touching me down there either. just using fingers, tounge, vibrator, clamps, wax etc on my nipples.

I have not had many like this but WOW! Wipe down the wall, ceiling, bodies!

I hate to hear that you arent having much luck in this field Lilred. Dont dispair though and keep practicing whenever possible. You are not the first female I have known who has had this problem early inher life.

Maybe I am getting etheral now but sometimes I think that societial training early in life can scar women. IE at some point somehow you are told through actions/words that it is not allright to enjoy womanhood. You are to be a little girl your whole life and not become sexually aware. Maybe I am out in left feild on this thinking?

As for the guys who say that you just havent been with the right guy yet, I bet they say that to died inthe wool lesbians... "I can convert you". Yea whatever! Anyone who says this is too full of themselves to know anything more than how to get themself off.

We are here to learn, as soon was we think we know it all we have learned nothing. Hell after 20 years I am still learning. Each person is differant in their "fit" with me. What might get 1 person off in seconds flat might not do a thing for the next.

 

[llee69]

CRAP!!!

I meant to call you LilDevil, Not Lilred...

Dog sitting for a dog named Red, really!!!

 

[fallon2]

All the Above

Very interesting comments from the ladies . . . but I do think that there is a reason why God gave us fingers and a tongue as well as a the rest of our equipment. I have found that fingers and a tongue on the breasts before I work my way "down" start the whole process towards a mind blowing orgasm for the woman.
Ladies . . . your thoughts????

 

[perks]

Maybe I am getting etheral now but sometimes I think that societial training early in life can scar women. IE at some point somehow you are told through actions/words that it is not allright to enjoy womanhood. You are to be a little girl your whole life and not become sexually aware. Maybe I am out in left feild on this thinking?



no you're quite correct.....learned behavior....sex is naughty....be a good girl.....

where oh where did I go wrong....lmao

 

[Andreina]

call me unlucky but i havent had a single lover yet who was good with his tongue (what i find really depressing)

 

[perks]

call me unlucky but i havent had a single lover yet who was good with his tongue (what i find really depressing)

holy god..I need to give you some phone numbers....lmao

oddly enough..the best oral I had was from a woman..and once I experienced that....I could ask my male lovers for it.

Men tend to be too gentle when they lick...but when they get it when they get all crazy..sucking...teeth grazing.....sucking harder....using fingers....holyyyyy fuck.......mm hmmmmm it's all good.

perks